posted December 27, 2018 06:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
in his relationships he was controlling, he didnt treat me that way but i was well aware of how his gf was treated

the type who reads texts, wants passwords, sneaks around, had restraining orders from exs etc

that wouldnt have happened with me, that's part of why i didnt have any desire to date him

edit: he would read me their text messages and ask me what to say to her etc

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posted December 27, 2018 06:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
in his relationships he was controlling, he didnt treat me that way but i was well aware of how his gf was treated

the type who reads texts, wants passwords, sneaks around, had restraining orders from exs etc

that wouldnt have happened with me, that's part of why i didnt have any desire to date him

edit: he would read me their text messages and ask me what to say to her etc

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posted December 27, 2018 06:50 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:

Wow that's pretty crazy I'm surprised he didn't act that way towards you since you were ******* him.

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he was about to have a kid, does now i imagine

both around when that started and it ended just before that

so i imagine it was just a matter of timing, also he was afraid of me for whatever reason

which was funny, because physically i'm not at all threatening i'm short and skinny and have chronic health issues

posted December 28, 2018 06:14 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Is this still the case with those who have Mars in aspects to Pluto, Neptune and Jupiter? Mars square Jupiter, Mars opposition Neptune and Mars trine Pluto.

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posted December 28, 2018 06:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
pretty sure cuddling and being affectionate is just standard for a lot of people and has nothing to do with mars in cancer

the mars in cancer guy i used to **** around with liked cuddling and **** first, but i'm like that without mars in cancer anyway

i'm constantly hugging my fiancee, kissing her, holding her hand, cuddling with her etc because i'm just a very physically affectionate person and that's a lot of people

**** my aquarius mars friend with benefits likes physical affection to that point he just has a hard time initiating it himself

what i would say, and it's interesting that no one else has said this is i appreciated how rough the mars in cancer guy could be when he wasnt holding back

usually did though which was unfortunate

wouldve never dated him though, crazy controlling and always suspicious etc he had a sun/mars opposition though which didnt help him much

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I'm talking about during lovemaking. My Cancer Mars guy will keep kissing me and hugging me real close while doing it. Not all guys do that, e.g. my Virgo Mars ex-bf... He will kiss me before sex but during & after the act he doesn't.

My Aqua Mars guy was physically affectionate but I think it's more his Scorp Venus talking, haha.. then again, during lovemaking, he's also not the kissing/hugging type. After sex, he will hug me, yes. Haha

posted December 28, 2018 05:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I'm talking about during lovemaking. My Cancer Mars guy will keep kissing me and hugging me real close while doing it. Not all guys do that, e.g. my Virgo Mars ex-bf... He will kiss me before sex but during & after the act he doesn't.

My Aqua Mars guy was physically affectionate but I think it's more his Scorp Venus talking, haha.. then again, during lovemaking, he's also not the kissing/hugging type. After sex, he will hug me, yes. Haha

Cancers are protective but I'm not sure if controlling is their trait unless these are severely insecure Cancerians? Perhaps the aspects will tell...like Pluto?

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posted December 28, 2018 06:14 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:

I have Mars in Gemini so I probably wouldn't be sexually compatible with Mars in Cancer. Which is unfortunate because I really want to enjoy it. All the other guys I've been with have never touched or kissed me during sex. Well the one guy who has Mars in Libra did on my forehead. But I really want to be touched and kissed not just ******

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posted December 28, 2018 06:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I'm talking about during lovemaking. My Cancer Mars guy will keep kissing me and hugging me real close while doing it. Not all guys do that, e.g. my Virgo Mars ex-bf... He will kiss me before sex but during & after the act he doesn't.

My Aqua Mars guy was physically affectionate but I think it's more his Scorp Venus talking, haha.. then again, during lovemaking, he's also not the kissing/hugging type. After sex, he will hug me, yes. Haha

Cancers are protective but I'm not sure if controlling is their trait unless these are severely insecure Cancerians? Perhaps the aspects will tell...like Pluto?

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i treat my fiancee like that during sex, can't help it, but just her

with other people kissing during sex has been a complete no go though, so it really depends

love and connection makes all the difference with that for me

posted December 28, 2018 06:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
[b] I wouldn't say this as a definite. You can try. I must say Mars Cancer guy will be my most unforgettable...for now.

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