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Topic: Pisces-Virgo affair ... confused ...?
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LadyPisces Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Canada/Australia Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 18, 2009 02:20 PM
Hey everyone! I've been into astrology for the past 2 years but still would consider myself to be a beginer, lol. I just recently (3 weeks ago) broke up with my boyfriend and while I know it was the right decision, I am still feeling slightly confused about some things and your thoughts/opinions would be MUCH appreciated! Long story short - I am Canadian but moved to Australia for a year (just on a holiday working visa). After 6 months there I met a guy (let's call him R) at a club. We started talking and found out we had been living across the street from each other for the past 6 months but had never seen each other. The connection was instant and electric. From day one we dived into a relationship and were very serious about each other. We both felt as if we had known each other in a past life or something. We were VERY different, but were so drawn to each other we didnt care. Over the course of the next 6 months we broke up twice (first time for a week, second time for an hour), always getting back together because we simply couldn't be apart. There was that unexplainable draw.I moved back to Canada 2 months ago and he was planning to follow me in March, which gave him the time to save some extra money. He and I talked about getting married, having kids, ect. He said he saw us together forever. He was a wreck when I left. We talked every day on the phone/skype and everything was fine. Then, about a month ago he came out of the blue and said "I don't know if I'll be happy in Canada." This came as a complete shock to me and hurt alot. My gut feeling was that he didn't mean it, but for some reason was freaking out. I told him if he wasn't willing to come to Canada, well, we would have to break up because it made no sense, even though I loved him very, very, very much. He changed his mind very quickly and was VERY reassuring that it was a momentary freak-out and he loved me more than anything, ect. Then, 5 days later, he started sounding doubtful/scared/weak again and I lost it and broke up with him. It was too much of an emotional rollercoaster for me. I loved him with every fibre of my being, but I know that (paticularly as a Piscis), I have to stick up for myself or I'll end up comprimising all over hte place! anyway, the part I'm still confused about is that when I say it was like we knew each other before ... it truely was. I thought he was the 'one' for SURE. My question is - Is there anything in our charts that stick out to you???? My chart: [IMG]http://img 37.imageshack.us/img37/21392287.png/1/w640.png[/IMG] His chart: ------------------ Sun - Pisces Moon - Leo Rising - Cancer IP: Logged |
savanna20 Knowflake Posts: 159 From: ca Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 18, 2009 02:51 PM
It's hard to see his chart! My story with the last guy I dated was similar to yours btw!IP: Logged |
LadyPisces Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Canada/Australia Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 18, 2009 03:25 PM
oh really?If you click on his chart it comes up bigger in a link ... ------------------ Sun - Pisces Moon - Leo Rising - Cancer IP: Logged |
LadyPisces Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Canada/Australia Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 18, 2009 09:42 PM
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Diana Knowflake Posts: 1070 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted December 18, 2009 09:46 PM
I can't speak for everyone, but I can't read those style charts. Maybe you'd get more responses if you posted a regular chart from astro.comIP: Logged |
LadyPisces Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Canada/Australia Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 19, 2009 12:25 AM
thanks! i'll try that!------------------ Sun - Pisces Moon - Leo Rising - Cancer IP: Logged |
LadyPisces Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Canada/Australia Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 19, 2009 05:48 PM
Here are the charts from astro.Mine: His: Any thoughts??? ------------------ Sun - Pisces Moon - Leo Rising - Cancer IP: Logged |
GypseeWind Knowflake Posts: 2066 From: Dayton,Ohio USA Registered: May 2009
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posted December 19, 2009 06:12 PM
