posted December 15, 2009 09:22 PM         

Yet I seem to be drawn to him, actually I've never felt this lust I feel with him with anyone else. I think I just want to believe it's all nasty rumors but it's probably not. He claims he's a quiet introvert LOL. He does make me laugh a lot though and we have similar personalities and interests (most people I meet don't know what I'm talking about when I go on about what I'm into). There is actually another guy there that I really like but I don't think the feelings are reciprocated (I don't know his birthday) so maybe I'm just on the rebound I don't know. Anyway here are the charts if anyone can help:

posted December 16, 2009 03:43 AM         

Pluto sq Moon, Neptune sq Venus and workplace flirt = A V O I D.

posted December 17, 2009 10:40 AM         

trust your gut instincts.

And remember, noone of us here really knows him or you. So in the end only you can really know if he is good for you or not.

posted December 17, 2009 04:07 PM         

Sexually, you're magnetized to one another. His pMars @ 22 Leo is in an applying conjunction to your nVenus @ 26 Leo. So potentially, this could be a very good sexual relationship. Since this is an applying aspect, you'll be attracted to each other for some time. It should be noted that Venus/Mars, while great for sex, is a combative aspect...but worry not, you have other fantastic aspects to keep tensions low.

Further, your pVenus @ 14 Virgo is applying to conjunct his pSun @ 17 Virgo...translation, Love. Again, because this is an applying aspect, these connections should last more than a fortnight. Love & Sex, what else can you ask for in a relationship.

Natally, your Sun conjuncts his Moon. You fulfill and nourish him. Additionally, your Mars & Venus loosely conjunct his Venus. You have similar tastes & there is a fairytale romantic dreaminess that surrounds you in combination to a fundamental sexual compatibility.

From a static/natal perspective, your masculine planets, save for venus-venus, are aspecting his feminine planets...you're expected to take the lead. From a dynamic/progressed pov, he is the one in the command position. Hopefully this doesn't create confusion. When in doubt, go with the progressed aspects because they represent who you are & the state of the relationship at this given time.

posted December 17, 2009 09:42 PM         

Is there anything in his natal chart that points to being a cheater/not being able to settle down, or the possibility of monogamy? I do see his natal Eros-Psyche conjunction, and natal Saturn-Mars square, though I'm not sure if those would apply.

posted December 17, 2009 10:12 PM         

Additionally, you guys have a Neptune sq Venus natal aspect. With venus as one of your rulers, this is an important aspect. It is possible that you are unable to see clearly. Doesn't mean he's intentionally fooling you, just that you can't get a clear picture of him.

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So do the progressions mean that after several years, those aspects don't apply anymore?

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posted December 17, 2009 11:47 PM         

Don't get into a 'real' relationship with this guy. From what you said he sounds like poison. Beware of stds too.

Personally, I'd just forget about him. The attraction will go away if you aren't intimate with him. Trust me, you'll never even know what you saw in him in a few months.

posted December 18, 2009 05:38 AM         

I have studied and practiced this stuff, it works like magic in eliminating phobias and in helping people imporve ther personality/confidence but the top level guys use it for influence and "programming" others to do their bidding.

Most people in the middle and bottom of the pyramid may have never heard about it but all company VPs and Bosses at some level or the other have attended NLP Seminars or Seminars customized from NLP Techniques.

I will explain some insidious dark side NLP.
1. Subliminal Advertizements. The Human Eye converts 16 Frames per second into motion consciously. The subconscious can see all 16 frames. One of the 16 frames can contain a message like "Drink Only XYZ Beer" in an ad for diapers. Dads seeing this ad more than 6 times will choose XYZ Beer for no logical reason whenever they shop for diapers.

2. Slow Looping Music at a certain frequency can influence the purchase of certain products whose names rhyme with the main words of the song or jingle.

3. Triggers: A man can say touch your shoulders or the back of your hand when cracking a joke. After 3-4 such incidents, he can give a simple compliment and again touch a safe target area. This establishes a trigger pattern. Next he can start giving more and more compliments and keep applying the trigger. In a week or two, he does not have to say anything, all he needs to do is touch the target area, and the female will feel that she has received a very good compliment. When alone, if he chooses to kiss the safe target area, she will turn into putty. Game, set and match.

4. Mindspace Invasion: Keeping things very very ambiguous with what wikipedia says are "Weasel Words": 'Some people think you are talkative, but I dont think so, I feel you like to help but most people dont seem to appreciate this most of the time. Maybe I am wrong but I feel that many people misunderstand you sometimes ... '
5 minutes of this ambiguos drivel can create a trance like state for the target. At this point, a hypnotic command can be given this:
".. I feel if perhaps one can say LETS GO FOR A DATE THIS SATURDAY AFTERNOON, then there could be more clarity and understanding... " The words in caps will be emphasized with emotion. The next week, all he has to do is repeat the date command and she will say yes.

5. Nested Loops take point 4 to a new level where incomplete stories are used to embed subconscious commands.

All confidence tricksters, deceivers, snake oil salesmen, Wall Street Honchos, Corporate Spin doctors and media managers are NLP Dark Side experts, even if they dont take actual classes.

posted December 18, 2009 11:12 AM         

my bropther´s Gf had to do NPL Seminar on her work basis,seems they are more and more into NPL Things....but this is not always negative is it?

she talked to me saying the teatcher was very good,and that she coyld help me with my phobia of talking in public,but it was too expensive..