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posted February 02, 2010 03:15 PM         

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i would have taken it as a sign that i was making a mistake and that would have been that. wedding off.

i can go fire hot to cold as ice in mere seconds...like i never even knew you existed.

that is about how that would have went for me.

well, your gut doesn't lie, so if you believe him, he is probobly trustworthy.

if it had happened after the vows, i imagine i would do it back, twice as hard, twice as long and half as apologetic. and then get on with life and cook dinner and pay bills like it never happened....however, occasionally checking the phone, or something..for some period of time, i suppose. that probobly isn't how things should be done, but it would make it workable for me...just being honest. i have no false pretense of perfection. i yam who i yam.

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posted February 02, 2010 03:18 PM         

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CPN he didn't find out until AFTER they married!!!

This is the problem

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posted February 02, 2010 03:20 PM         

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poor fella. maybe he can get it annulled.

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From: aspideronmars
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posted February 02, 2010 03:51 PM         

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Maybe... if his taurus moon ever gives it up

Talk about the Universe sending you loads of signs NOT to get married. I really dislike stories where people get hurt and it's not their fault and yet it overwhelms their entire life.

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posted February 02, 2010 08:59 PM         

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Hi,

I'm a Taurus Moon AND a Venus in Scorpio LOL.

I am stubbornly loyal to my mate. I hate ending relationships and tend to give lots of chances. Or at least one chance after a big mess up. But I hold a grudge and don't forget the slight. If I feel that my faith wasn't rewarded, revenge is sure, but not necessarily swift. It depends on how big the mess up was. Some revenges are plotted in fire, some in ice.

When I get mad I am either pawing at the ground in a fit of righteous anger or encased in ice. It's a torturous existence either way.

The funny thing is, it's pretty easy for me to forgive once I feel the person has suffered enough. They have to REALLY suffer though. I think that's more a Scorpio thing than a Taurean trait.

If they've only been married a few months, maybe he should cut his losses. Infidelity is a very hard thing to recover from without a solid foundation.

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posted February 02, 2010 10:06 PM         

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Lara,

What's the link/background between you and this couple??

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posted February 03, 2010 03:38 AM         

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My daughter are a cancer sun, AC taurus, moon conj pluto in scorpio. She are so loyal, stubborn and jealous. She was togheter with someone in 2 year who cheat her. When she knew he cheat her she leaved him immidiately. She never forget it.

My son Sun aqua, moon taurus, mars/saturn and pluto in scorpio are also stubborn.

I'm not sure who they will stay and fight if they been in a bad relationship when they both have children...But I think the other people who cheat not get it easy.

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From: aspideronmars
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posted February 03, 2010 07:44 AM         

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Nine,

He is a friend of mine and we were together in a past life so you could say we are emotionally involved in this one.

I hear you Popcorn. I am taurus sun and i could never forgive nor forget at least for a long time.

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