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Topic: Jealousy grading:)
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Adriana
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posted October 02, 2009 05:33 AM
 
I just thought I would grade the signs after how jealous they are "known" to be. This is just for fun:PScorpio
Taurus, Cancer
Aries, Leo
Capricorn
Sagittarius
Virgo, Libra
Phisces
Gemini, Aquarius Do you agree or disagree with this?? lol  IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted October 02, 2009 05:48 AM
Are we talking sun signs alone? Because I don't think it's going to tell you enough.
I've got a Virgo sun with a Scorpio Venus and Mars/rising Taurus. I am disgustingly jealous.
I do think the Scorpio/Taurus does it. And my Aries Moon gets jealous too, but it's more of an attention thing. EDIT: The fixed signs will usually be more jealous - generally. Fixed signs on the Moon, Venus, Mars would contribute. IP: Logged |
StarrofVenusGirl
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posted October 02, 2009 09:50 AM
Virgo Sun (not known to be particularly jealous) but combine that with my Scorpio Venus, Taurus Moon, and Leo Mars and yeah...What MVM said. Jealous rages galore! Can't rely on sun sign alone. ------------------
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belgz
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posted October 02, 2009 09:57 AM
I have never been jealous. Ever! ------------------
•' •.♥♫♫´°°♫ • Life is Beautiful •.♥.•♫°°´♫♫ ♥ • •Sun• Cancer
•Moon• Gemini
•Mars• Cancer
•Mercury• Cancer
•Venus• Leo •••Virgo Rising••• IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted October 02, 2009 10:36 AM
I'm not jealousy.
Leo sun
Leo asc
gemini moon
virgo merk
gemini venus
cancer mars
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Lara
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posted October 02, 2009 10:46 AM
I disagree that Taurus is jealous.Possessive yes, jealous no.  IP: Logged |
T
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posted October 02, 2009 10:50 AM
I'm a Taurus that doesnt get jealous either.IP: Logged |
mir
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posted October 02, 2009 10:55 AM
It's difficult to understand why some people can't be jealous or aren't even familiar with this feeling..I can be extremely jealous, sun leo
Moon scorp
mars aqua
venus cancer (29'53, so maybe there is also some Leo-influence)
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T
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posted October 02, 2009 10:59 AM
haha I almost wrote that it's difficult for me to understand how people feel jealousy.IP: Logged |
mir
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posted October 02, 2009 11:05 AM
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aquarian/scorpio
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posted October 02, 2009 11:26 AM
I'm jealous very rarely and it only ever slightly but maybe leaning to more possesive to the point that I like to know that the person in question is not going to be frivolous about the relationship. I can be suspicious and I would prefer if a person did not give me a reason to be.Sun Aquarius
Moon Scorpio
Venus Sagittarius
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scrappydog
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posted October 02, 2009 11:32 AM
I can be extrememly jealous and possesive and I hate it, but it never goes away.
libra sun conj pluto
cappy moon square saturn and trine venus
mercury scorpio
venus virgo
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Diana
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posted October 02, 2009 12:36 PM
So weird, because I was just thinking about this before I logged on. I was thinking how I am possessive and not jealous. I have a taurus AC and saturn (taurus) conjunct AC. I feel my saturn is very strong. It's the only planet conjunct an angle. Sometimes I feel more like a taurus than an aquarius, but my aqua is still there too. I'm like an aqua-taurus. IP: Logged |
aerialcircus
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posted October 02, 2009 12:55 PM
I'm never jealous in my relationships, ever. I'm much, much too busy trying to control every facet of my life to be jealous.  Asc: Gemini
Sun: Aries, H11
Moon: Capricorn, H8 (conjunct Juno & S. Node)
Venus: Pisces, H9
Mars: Libra, rx, H4 (conjunct Saturn) IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted October 02, 2009 01:49 PM
LOL Aerial!!Diana - yeah, def more possessive taureans are! I have a male friend who has been married to a taurean for 36 years. He says she is possessive but has never been jealous of all the women who throw themselves at him! (he's a very sexy scorp) IP: Logged |
savanna20
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posted October 02, 2009 02:21 PM
I think it's a matter of insecurity...IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted October 02, 2009 02:43 PM
Aquarius/Libra Moon/Pisces Venus. Jealous to the point of psychosis. Sure she acts cool, and does her disappearing acts, but she's watching him. Hates everyone in his life, friends, kids, even siblings, nieces and nephews. The way she sees it, they covet time and attention that should be showered on her.I don't even know what jealously is. But, I can "feel" if the person I'm attracted/interested in has lust for another. That disturbs me. Even when I try to rationalize it, "you're being irrational," I can't shake this feeling in my chest...I want revenge. A strange, comical sort of revenge...lure them away from this person with then freeze them cold. Light flirtations and such I don't mind, we're individuals after all, and I don't want a clone, puppet, or a cling-on. Gemini IP: Logged |
Taurean_Scorpion
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From: Santa Monica, CA
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posted October 02, 2009 04:21 PM
I'm very possessive... I'm a Taurus/Scorpio.
