posted December 26, 2009 11:11 PM         

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Belage, it does matter which person initiates the relationship, in terms of astrology.

While women seem to have problems going up and speaking to a fella, it is only natural, though still all about personal choice.

The world works how astrology is set up. Mars is the ACTION, Venus is REACTION. Just in this example. As Mars is ruler of Aries and also 1st house, with Venus ruler Libra and 7th, you can attribute Aries 1st house as Man - initiator and Venus as Woman - receiver.

Looking at a composite chart or even 1st meeting chart, whoever initiates the relationship will be house 1 - the Mars role. It doesn't mean they will turn into a Man (if it were a woman) nor does it mean they will control/boss.
The first can be about appearance, so the first person to initiate will come off as the "personality" of the relationship.

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posted December 26, 2009 11:19 PM         

for me venus/mars isn't so important cos of the age gap and i don't know what lilith/venus and lilith/valentine means.

posted December 26, 2009 11:24 PM         

That moon at the apex of that T-SQ is just p1ssing me off though!!!

posted December 27, 2009 01:37 AM         

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That moon at the apex of that T-SQ is just p1ssing me off though!!!

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The more I look at the charts, the more I think I agree with Coffee that it MIGHT be ok because they were both born with that energy and it feels familiar. I don't know. I'm dying to have IQ take a look.

posted December 27, 2009 02:04 AM         

IQ could blast me out of the water though LOL. I am a hopeless romantic. My only doubt is the closeness of your ages--I have not looked at too many charts with the parties so close in age so I'm not sure how that affects things.

posted December 27, 2009 02:39 AM         

When I met him, I was very angry at first, because I felt (subconsciously) that I had built was wall over my heart so high, and hear I was very vulnerable and weak and it terrified me. Then later for no real reason I decided he didn't like me, and I flipped out a bit and decided I would never open my heart again, and tried to close the wall again. But it felt so bad to close my heart. I realized finally that if I give love, it isn't wasted, it will come back to me in some form.

posted December 27, 2009 05:42 AM         

As you can see your Moon is closely conjunct his NN, and that is something he doesn`t share with everyone.
It hink that might in the very least indicate an emotional bond / connection between the two of you, an almost mother-like caring and nurturing, with you deeply caring for him probably, and him experiencing your caring for him might be important for his lifepath.

But from a first glance it looks like there is a dominance of sexual attraction aspects with your Mars conjunct his Sun and Venus and your Eros conjunct his Mars.

posted December 27, 2009 10:47 AM         

You cannot feel shy when you meet your twin. You cannot hold back any emotion. Its not just love at first sight but instant soul recognition at first sight. Soul Recognition spanning lifelines. It will dawn in an instant, you can almost feel it like electricity. Your entire soul will transform, every subdued issue will come forth. The pair will become perfect and complete even if hurdles exist to create an immediate union.

It is also rare for twin flames to be born so close. I cannot apply too many Asteroid aspects when the age gap is under 40 odd days. One needs the exact birth time, and we must apply Ascendant and Descendent aspects. Moon persona synastry is the only other viable synastry as even Draconic Charts will be quite close.

Yet another clue is the name frequency and date of birth numbers.

SOVG, I agree with you that he is a Soulmate, there are clear soulmate aspects.
Yes, there is a domination of sexual aspects but it is possible that many important ascendant aspects can be found once the exact birth time is known.

He may be the precursor to meeting the actual Twin Flame. He may be the soulmate who will teach you, Shankara to overcome the self-imposed resistance to love after the negative relationships.

The most positive point in the Composite is Pluto extile Venus.

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posted December 27, 2009 11:17 AM         

It's to me it's surprising about the multitude of sexual aspects, as it's the other instructor that I feel the lust without deep emotion for, more lust than for 'S."

posted December 27, 2009 12:30 PM         

i know a way where you can get his birth thime.

i did this once with Amisha,who is now LuvinU from the forum of the readings.

one day i asked her the time birth of a perosn,and i describer the personīs history and things like that.

she gave me the personsīs date and time birth.

posted December 27, 2009 03:51 PM         

Now THAT is interesting...

As far as you being Venus or Mars...I don't know LOL. That's a good question.