posted October 01, 2009 04:59 PM         

my friend has a new girlfriend and she is so bitchy, it's cringe-worthy

posted October 01, 2009 05:33 PM         

Mercury/Mars can be combative, sharp-tongued, argumentative. Virgo can be critical, Gemini can be cruel. etc, generalisation, etc.

It's good you have your friend's back but maybe he puts up with her flaws because overall he makes her happy. There's always the chance that he finds sharp and witty what you find bitchy. One man's poison is another man's food, plenty more cliches in the sea, etc.

posted October 01, 2009 05:37 PM         

I agree with you 100 percent.

Raymond

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"Nothing matters absolutely;
the truth is it only matters relatively"

posted October 01, 2009 05:49 PM         

however i just witnessed her being really unnecessarily bitchy toward a friend of HIS on her FB wall and i was shocked.

posted October 01, 2009 06:10 PM         

Yes, quite possibly. She basically torn the poor woman to pieces and then stamped on her lol

posted October 01, 2009 08:24 PM         

I've seen Mercury/Mars square in a person and they were/are very humble and down-to-earth, so I don't know. It's once you get on their bad side that their horns show.

I would think like a water moon in conflict with a Mars aspect might make for crankiness or something. That can be moody. But how far someone would go with it isn't something I'm sure of.
Some people are bitchy without an excuse of aspects at all

posted October 01, 2009 09:43 PM         

i swear, this girl she tore this other girl apart
She said she was middle aged and probably in her menopause so everyone should feel sorry for her, and that she was hopeless with men and she would never find a man because she was too old.

posted October 01, 2009 11:44 PM         

exactly,

that's why I stay away from listing certain aspect indicators for negative personality traits. I also do the same for positive personality traits. free will is the ultimate factor.

It's this type of stuff that gets Astrology ridiculed by skeptics.

Raymond

Raymond

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"Nothing matters absolutely;
the truth is it only matters relatively"

posted October 02, 2009 08:31 AM         

** She said she was middle aged and probably in her menopause so everyone should feel sorry for her, and that she was hopeless with men and she would never find a man because she was too old.**
btw: what's Saturn doing in her chart ..
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posted October 02, 2009 12:16 PM         

Aggression shows through ..

1 .. cold, silent hatred
2 .. criticalness
3 .. self-destructiveness
4 .. sarcasm
5 .. irritation
6 .. pique
7 .. grumbling
8 .. brooding
9 .. vicarious enjoyment of violence
10 .. sneering
11 .. aggressive fantasies
12 .. passive sabotage
13 .. bitterness
15 .. unreasoning dissent
16 .. sulkiness
17 .. vengefulness
18 .. bitchiness

.. So, if you sulk a lot then you are masking aggression. Just look at the body posture of the sulker. Often he will have his arms folded tightly pressed in front of the chest or solar plexus and is bent over with a broody look on his face. His arms are wrapped into each other as if they are being held back from hitting out. Or sometimes the sulker's and hands just dangle lifelessly, hanging down from drooping shoulders like useless appendages.

.. Criticalness can be aggressive. Bitchiness can mask both anger and pain. Sarcasm can mask anger and resentment. Self-destructive behaviour can be anger turned inward.

.. You can detect aggression or anger in yourself when you start taking 'swipes' at other people. If you are holding onto negativity and hate, you will find it difficult to be loving. You send out little poison barbs directed their way. A wife may be angry at her husband at breakfast but instead of being up-front about her anger, she complains irritably about the way he leaves bits of his toast on the butter.
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.. I just thought of another way Saturn is aggressive. By house, Saturn indicates where we are frightened or fearful of trouble. As a consequence, we might feel the need to be aggressive or defensive in that sphere. Take Saturn in the 7th house of partnerships. If you have that placement, you are vulnerable and sensitive to being hurt in that area. Because of your vulnerability, you may want to control others so that they don't do the thing you are afraid of them doing. You will get angry with them if they over-step these limits because then they threaten to bring up your pain and weakness. So, if you have Saturn in the 7th and you are afraid that your partner might run off with somebody else, you will try to stop them flirting with others. If the partner does flirt, you will get angry and bolshy because he or she has overstepped the limit of what you can take. But your anger is really masking your fear and pain. Bitter words can be a cry for help. The Greek God of war, our friend Ares, had Fear and Fright for his squires. There is a definite link between fear and anger in this respect. Also Pan - a Saturnine or Capricornian figure - gives us the word 'panic'. We control out of fear and get angry if others won't co-operate.

posted October 02, 2009 06:16 PM         

Here is her chart - i can't find out her ascendant.