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vertiver
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posted January 03, 2010 03:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message
If your interested, this person is my first (in a very good way) and he was a stranger that I met at a club the day after the lunar eclipse (New Years Eve) happened to conjunct my pars fortune and his natal Mars happens to conjunct my pars fortune, coincidence? I don't think so.

He is also 7 years older.

First of all I'm not a fan of synastry but I can see a lot of (ahem) sexual aspects. I also tend to attract Leo Suns or maybe I'm attracted to them?

Either way I'm not romantizing this, it might just be a one night stand kind of deal.

But I need to get this off my chest, because certain people would not be impressed by this (like my parents for instance and I usually tell them everything).


A = Vertiver

B = Leo Stranger

Double whammy's:

A's Venus opposite B's Neptune ( 2)
A's Neptune trine B's Venus (1)

A's Venus trine B's Pluto (2 degrees)
A's Pluto sextile B's Venus (0)

Exact aspects:

A's Pluto sextile B's Venus (0)

A's Mars opposite B's Jupiter (0)

A's Jupiter sextile B's Node (0)

A's Uranus trine B's Moon (0)

A's Pluto square B's Sun (0)

A's Pluto trine B's Mars (0)

1 degree aspects:

A's Sun conjunct B's Sun (1 degree)

A's Sun sextile B's Jupiter (1 degree)

A's Mercury sextile B's Jupiter (1 degree)

A's Mercury sextile B's Saturn (1 degree)

A's Neptune trine B's Venus (1

A's Mars opposite B's Saturn (1)

A's Jupiter sextile B's Mercury (1)

A's Saturn trine B's Moon (1)

A's Neptune opposite B's Mars (1)

A's Neptune square B's Jupiter (1)


Most triggered planets (using only 3 degree orbs or less, we've got a lot more going than this but its so much I'm using small orbs to not overwhelm myself):

A:

Mars 4
Sun 3
Jupiter 3
Neptune 3
Mercury 2
Venus 2
Pluto 2
Saturn 1
Uranus 1
Moon 0

B:
Jupiter 4
Saturn 4
Sun 3
Moon 3
Mars 3
Venus 2
Mercury 1
Neptune 1
Pluto 1
Uranus 0


And the composite, look at that 8th house stellium, jeeze louise!

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vapor-lash
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posted January 03, 2010 04:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vapor-lash     Edit/Delete Message
Vertiver! I have a "story" but I'll keep it short. I did this facebook-astromatch thing weeks ago and I think you were one of the 4 people who came up with 100%. I'm pretty sure it was you, because at the time I couldn't remember your nick but the pic + chart looked familiar. Later I was looking up some older threads and I came across your sign-guessing thread. I guessed Aries Mars (I'm an Aries sun).. The nickname was Neptune..something. Was this your ex-nick?
(My ex-nick was CoralFrequency)

Anyhow.. it's interesting that we're "well-matched" - both fire signs.. and you have an Aries Mars whilst I have an Aries Sun. My Mercury/Jupiter are in Pisces (Your Moon)..

It's interesting because I am also *with* a Leo guy, kind of. I also spent New Years with him and we had an amazing time and he *is* older (even older than your guy). Here is my story and our charts:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/202959.html

I've attracted Leos my whole life as well, but generally I don't feel the attraction back and it leads to some awkward moments. But NOT with this guy. We really have an amazing connection and I'm very excited about it.

Could you post the synastry for you guys? I'm not that great with composites.

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mir
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posted January 03, 2010 07:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message
Hi nice, my Sun (31-7) between yours, probably you Vertiver have that same very nice Sabian Symbol (7* Leo) like me.

You know what I once read (I think it's 15 years ago and unfortunately I cannot find the source of this knowlegde - maybe the Forrests?), that if the rulers of the Composite North and South-Node make a strong aspect to eachother (in your case a Venus/Pluto square) that it signifies a very important relationship.
And yes, I see it again & again appear in composite charts....

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vertiver
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posted January 03, 2010 03:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message
Hey Vapor-Lash! Did you use signs align on FB? My old name used to be missneptune and I remember you and your old name as well. It kinda blows that everyone had to change their screen names to something different on LL, oh well!