I think Aries, Taurus, and Scorpio belong at the top of the list for sure.IP: Logged |
Astra
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posted October 02, 2009 05:55 PM
My three most dominant signs in my chart are Gemini, Capricorn and Scorpio. I rarely get jealous. I think I've been jealous once or twice in my entire life and even then the jealousy was only very slight.I think people with a water venus can be jealous, particularly if the venus is in Scorpio. IP: Logged |
pire
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posted October 02, 2009 08:00 PM
nine, funny, i'm aqua/libra moon and venus pisces too and your last comment feels like a punch in the the stomach, or the face, or the sacral chakra, just everywhere; "Light flirtations and such I don't mind, we're individuals after all, and I don't want a clone, puppet, or a cling-on." i don't know if it's possessive or jealous, u tell me. all i know is that i rather be alone than be with someone that doesnt love me and lust me 100%; i could accept less but that is only if i love him less than 100% myself; then, i would love him in a detached manner, but we wouldn't have the intime connection that i'm looking for; i know it's impossible to be the only object of desire of someone else for a whole lifetime. i'm imperfect myself, so i can be ok with him finding someone else attractive, or interesting or charming, but if i know that he adds lust or love to it, then there i feel hurt. hurt bc i strive to be that devoted myself, and bc i KNOW that i can not and would not prevent him from going for it all the way, that doesn't mean just sex. and it leaves me vulnerable right now i'm working on other issues; i will address the problem thoroughly later in life, but my position right now is NO to any relationship for that matter. i want to live in the moment, and will have some flings but they will remain casual, no strings. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted October 02, 2009 09:13 PM
There is no such thing as 'light' flirtation in my book. I've been told I am flirtatious but I think it's because I'm open and I am sensual, so maybe I emit an unintentional vibe - BUT, if I AM flirting with someone consciously, you can bet your bottom dollar that it's seduction on my part. And I want it to go somewhere - so it will go where I want it to go (and that won't be to a cafe for a cappuccino). Maybe that's why I don't take flirtations lightly if another does so. Pire, I feel you. If I am with someone, I am focused on them. There is no other. I'm very all-or-nothing in how I love. I might see another person as attractive, but I wouldn't be attracted TO them. And if I was, there would be a problem. It would mean I don't want to be with who I am in a relationship with anymore.
Maybe that's unrealistic or whatever, but I have a very, very hard time accepting someone I love giving that kind of attention to another. I would make me absolutely crazy with rage and jealousy. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
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posted October 02, 2009 09:20 PM
What do you mean exactly by jealous?This has always intrigued me. Cause I'm thinking if your jealous of someone, in a way, you sort of wish you were them. And that would be more envious then jealous, right? If thats the case, I would say that I'm not jealous at all, because I don't want to be, or be in anyone elses shoes but my own. Could be worse in those shoes. Now posessive, like over your lover/spouse, meaning they belong to you and you don't want anyone else to want them. That seems creepy to me. I would think you would want to be with someone who is desirable to others. That would keep you interested, IMHO. Then again, some people kind of put you in a position to make you exposed to jealousy, by pitting you against another person, That would say, be a rival for your loved ones affections. Again, creepy. I'm just rambling as usual, this is one of those topics that has always intrigued me, but I don't really understand it, or where it comes from. I think it comes from within mostly, but other people do have an effect on how much of it you exibit. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted October 02, 2009 09:28 PM
Gypsee, who the hell knows, I can't explain it really lol.Jealousy and possessiveness go hand in hand for me. My feelings toward my lover are proprietary feelings. Yes, they belong to ME. I know this sounds very un-evolved or whatever, but it's my feeling. I've tried to work through it, but it's not budging - it's who I am. It's a flaw. It's part of my wound. And I'm not about to keep busting my my own ass to try and get rid of this part of me, because I've tried and it's not worked, so I just need to accept it about myself. And who I am with needs to as well. If they don't, they can walk. I keep the feelings in check. My feelings might be unreasonable, but I am not unreasonable. I am conscious, and I am, once I get past my insane moments, always willing to take responsibility for how I feel. And that's the best I can do, so it should be enough. If I am with you and you are flirting with another person, expressing a little TOO much personal interest toward them, then there will be blood ....
