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Topic: curious about Mars in Cancer....
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mir
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posted December 08, 2009 08:47 AM
  
I don't know what to expect from them...A passionate, protective, emotionally-sensitive and caring nature?
A sensuous and caring sex-life?
Sensitive, emotional and affectionate love-making? This sounds great! Examples to confirm?
EDIT;
""Some Mars in Cancer people are especially turned on by the thought of creating a baby.""
This sounds like a plan 
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Cardinal Arbiter
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posted December 08, 2009 08:58 AM
I have Mars in Cancer, and I'd say I'm caring ever so much that I'm not daring :P and as a result I cannot confirm your latter two predictions.IP: Logged |
mir
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posted December 08, 2009 09:32 AM
*I dare say (reading behind the words) that the latter two will fit you..*IP: Logged |
katatonic
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posted December 08, 2009 11:56 AM
i am mars in cancer. of course i am female BUT - all the above sound great, but when cancerian feelings are hurt they can get very frosty...IP: Logged |
taurusvirgoleolady1974
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posted December 08, 2009 12:48 PM
my 16 year old daughter and i both have mars in cancer. what sticks out for me is having to have the last word, no matter what. luckily her and i dont have many arguments, but when we do, look out! it can be knock down, drag out. (both taurus suns)lol!
yes, i think its true also the thought of having a baby is ...yay for birth control. many rotten apples til you get to a good one! whew! lucky.IP: Logged |
SpooL
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posted December 08, 2009 03:32 PM
Probably the only male here to comment about Mars in Cancer.Typically, the impresion of males with Mars in Cancer is that there shy. But I find the individual with that placement will take more of a cautions approah to things in general, including the opposite sex. So they can be easily hurt, But once you can get them to comit they will comit. It took me a while to finaly open up to a
Leo and Aqua gal. There was a "strong conection" so I opened up, otherwise I whould have keep my shell closed. More of me protecting my own shell, even now I open my shell just enought, but not completly. But, it helps me in the sense that i'm more of an independent thinker. I mean I was surprised when my programing assignment was completly diffrent from what everyone else was doing. It still meet the requirments, its was just more unique. I've always embraced the phrase "you and the crowd" you can follow the crowd and you might get stoped on by the crowd, or you can go your way. I know it makes sense in a business. Even now, I think I just want to live on my own 73ft yacht or sailboat.
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Capircorn Rising
Gemini Sun, 5th house
Aries Moon
Mercury in Gemini
Venus In Tarrus
Mars In Cancer
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posted December 08, 2009 06:12 PM
protective, caring, passionate and maybe sensive in general. Definitely not a softy emotional in bed. I get turned on by the thought of him wanting to make a baby but it doesnt mean u want to be pregnant everytime. It just makes sex more intense and he wants you in every way. Love, creating etc..Mars, sun and mercury in cancer. ------------------
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mir
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posted December 09, 2009 02:03 PM
Thanx all!Spool, your words remind me a lot of this Cancer-Mars guy I met! His independent thinking, his unique, repulsive and even lugubrious job (restoration of dead body pieces is part of it  ), his fight to overcome every fear he had (also the reason for this job), this "you- and the crowd thing" he spoke about/deals with..
Well, I don't know him very well yet but I'm curious to see more of him, he seems like a truly nice and interesting "outcast"! IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
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posted December 10, 2009 05:08 PM
We may seem weak and passive from an outside view, but watch out inside we have a toughness that can endure  And yes we are caring and very protective of ones we love. I need to have the emotional aspect of lovemaking to be there, because I can't do cold quick sex, its never been my thing. Mabe this is also a Mars in Cancer trait.IP: Logged |
Coffee
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posted December 10, 2009 06:11 PM
Working out what a person is like from a Mars in Cancer placement alone, without the rest of the natal as point of reference is silly. Like looking at a person with a hood on and making a snap judgement whether to date them or not.Yeah, ok, everyone seems to get by that way. You will learn one day  IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
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posted December 10, 2009 09:01 PM
I have alot of planets in Cancer with my Libra Sun in 4th house..so that might help it along lol. Nice to see you on the board Coffee IP: Logged |
Cardinal Arbiter
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posted December 11, 2009 10:33 AM
ok, haha thanks, there you go.Incidentally I'm a guy. IP: Logged |
mir
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posted December 11, 2009 12:12 PM
Instinctively I KNEW it CA! funny enough after my reply i thought 'why am i so sure?, the chance of being a girl here is 95%..'
