posted November 04, 2009 07:28 PM         

It was only 30 mins with the fast train... he still did it nonetheless.

Yet for some reason I hated him instantly... I don't understand what happened but I felt like a strong dislike towards him.

Like it was running in my veins. We had communication problems instantly, he even asked me after a bit why I felt so uncomfortable with him.

He is a gemini with sun, venus and mercury in gemini.

I have noticed that his sun and venus exactly oppose...my lilith.

I don't get it I even sent him a raging email telling him I hated him (my friend told me I was insane since he was sending me nice emails).

I don't get it since ... we have mercury conjunct.

Is lilith a sign of strong dislike? I once had my moon conjunct my lover's lilith and vice versa we were strongly attracted to each others but couldn't stop being mean to one another.

posted November 04, 2009 07:35 PM         

my biggest dislike was towards a Sagittarius and a Scorpio.

but this was just 'beef' lol

my Lilith is in Libra, i can't recall hating a Libra or Aries.

and in either case,

i have never experienced what you have described, an 'instant' dislike towoards another, i have quickly based on vibes grown to not like a person, but not 'instantly' like it was in my veins.

posted November 04, 2009 07:41 PM         

In a way, i think he likes me being mean to him... it's just weird.

the friend i was talking about it is also a Gemini and told me to ignore the correspondence since it's really starting off on the wrong foot (it's weird since ... the friend i'm talking to is born the same day as jean- the guy i seem to dislike (not the same year) but they have the same placements (venus en sun).

My friend's moon is in leo and jean's moon is in either capricorn/aquarius. In any case it's saturnian.

About the email, I admit it, I don't get it either. I just thought I would tell him what I thought of him clearly and the word 'hate' came instantly.

posted November 04, 2009 07:57 PM         

Notice that I don't find the concept of hate sex strange (it happens all the time between people who have push/pull relationships), but I do find it strange between people who just met physically.

posted November 04, 2009 09:00 PM         

and he begged! i thought begging/desperateness was a TURN-OFF to women.

can you post up the synastry as a chart?

I wonder if i take you home, would you still be in love baby?

posted November 05, 2009 12:03 AM         

Now two and a half years later we are still together.

posted November 05, 2009 02:27 AM         

I had one recently but the situation didn't allow me to follow it and run off fast. In time, like me, you might regret not having done so.

posted November 05, 2009 04:38 AM         

The reasons may not be clear in the tropical but will be easily found in the Draconic Synastry.
Asc sq Asc in either charts may create a "hate" factor. There are many squares in the tropical mentiond, but the orbs are not too tight.

Draconic Mars trine Eros for example will allow sex. Begging by a guy is not a turn off for natives who have controlling aspects to the Moon, or in some cases, Draconic Moon in 6th.

posted November 05, 2009 02:18 PM         

But to top it all we had non stop sex for more than three hours (i don't understand that either).

Anyway... maybe we're only physically attracted and that's about it.

posted November 05, 2009 02:36 PM         

But the way you put it: Did you try to get him out of your system somehow?

If that is the case, it definitely sounds karmic ridden to me. Like you recognized him, but you didnīt want to.

You really don`t like him?
Only you can answer that truthfully to yourself.

But the vehemence of your reaction, it seems a bit weird.

posted November 05, 2009 05:35 PM         

As objective as possible

You met someone, had an instant dislike, yet there was a big enough pull to break down the female programming, and hence, your knickers/big pants/no pants?

Not sure if accurate, yet will take it as it reads, for his natal.

Him Leo rising and you Gemini rising brings a sextile (at the worst) between Sun/Mercury/Venus. Moon/Mars are semi-sextile, with Jupiters sextile. Obviously, the outers are similar, making a very compatable pair of natals at 1st look.

All the planets are spread out in each natal, which does mean a few squares and oppositions.

Not seen the composite yet.

The really positive aspects for you are Jupiter and Mercury just past Jupiter, which is a great time for meeting a long-term partner (it does happen these days)

Short-term - dating, your 1st and 5th rulers are past the worst aspect going (opposition) with your 5th ruler (Venus in Aries)

Going on the latter aspect, you might be able to pass it off as a bad date and assume the worst is over.

The last point to bring up is sexual attraction...

Your Mercury in Gemini (1st) and Saturn in Libra (8th) combined with his Sun in Leo (1st) and Neptune in Capricorn (8th)
provides a quincunx and square to his Neptune placement.

A shame such a good natal (at first glance) could be spoiled by a tiny astrological detail such as sexual attraction. But no matter, he is much better off without you

posted November 05, 2009 05:58 PM         

I *think* the sexual attraction comes down to the fact his mars is in scorpio, my venus is in aries....

It makes these two planets act very marsian.

I really thought i would get along with a mercurian person.

And well yeah I slept with someone I don't appreciate ...but I regret it enough as it is.

posted November 05, 2009 06:09 PM         

quote:

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er... his sun is not in leo, but in gemini.
My fifth house ruler is not saturn...
saturn is transiting.

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Sun in Gemini, yes.
5th ruler is not Saturn, no, its Libra(Venus) much worse

posted November 05, 2009 06:12 PM         

He wasn't very nice either in the morning (i'm not the only jerk in the story... he had a go at me cos i didn't have something he felt he needed to get started).