Granted, I won't say anything. I clam right up when I am jealous. I shut down. And then I emit the most vile, bitter feelings which cannot be ignored within a 20-mile radius. It's BAD. The alternative is that I go completely nuts on you and say a series of things which I will regret and may cause a real schism in the relationship. So pick or choose, which reaction do you prefer? lol. My jealousy is a very personal thing. It's something I see as mine and not having to do with the other person. If it gets set off, it's because it triggers feelings of abandonment for me. Then I have to sit in silence and sort out if what I feel is 'real' or if it's something which has simply been randomly triggered. And this is very hard to do.
I will hardly ever say I am jealous though.
The only times I have said something to the other, it's been because there really wasn't something 'right' in the situation.
There was indeed reason for my feeling. So it's an unpleasant thing, but I'm afraid it's just something I cannot change.
Maybe over time if I am with someone who I trust then the wound starts to heal. But it's such a catch 22, isn't it.
And sometimes I think, it's not a wound. It's a scar. Scars just don't go away. You have to live with them. IP: Logged |
MsCandeh
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From: Australia
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted October 02, 2009 10:15 PM
I was having a ponder about what jealously means as I was reading all of this...If we are talking about envy .. meaning ... you want what someone else has and act jealous they have those things.. then no. I have never ever been envious/jealous of what other people have and I honestly can't even fathom feeling like that. That could be down to the way I was brought up not that I am saying I had an easy childhood but I don't do the whole keeping up with the Jones's thing. I'm more focussed on what I want out of my life and my own achievements. In the past other people have acted spitefully towards me because of what I 'have' (I don't think I have a lot!) and when I was younger because of my dad and what he earns ... I had no choice over this. I own my house thanks to my dad helping out.. and people tend to act strange if they know this so I don't tell anyone. :/ It Hurts a lot when people start acting this way especially when they are your friends or boyfriends.. people you care about. I have had friends/boyfriends who have more than me and also less than me and I only care about the person ... that's it. If we are talking about jealousy as in .. you are giving that person a little toooo much attention .. then yes! But I have gotten better in time. Something I have struggled with my whole life. However - this only applies to relationships. Friendships.. I am totally different in that I don't get jealous over the time they give to others. In fact when a friend starts getting jealous of the time I give to others it sort of scares me and I back off the friendship/cool it off - This is absolutely because of my Aqua rising! I am always there for my friends at any time of day or night, but I don't put expectation on them. But if I love you and we are in a relationship and you are giving someone else toooo much attention then there's a problem. I will give my all in a relationship and would feel very hurt if my partner was giving someone else just as much attention as I was getting. I don't care how lovely, friendly and nice you are .. I am your number 1 girl XD .. and you have to let people know that too lol So whether that's possessiveness or jealously I'm not sure either.. I guess a bit of both rolled into one. On the other hand... I want a guy who is a little jealous/possessive as to me that shows they loooove me ...but not overly so.. as I have been accused of flirting with people when I am just acting my normal everyday self - being accused of flirting/cheating is the most frustrating thing because I am extremely Loyal and would never and have never cheated on anyone. My last BF - a Gemini - you would think wouldn't get jealous. Well this guy puts that myth to rest! But! He is Taurus Rising, Taurus Mercury, Taurus Venus, Taurus Mars, Aqua Moon - quite fixed and possibly more stubborn than this little fixed duck! The annoying thing was he didn't accuse me of anything until after he broke it off (which took me by surprise)!!! It is the most crappy position to be in! We're still working on things though even now.. he won't let me go/move on (he now knows that I never did anything behind his back!) and we had something very special. *sigh*
*shakes fist at jealousy* Aqua Rising
Taurus Sun
Taurus Venus
Scorpio Mars
Libra Moon
To add on to what Gypsee said... I give a big THUMSDOWN  to people who try to purposely make you jealous by pitting you against another person. That's not cool! And very manipulative and hurtful for all involved.
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MyVirgoMask
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posted October 02, 2009 11:01 PM
It's the ones who don't say they ever get jealous which I am suspicious of.
Yes, I understand some people really aren't jealous for the most part.
But I've had experiences where I've been with men who are violently jealous - they just disown that part of themselves because they think it's beneath them.
A little jealousy is always welcome. We're all human here IP: Logged |
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