I read your link and yours is much more definite than mine, first of all I'm not sure if I'll ever see this person again, but I'm a astrology nerd so I had to do some synastry and a composite charts, of course.

Now I wouldn't of bothered to post anything about me and this guy on LL, but I mean I've never hit it off with a total stranger before and you only loose your virginity once and I couldn't of pictured it any better, this guy definitely knew what he was doing, and he gave me lots of attention and complements, which unfortunately if your a fire sign, that just makes you weak in the knees.

Anyways here is the synastry chart, my Pluto conjuncts his IC and his Jupiter/Saturn conjunct my MC. What is that all about?

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vapor-lash
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posted January 04, 2010 05:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vapor-lash     Edit/Delete Message
Hey! I have a feeling you will see him again. First of all your Suns are pretty closely conjunct. You may just serendipically end up in the same place at the same time - *again*

Secondly, you have some interesting aspects.. I like his Valentine conjunct your Moon. He finds it effortless to love you. From what I've read Valentine is connected to a love that runs so deep it can turn sacrificial.

Your Pluto trine his Mars and his Pluto trine your Venus are both sexually charged aspects - but Pluto is usually connected to very deep & intense sex.. nothing too shallow (which is another reason I think you may see him again)

You have a Venus/Neptune double whammy (the trine and the opposition). This would bring an element of surreal love&sex - to the equation. Things may not always be what they seem so it's best to keep your eyes wide-open. But this is usually an aspect that creates an amazing aura in the beginning stages. It could feel like a "fairytale" romance. Your Neptune/Karma trine his Moon would add to this feeling. I think he could easily put you on a pedestal.. I'm not sure how well this will work long-term, but for now I think you'll have some more good times together.

On the surface it looks like you guys just met - hit it off and had sex - which seems "fun" but not serious.

However, due to the personal to outer planet connections.. I think this had a much deeper impact on both of you. I don't think it was JUST sex.. That's my astrological hunch, anyway.

I guess the question is - do you WANT to see him again?

I ask because sometimes people run away from things that seem too good to be true.. Either or both of you could have this reaction.

:edit: & yes I used signsalign!

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vertiver
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posted January 04, 2010 12:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message
Vapor-lash, thanks for taking the time to give me an interpretation! Good vibes are coming your way! You must give me an update on the guy you posted about as well, did the lunar eclipse trigger anything in your chart? I'm asking because you saw him on New Year's Eve as well and that was right after the eclipse.

I can see the being put on a pedastal thing with him, I think that he was really turned on by my inexperience, but not in a creepy way, I'm guessing his Virgo venus could add to that.

Let me just give you a few more details to give you an idea of how unexpected my encounter was with this guy was.

I went to a bar/club in downtown with my mom and her boyfriend of all people. I figured it would be a pretty chill night considering I was hanging out with my mom and her friends. Some really good 60's surfer rock was playing all night and there were even go go dancers, oh and a Ramones cover band which was awesome!

But I was with my mom and then at some point I started feeling a little like I needed to go do my own thing so I just started dancing by myself...

And this guy that I've been talking about, just appeared by me and was like "happy new year," and I thought he was just being nice, but he kept talking to me and somewhere out of the blue I started flirting with him, which really isn't my forte, or I don't do it much, but I was drunk which probably helped! And then he kissed me, and I wasn't expecting it. Then he leaves to go find his friends, and at that point I was bummed out. I thought that was going to be that

But he finds me again when I'm dancing and we leave to go to my place and my mom even called me when we were walking to my place, it was a bit embarrassing.

But I forgot to mention that when I first went to that club I had spotted this him earlier and it wasn't until later that I realized it was the same person, so my psychic abilities are even present when I'm not sober!


I actually found him on FB last night, it took me a while to finally look for him because I was afraid that there would be some dirt on him, like he wasn't single or something, I tend to be really paranoid a lot, I blame it on my Pisces moon, I wish I had a solid cappy earth moon like yourself!

But there was no dirt, in fact he went to the same university that I go to, but 5 years ago, which really put it in perspective of how much older he is!


