posted October 26, 2009 07:32 PM         

you don't look that young to me, i have a baby face"

very short hair and facial hair can do that.

it's different from having longer hair and no facial hair.

that's the point I was making earlier.

I used to wear my hair much longer on top.
when I was in high school and after high school before I joined the navy, I have worn long hair at times. I had it straight. I had it straightened a lot. I didn't wear a beard. I only had a mustache. In the navy,beard wasn't allowed.

Raymond

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"Nothing matters absolutely;
the truth is it only matters relatively"

posted October 26, 2009 07:41 PM         

right Raymond? lol"

exactly!

that's the point that I was trying to make

you do look older with some facial hair

facial hair can help make feminine and/or young looking males more masculine and/or older looking.
It won't work for all males. It might not work for most males either.

It definitely has worked for me. My looks can vary depending on hairstyle,facial hair. In pictures, it can depend on poses. if a person puts his head down a bit, it give an illusion of a less rounded,oval face and the chin can look more square.

I have an oval face with high cheekbones. My mother who was cosmetologist/hairdresser told me that.

many men wear beards to cover up a weak looking chin too.

Raymond

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"Nothing matters absolutely;
the truth is it only matters relatively"

posted October 26, 2009 07:42 PM         

And of course, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

posted October 26, 2009 07:45 PM         

here's my dad's chart. as well i'm a sun in cancer in the 11th house with mars in taurus in the 10th house. i think for me i'm more influenced by my personal upbringing than astrology in what kind of a man i prefer.

posted October 26, 2009 07:52 PM         

His sag stellium is right on mine, his moon is on my merc, and his jupiter is on my MC.

haha. Too funny..

posted October 26, 2009 07:56 PM         

I am a believer in astro-genetics. I believe that the natal chart actually reflects the genetic makeup of a person. Synchronicity. I feel that genetics go beyond the regular chart that astrologers look at. Declinations,Right Ascension,minor aspects, centaurs,transneptunians,asteroids,nodes of objects besides the Moon,and midpoint pictures could also be looked at for possible genetic factors. Even the harmonic charts.

with Sun in Cancer, Mars in Taurus combination, you can be attracted to men that are highly sensitive,emotional,nurturing as well as security-oriented,practical,steadfast.

Raymond

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"Nothing matters absolutely;
the truth is it only matters relatively"

posted October 26, 2009 07:58 PM         

what is a weak chin? :S

stopandstare,

quick glance, i can't see really any similarity, maybe the fact he has saturn and moon on the venus, i have that but not the same aspects.

edit*

i googled a weak chin, hmm, iv seen some guys with Really weak chins before, and a girl once too, she virtually had no chin!

i think my chin might be on the slightly weaker side, maybe i need to lose a bit more to help lol

posted October 26, 2009 08:04 PM         

glaucus: thanks for sharing the insights about what i would be attracted to. i'm not familiar or don't pay close attention to my sun or my mars when i think about what i'm attracted to. i almost always rely on my moon or venus though i'm not sure why. but what you described is definitely what i look for.

about astro-genetics: hmm...i think it's very interesting.

just for kicks here's my chart then

posted October 26, 2009 08:09 PM         

that makes sense to me

Moon is about one's emotional needs and what makes them feel secure

in the book, THE LUMINARIES by Liz Greene and Howard Sasportas, there is a discussion about how Moon figures strongly in relationships.

Venus is the planet of love,attraction,and relationships.

In Astrology, it is said that the placements of the males' Moon and Venus have to do with the type of females that they are attracted to.
The aspects to the Moon and Venus modify the placements of the Moon and Venus can also be factors.

the anima - a male's ideal image of female that he might project onto a female.

I tend to use narrower orbs.
I can't tell the orbs on the aspects in that chart because the degrees,minutes are not included in it. I don't like those astro.com synastry charts for the same reason.

Raymond

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"Nothing matters absolutely;
the truth is it only matters relatively"

posted October 26, 2009 08:23 PM         

it depends on the culture i guess...her we like latino men.with strong men features,and looking like jonnhy deep ( irreverent and original)and with a mix of jphn reys meyers ( i love Tudor...that king could boss me around like he pleased hihihi)and probably adding keanu reeves....

posted October 26, 2009 08:28 PM         

i think it helps me that my moon and venus are the same. it's like i know what i want and who i want. sorry this is veering off away from the subject...but yes i know definitely that i prefer and need a more feminine guy. maybe not exactly like that guy in the computer composite, but i prefer a guy like that.

posted October 26, 2009 08:37 PM         

go to Horoscope Chart Drawings
go to Extended Chart Selection

Raymond

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"Nothing matters absolutely;
the truth is it only matters relatively"

posted October 26, 2009 08:43 PM         

the demeanor and expression on his face reminds me of myself. my eye brows are thicker and longer though. and my lips fuller and chin more narrow.

posted October 26, 2009 08:48 PM         

the 1st one is of jonnhy deep.he looks very similar to keannu in some photos...i always loved the looks of these two men:i dont know if it is the chins...more the way they seem to be by their eyes i guess...

a flavour of mistery and inner battles that makes them look vulnerable at times...

posted October 26, 2009 09:00 PM         

does this work for you?

posted October 26, 2009 09:12 PM         

The Moon oppose Neptune indicates the emotional need for sensitivity in relationships,especially with the emotions being highly sensitive.

Mars sextile Mercury might indicate the possible attraction to a male that is intellectual,objective,detached,communicative. It's like Mars in Gemini.

personally,I think people mix up Gemini with Cancer. I think that it's because many people with Sun in Gemini have the planets close to the Sun (Mercury,Venus) in Cancer like my Mom does.

your Aquarius descendant can indicate aloof,unemotionally expressive,intellectual,unconventional partners.

Raymond

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"Nothing matters absolutely;
the truth is it only matters relatively"

posted October 26, 2009 10:02 PM         

the male you described are the only males i attract/am attracted to. doesn't matter if it's some guy in my one class or that man in my building...they all are as you describe: "intellectual,objective,detached,communicative." though myself i can be accused of being like that as well but less extreme. your description of my descendant...same thing. i seem to just love those aloof and unemotional and inexpressive types. but i admit, i would freak out if a guy who was too outwardly emotional or forward with his emotions. bu then, i've never had a guy who was direct and forward so who knows how i'd feel about it. however, things are just understood between me and my friends and family. i don't go gushing or hugging or kissing with my affection. i don't like being all outwardly emotional. it's annoying.

i have a male friend who is extremely sensitive, probably as sensitive as these guys i attract, but he wears his emotions on his sleeve. we are very similar and are in tune with each other's feelings except i'm the one who remains on the surface calm and cool and lighthearted. i can put on a good face and save it for later but he can't. and speaking of gemini duality, most people would think i'd break first because i'm always perceived as that innocent or nice one that needs to be protected.

i prefer my men to be more like me or my dad and just be more cool about their ultra sensitivity and emotionalness. so yeah i like my men to look more feminine hence this topic, but the way they act, i still prefer they be more like stereotypical men. in control of their emotions or unemotional.

and you are right, people can mix up cancers and geminis and vice versa. a lot of people will pick me to be gemini. i really can act one way and then be another. i'm sensitive and emotional but prefer to be contained about it or i have the control to be contained about it. that's why sometimes i hate reading about cancer because i see and feel myself being very much like a gemini. must be my moon. but then i have a lot of dominating cancer qualities as well.

posted October 26, 2009 10:25 PM         

We have very similar taste in men. All of those men are on my "hot" list.

posted October 27, 2009 01:18 AM         

and i love masculine facial traits, so i guess i'm not a modern woman.

pretty funny though.