Well I'm crap with charts, but I can say, that, atm, I'm dealing with a Pisces sun, Scorpio Asc, Cancer Moon. Most times he's delightful, except for when he isn't. And when I mention this, his stock answer is..."well, I told you I was a moody, SOB,"*sigh* With you being a Virgo, as opposed to me being a Sag, the security thing probably bothers you quite a bit more. I know Virgo needs to know where they stand, and I also know that fishes don't stand, they swim. All I can say, is go with the flow, as hard as it is. Try and focus on some other things and wait and see whether or not he swims your way. I know, crappy advice, but that is what I tell myself. *sometimes, I don't hear a word for a day, or even two. Or if I do, it is very brief and almost business like. Other days, I am bombarded with texts and emails declaring his undying love. Go figure. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind Knowflake Posts: 2066 From: Dayton,Ohio USA Registered: May 2009
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posted December 19, 2009 06:15 PM
Oh crud, YOU are the Pisces, so sorry, I couldn't see your charts either! I thought your signature placements were his! Never mind me, just ignore me. I could of edited, but I enjoy letting people know just how completely ditzy I am.So HE'S the Virgo!!! Oh boy! Why hasn't he married you yet????? I love Virgo men, they are so funny!!! IP: Logged |
Nine Knowflake Posts: 311 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted December 19, 2009 07:37 PM
ROTFLMAO!!!!!IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 1070 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted December 19, 2009 07:58 PM
Gypsee,If it's any consolation, I feel the same way about pisces men! To the OP: Your BF has t. saturn in his 5th house, so he may be reticent to be in a relationship now. ETA: I also feel like his aqua moon may be the culprit. Aqua's overthink everything! IP: Logged |
LadyPisces Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Canada/Australia Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 19, 2009 08:58 PM
lol! Pisces men CAN be like that ... i like to think us Pisces women are better, haha.I don't know why he hasn't frigging married me, LOL! well, you can see in my summery of the relationship, he told me he wanted to but then he wasn't sure about moving, then he was (100% he said), then he wasn't, then i broke up with him. couldn't take it anymore. His Aquarius moon is very strong, I think ... thanks for your thoughts and good luck with your Pisces man! (if it's any consolation, i think Pisces men really do get better that way with age. My dad is a Pisces and he used to be just like that ... now he's a rock and so sweet). can anyone else shed some light on our charts??? ------------------ Sun - Pisces Moon - Leo Rising - Cancer
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GypseeWind Knowflake Posts: 2066 From: Dayton,Ohio USA Registered: May 2009
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posted December 19, 2009 11:24 PM
LOL!Well having a few, like maybe four or so Virgo ex's and two Virgo brothers and a Virgo mom, I hate to tell ya this, Even though they are supposed to be mutable, none of the ones I just named ever left home, except for my one brother who was fleeing from a crazy ex!!! Just saying, they don't make any sudden decisions, not the rash sorta peeps. Kinda stick with the comfortable routine, ya know? And yeah with the Aqua, OY! He must analyze what to eat for breakfast each day!!! But a bet if anyone can entice him, it's a lovely, dreamy fish girl. Cause, Sag and Virgo, well, we have a great laugh, but I think they're kinda scared of me, lol. Good luck, I think it will all work out. Virgo's don't take love lightly. IP: Logged |
pire Knowflake Posts: 1106 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 20, 2009 12:08 AM
you didn't go to australia FOR him! and you didn't stay for him either.and you cannot understand that he finds it difficult to leave everything behind him for YOU? mmmm.... sorry I didn't look at the charts because if you are not together, what's the point. ( i'm sad for him) my point is: u went to australia for fun and met him and he should come to canada for you, leave his life for you, find a new one for you... what if it doesn't work out? i suggest u both share the difficulties and find an island in the middle of the pacific. he's aqua moon, i'm aqua sun, and he surely have thought about all these details; all these what ifs. it's hard enough to change country, plus doing FOR SOMEONE ELSE? come on, I would think about it twice. IP: Logged |
LadyPisces Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Canada/Australia Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 20, 2009 01:49 AM