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vertiver
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posted January 04, 2010 12:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message
Vapor-lash, thanks for taking the time to give me an interpretation! Good vibes are coming your way! You must give me an update on the guy you posted about as well, did the lunar eclipse trigger anything in your chart? I'm asking because you saw him on New Year's Eve as well and that was right after the eclipse.

I can see the being put on a pedastal thing with him, I think that he was really turned on by my inexperience, but not in a creepy way, I'm guessing his Virgo venus could add to that.

Let me just give you a few more details to give you an idea of how unexpected my encounter was with this guy was.

I went to a bar/club in downtown with my mom and her boyfriend of all people. I figured it would be a pretty chill night considering I was hanging out with my mom and her friends. Some really good 60's surfer rock was playing all night and there were even go go dancers, oh and a Ramones cover band which was awesome!

But I was with my mom and then at some point I started feeling a little like I needed to go do my own thing so I just started dancing by myself...

And this guy that I've been talking about, just appeared by me and was like "happy new year," and I thought he was just being nice, but he kept talking to me and somewhere out of the blue I started flirting with him, which really isn't my forte, or I don't do it much, but I was drunk which probably helped! And then he kissed me, and I wasn't expecting it. Then he leaves to go find his friends, and at that point I was bummed out. I thought that was going to be that

But he finds me again when I'm dancing and we leave to go to my place and my mom even called me when we were walking to my place, it was a bit embarrassing.

But I forgot to mention that when I first went to that club I had spotted this him earlier and it wasn't until later that I realized it was the same person, so my psychic abilities are even present when I'm not sober!


I actually found him on FB last night, it took me a while to finally look for him because I was afraid that there would be some dirt on him, like he wasn't single or something, I tend to be really paranoid a lot, I blame it on my Pisces moon, I wish I had a solid cappy earth moon like yourself!

But there was no dirt, in fact he went to the same university that I go to, but 5 years ago, which really put it in perspective of how much older he is!


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vertiver
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posted January 08, 2010 02:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message
Vapor lash or anyone else, I was just being a young fool! It has been a week and I haven't heard from him since, I guess there was nothing special about this encounter except sex and drunkenness, I'm so annoyed! I wouldn't be as annoyed if it weren't for the fact that he was my first, jerk!

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vapor-lash
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posted January 08, 2010 05:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vapor-lash     Edit/Delete Message
Vertiver - maybe you were vague about wanting to see him again..

I guess - due to the situation... since you slept with him the night you "met", maybe he was under the assumption it's not a big deal to you or that you wanted just sex also - Did he think you were just inexperienced OR did he actually know he was your first?

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posted January 08, 2010 05:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vapor-lash     Edit/Delete Message
Vertiver - to cheer you up... Come and be the 14th (possibly 15th lol) bridesmaid at my totally unplanned, crazy e-wedding with a coffee bean

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Glaucus
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posted January 08, 2010 06:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message
vertiver,

I am very sorry.

Did you contact him on facebook?

I also checked your transits at the time of the eclipse.

I use the whole sign house system.

In the whole sign house system, the lunar eclipse falls on your Part of Fortune in 8th house which is associated with sex. Transiting Sun is in your 2nd house which is associated with self worth,security. There could be a high focus on those matters.

Transiting Uranus was squaring your Venus with an applying 1'35 orb which can indicate a sudden,unpredictable romantic encounter. It tends to indicate relationships that can begin suddenly and end suddenly. It's not the type of transit that anybody would want to find a long term partner.
Of course, this transit could indicate a time of excitement,restlessness too.

Transiting Neptune was trining your Venus with an applying 6 minutes of arc which can indicate an idealistic romantic encounter. It's a highly romantic time. Some people think that they find a soulmate during this transit. To add to that, transiting Venus was conjuncting your Neptune. Therefore, romantic inclinations were strong during this time, but also idealism which can be too much so. transiting Venus conjunct Neptune could indicate a time of possible deception,confusion during the couple of days the transit was in effect. Neptune also rules alcohol. Therefore, it makes sense that you were drunk during these transits.