Thank you lord coffee  (I'm sorry, couldn't find a bow-smiley to hide my blush)
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ChildofVenus
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posted December 26, 2018 09:28 AM
Do the men like to have their chest kissed and licked during sex?IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
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posted December 26, 2018 09:57 AM
every mars in cancer person i've known has been aggressive when there was no need and passive when they should actmisguided strength is a common theme with them, they'll exert their will in frivolous situations but when they're right in a tough situation it's completely different and they'll be aggressive towards people who they feel comfortable being aggressive towards rather than people who necessarily should experience that aggression they seem to deeply fear losing and seem to act out of fear that stands out to me the most about them IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
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posted December 26, 2018 10:02 AM
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Originally posted by libraschoice7:
We may seem weak and passive from an outside view, but watch out inside we have a toughness that can endure And yes we are caring and very protective of ones we love. I need to have the emotional aspect of lovemaking to be there, because I can't do cold quick sex, its never been my thing. Mabe this is also a Mars in Cancer trait.
i wouldn't say weak or passive, as a matter of fact i've seen impressive displays of rage from cancer mars people
they have great strength it's just usually spent on things that arent worth it IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
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posted December 26, 2018 01:55 PM
many successful athletes have mars in Cancer, probably more than any other sign this is a Mars that can be difficult to a get a hold on at first, but once you figure out what makes you tick (often it's emotional and psychological), Cancer energy makes you invincible
oh and yeah, great in bed
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ChildofVenus
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posted December 26, 2018 02:35 PM
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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
many successful athletes have mars in Cancer, probably more than any other sign this is a Mars that can be difficult to a get a hold on at first, but once you figure out what makes you tick (often it's emotional and psychological), Cancer energy makes you invincible
oh and yeah, great in bed
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Aries23Degrees
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posted December 26, 2018 06:07 PM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Do the men like to have their chest kissed and licked during sex?
I would imagine so. Include some cuddling in there too. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted December 27, 2018 06:09 AM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
What do they like for you to do to them in bed?
Lots of hugging and kisses, that's my experience with my Cancer Mars guy... we embrace each other a lot and I think crabby likes it. I love their lovemaking style and I'm Pisces Mars. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted December 27, 2018 06:23 AM
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Originally posted by mir:
I don't know what to expect from them...A passionate, protective, emotionally-sensitive and caring nature?
A sensuous and caring sex-life?
Sensitive, emotional and affectionate love-making? This sounds great! Examples to confirm?
EDIT;
""Some Mars in Cancer people are especially turned on by the thought of creating a baby.""
This sounds like a plan
Emotional, sensitive, caring, yes. Easily hurt. Moody, yes. Sometimes I don't even know he's angry becos he doesn't say so I've to read his facial expression & body language + the passive-aggressive things he says. Sometimes the answer only emerged after a few days. They often seem unsure and need encouragement. Being a Cardinal sign, they like to pursue rather than being pursued. But they're cautious so they will observe, feel safe, then act.
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ChildofVenus
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posted December 27, 2018 08:13 AM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Emotional, sensitive, caring, yes. Easily hurt. Moody, yes. Sometimes I don't even know he's angry becos he doesn't say so I've to read his facial expression & body language + the passive-aggressive things he says. Sometimes the answer only emerged after a few days. They often seem unsure and need encouragement. Being a Cardinal sign, they like to pursue rather than being pursued. But they're cautious so they will observe, feel safe, then act.
Is this still the case with those who have Mars in aspects to Pluto, Neptune and Jupiter? Mars square Jupiter, Mars opposition Neptune and Mars trine Pluto.
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Dumuzi
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posted December 27, 2018 10:58 AM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Lots of hugging and kisses, that's my experience with my Cancer Mars guy... we embrace each other a lot and I think crabby likes it. I love their lovemaking style and I'm Pisces Mars.
pretty sure cuddling and being affectionate is just standard for a lot of people and has nothing to do with mars in cancer the mars in cancer guy i used to **** around with liked cuddling and **** first, but i'm like that without mars in cancer anyway i'm constantly hugging my fiancee, kissing her, holding her hand, cuddling with her etc because i'm just a very physically affectionate person and that's a lot of people **** my aquarius mars friend with benefits likes physical affection to that point he just has a hard time initiating it himself what i would say, and it's interesting that no one else has said this is i appreciated how rough the mars in cancer guy could be when he wasnt holding back usually did though which was unfortunate wouldve never dated him though, crazy controlling and always suspicious etc he had a sun/mars opposition though which didnt help him much
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ChildofVenus
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posted December 27, 2018 06:16 PM
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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
pretty sure cuddling and being affectionate is just standard for a lot of people and has nothing to do with mars in cancer the mars in cancer guy i used to **** around with liked cuddling and **** first, but i'm like that without mars in cancer anyway i'm constantly hugging my fiancee, kissing her, holding her hand, cuddling with her etc because i'm just a very physically affectionate person and that's a lot of people **** my aquarius mars friend with benefits likes physical affection to that point he just has a hard time initiating it himself what i would say, and it's interesting that no one else has said this is i appreciated how rough the mars in cancer guy could be when he wasnt holding back usually did though which was unfortunate wouldve never dated him though, crazy controlling and always suspicious etc he had a sun/mars opposition though which didnt help him much
Controlling in regards to what? What was he suspicious about? Why is that if you weren't actually dating him? IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
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posted December 27, 2018 06:31 PM
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Controlling in regards to what? What was he suspicious about? Why is that if you weren't actually dating him?
in his relationships he was controlling, he didnt treat me that way but i was well aware of how his gf was treated the type who reads texts, wants passwords, sneaks around, had restraining orders from exs etc that wouldnt have happened with me, that's part of why i didnt have any desire to date him edit: he would read me their text messages and ask me what to say to her etc IP: Logged |
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