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From: LA & Vancity
Registered: May 2009

posted December 01, 2009 07:19 PM         

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Emma,
mine's in 1H, it makes me deep, dark & brooding...and it makes me not care for anything superficial. (ie. how most people enjoy romantic comedies, in general I think they're shallow & contain no entertainment or intellectual value).

Meta,
["So then i must ask, are YOU clingy?"]
I think everyone has their clingy moments, I'm no exception. However compared to your average person, I'm not clingy. My Cappy-Moon sq. Pluto makes me very detached & actually crave isolation most the time. I need a lot of space & time to create things. My Venus-pluto only gets obsessed during the crush stages & also after the relationship has ended. When it's ended, I could be stuck with holding onto this unending heartbreak for 2yrs. Whereas normal people usually find rebounds or new love interests easily & get over it much faster. During the relationship, I'm very chill and never get jealous...ex's have often complained how it felt like I didnt love them enough. It's not that I didnt love them enough...I just also really needed enough space for myself to produce work. I do find it difficult to balance a normal relationship with my personality/lifestyle.

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From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009

posted December 01, 2009 07:22 PM         

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Grab your coat Meta... and lets go!!! The highlands are calling us! xxx

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posted December 01, 2009 11:01 PM         

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Wow!! I was reading this and saying YES!....that could be me saying that!

I have Venus Square Pluto, Moon trine Pluto, Mars conjunct Pluto....and pluto aspecting almost all of my personal planets........So I can def idenitify all with what was written in this thread.....I'm the detached, loner yet emotionally sensitive/fragile/vulnerable.....but yet strong on the inside and outside.......love relationships never turn out good for me....although the attractions are strong and intense ....upon meeting someone who I really like.....
but yeah this thread does amaze me....

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From: Ohio
Registered: Apr 2009

posted December 02, 2009 07:37 AM         

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I have both aspects (in a wide trine), and can relate to those who have written here (except for the comment about being vengeful - in the moment of an argument, I be really pi**y, but I won't plan on ways to get back at someone ~ it's a waste of energy, and I wouldn't really want to hurt them).

I used to be more successful at hiding my emotions, than I am now ~ I keep them to myself, to a certain extent, but no more stuffing when it concerns a specific someone (and talking to them about it) before I implode, or when I need to talk. I tend to post on the internet, when I'm alone, but will edit the posts out later, out of privacy, and/or embarrassment.

I feel deeply, and feel strong attachments to people; I don't easily cut people off (and rarely do so), but if someone is going to leave me, then I'll encourage them to do so. I might be upset or angry, but I won't try to hold onto them. My Moon/Venus (Gemini) is also inconjunct Uranus, sextile Jupiter, and square Mars in Pisces. I can be clingy, but I don't like the feeling; I also wouldn't want someone to stick around just because I felt that way.

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posted December 02, 2009 10:44 AM         

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Lara,

Agent_009,

What are you physically attracted to?

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posted December 02, 2009 12:39 PM         

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also in synastry pluto conj asc can be too difficlt to handle

i know a first house pluto person....they hv their rough sides

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