posted December 20, 2009 04:35 PM         

First, I notice your sun stations, being opposite on the sun signs I think brings a fundamental difference with how you view life and may impact things like love/lifestyle and communication.

Meaning, it looks like you are a thinker. A lot of your approaches to life may come through contemplation/rumination/meditative states, but your mate may not have enough water or venus in his chart to bring you out of these states.

He does have a venus with water, though, and that is probably your main way of communicating. Through his affection and emotional support for you, which is sextile your mars and likely makes for a great sexual relationship. However, that may only count when you have sex, because it seems there may be a bit of pushing away, particularly with the saturn and mars energy.

Also, I have never known a Pisces super into commitment and have never met a Virgo that did not have a basic desire for it, even to sacrifice to have it. Therefore, I would look to see how, consciously or unconsciously, you might be sending a signal to your mate about not wanting to be tied down. Because he likely needs to feel like you want to be tied down.

posted December 20, 2009 05:25 PM         

Hmm, the commitment thing. I can honestly say I was up for it 100%. I really thought I was spending the rest of my life with him ... but I can say that I'm not a fan of commetment unless I REALLY love the person, lol. As far as he goes ... He was very commited in the way that I knew he would never, ever stray with other women and I was the only person he wanted to be with. BUT as far as sacrifice goes ... he seemed very scared of that. Not just sacrifice for me/us, but for anything. Taking chances was not his strong point. He was ALWAYS worried about 'what could go wrong'.

I agree, I think I related to his cancer venus alot of the time. The sex was freaking amazing. Best ever. But that was definitly partly due to the intense emotional connection we had, which was prob due to his venus. It seemed alot of the time that we were either operating on a totally connected, in-tune level of emotion OR we swung in the oppisite direction ... which was usually when he was having trouble detecting what he really felt (sometimes it was like he couldn't get his head and heart to work together or communicate, lol).

and I agree, lol - Virgo men ARE a handfull!

posted December 20, 2009 05:27 PM         

Any other observations anyone???

posted December 22, 2009 08:15 PM         

whoo! The forums been on fire! awesome!