Solar Arc Moon was square your Venus with separating 3 minutes of arc, and that indicates a period of feeling more affectionate and the need to be in a relationship. It can indicate a time of being intimate,having a relationship. That Solar Arc will still be effect for almost half a year. Solar Arc pictures last 1 year.


also checking out the transneptunians

Solar Arc Eris is squaring your Sun with an applying 21 minutes of arc, and it can indicate a period that involves diversity,diverging from the norm,controversy,and discord. With the Sun involved, it could indicate your self expression,ego, but also men. Sun is the archetypal male.

with Eris being a transneptunian dwarf planet, it can involve evolutionary intensified lessons,experiences.


Transiting Sun,Mercury,and Venus and Pluto were and are still in your 2nd house. Those indicate a lot of emphasis on dealing with matters that involve security,self worth.

It seems like it can be a time for you to learn to love yourself more and be secure in yourself which can lead you into getting a relationship that is right for you.


Transiting Saturn has been in your 11th and opposing your Mars in 5th. This could indicate structure,discipline in the areas of friendships that are at odds with how you assert yourself in the areas of self expression. It seems like a time where it can be hard for you to express your romantically due to possible insecurity that you might be experiencing, possible trust issues. Saturn goes stationary retrograde on January 13th,and so you might feel those issues more intensely. As it ends its stationary period and just retrogrades,you will get a break from that transit.

I also want to point out that your Venus natally aspects 2 big transneptunians which indicate that love,relationships involve evolutionary intensified lessons. There can be a strong desire to have a deep soul connection relationship.
You have Varuna in 25'16 Libra conjunct your Venus, and you have Haumea in 24'37 square your Venus.


Transiting Uranus was forming a t-square transit to your Venus-Varuna square Haumea with it opposing your Haumea and squaring your Venus-Varuna.


Varuna is a transneptunian dwarf planet candidate named after Indian God of the Oceans who was once a supreme god. It seems to involve justice,judgment. Haumea is transneptunian dwarf planet named after the Hawaiian fertility creation goddess.

Seeing that Haumea is a fertility creation goddess, there could be a possibility of pregnancy when a personal planet/point aspecting Haumea is being transited. I hope that you used protection when you two had sexual intercourse.

I wish you all the best. I hope that he is interested in you and will contact you. If not, may you find somebody that is much better than him. You deserve it. I believe that sexual intercourse is best when it is with somebody that you love.


Rose quartz is said to help with love of all kinds.....loving yourself,loving others,and receiving love as well as romance,relationships.


Raymond

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"Nothing matters absolutely;
the truth is it only matters relatively"

- Eckhart Tolle

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vertiver
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posted January 09, 2010 12:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message
Oh wow, thank you Vapor lash and Glaucus for your support, it is nice to know how amazing and kind people can be, in fact I've been realizing this more and more!

Glaucus, I've wondered about Varuna conjunct Venus, it is really hard to find any info about it, but your explanation made sense. Luckily I was responsible enough to use precautions so I'm not pregnant, that would be terrible to get pregnant your first time.

Also, I seem to only be attracted to Leo men and they have been the easiest for me to get to know, does it have to do with having Leo on the cusp of the 8th and having Leo Sun?

I feel like this experience was some kind of karma lesson, but I sincerely like this person even though I barely know them, I mean there was definitely some sexual attraction, I'm just surprised I haven't heard from him, he seemed interested in me, but maybe it was just to get in my pants, lol! Either way I'm tired of always feeling rejected, especially from Leo Sun men.

Self-value has been a big issue for me recently, about two months ago I went from completely hating myself and wanting to just end my meaningless life to realizing how short my life is and I've suddenly been horrified by the idea of death, I feel like I did when I was a child and I would completely loose it and cry my eyes out over road kill and the death of animals in general.

Also, I've gotten a lot more exposure with the world, I have two very social and public jobs, one is a pretty important job at my university which has made my life a little more meaningful, but I truly feel I've got everything that I've wanted accept any kind of connection with the opposite sex and I thought maybe this time I got lucky, but its looking like a crap shoot!

I guess I can look forward to the Solar arc Moon-Venus aspect and T.Jupiter will square my Asc, and later conjunct my Moon, hopefully that will be positive and not just further my indulgent side.

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