Pire - it doesn't suprise me that you think that with an Aqua sun.To me, if you've found somebody you want to spend the rest of your life with (which he said. exact words.), moving to another country for that person souldn't be THAT big of a deal. Also - I didn't ask him to come here FOREVER, he was going to come for a while, then we were going to figure out the next step TOGETHER. And as a person who HAS actually done the across-the-world move, I can assure you, it isn't actually THAT big of a deal and you can always go back home anyway. Taking chances is part of being a grown up. Also, I don't promise things to people that I don't plan on following through with and I do not understand people who would. It's childish and weak. as for "what if things don't work out?" So what if they don't? the world certainly isn't going to end and he could simply go home. What if it DID work out? hmmm ... to me it seems silly to make decisions on fear of something that might not even happen. very negative. Also, i would have stayed in Australia if it had been possible ... but due to some circumstances at home I was unable to at this time. And for the last thing, with all do respect, you have absolutely no idea WHY i moved to Australia. and as for not moving there for 'him' and moving there for 'fun'. In my opinion (which i'm sure you'll disagree with), moving somewhere for love is far more worthwhile than moving somewhere for 'fun'. I'm not unreasonable and if he did move here, of course I would consider moving back to Australia in the future. anyway, there isn't any point in explaining it any further to you. Thanks for your opinion, but I disagree. ------------------ Sun - Pisces Moon - Leo Rising - Cancer IP: Logged |
LadyPisces Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Canada/Australia Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 20, 2009 02:04 AM
GypseeWind - that's alot of Virgos, LOL!My mum is a Virgo (as well as many of my friends and 2 exs) as well! and I totally agree with you - they're not entirely mutable! This one in paticular definitly doesn't take love lightly (neither do I) and I have no doubt he still loves me (it's been 3 weeks since we broke up) ... I love him still, but at the same time I know I want someone who can make decisions without taking a year to think about them, lol. His Aqua moon is so frustrating! EVERYTHING was SUCH an ordeal of contemplating, gah! He said I "changed his life for the better and made him see things differently" ... but I can't say the same about him and that's a big difference between us. He didn't influence me in the same way, if anything he made me more convicted in what I already believe. Deep down - Id love to believe that it will work out. But I comprimised everything I could and gave him lots of chances. I'm still very sad about it but I don't see any way back together ... I'm just really curioius to see if there are any indicators in our charts ...
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Deux*Antares Knowflake Posts: 695 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 20, 2009 02:07 AM
Please post a composite chart. ETA: And synastry, too.IP: Logged |
LadyPisces Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Canada/Australia Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 20, 2009 02:13 AM
can you recomend a site where I could do one? I haven't done one before ...------------------ Sun - Pisces Moon - Leo Rising - Cancer IP: Logged |
Deux*Antares Knowflake Posts: 695 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 20, 2009 02:18 AM
www.astro.com Create an account. Input your birth infos. Go to Extended chart. Choose Composite. Post here. And then do another chart for Synastry. Post here. Please also add Eros, Psyche, Union, Juno, Vertex and Karma. Options at the bottom left of the page (Extended Chart) IP: Logged |
LadyPisces Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Canada/Australia Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 20, 2009 02:46 AM
Thanks!Composite chart: ------------------ Sun - Pisces Moon - Leo Rising - Cancer IP: Logged |
LadyPisces Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Canada/Australia Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 20, 2009 02:53 AM
Synastry: is that right? ------------------ Sun - Pisces Moon - Leo Rising - Cancer IP: Logged |
LadyPisces Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Canada/Australia Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 20, 2009 04:29 AM
did i add everything correctly, lol?------------------ Sun - Pisces Moon - Leo Rising - Cancer IP: Logged |
Deux*Antares Knowflake Posts: 695 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 20, 2009 04:42 AM
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LadyPisces Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Canada/Australia Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 20, 2009 04:47 AM
sent one!------------------ Sun - Pisces Moon - Leo Rising - Cancer IP: Logged |
BeholdAstarte Knowflake Posts: 25 From: las vegas, nevada, USA Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 20, 2009 03:59 PM
i think that feeling where your saying that you guys felt like youv known each other your whole lives and how deep the whole relationship was has partly to do with you 2 both having venus/pluto aspects. i have venus conjucnt pluto so i can relate. it gives this karmic feeling to love and relationships and an extremely close bond. your 2 charts seem like you have some placements that corespond with each other. IP: Logged |