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Topic: Moon in taurus
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Lara
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From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 01, 2010 05:31 PM
 
I have read that once wronged, a Taurus Moon will never, ever forget. Maybe sort of forgive but, seldom. Fixed is fixed.I'm wondering if a cancer sun/taurus moon guy can forgive his wife for cheating on him. He seems to be struggling and it's horrible to watch. He is determined to try and make it work and i guess that is his stubborn taurus side. IP: Logged |
DiandraReborn25
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From: Portugal
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 01, 2010 05:43 PM
HI LARaim a taurus moon. however i dont have a cancer asc...but i can say that if it was me,probably i wouldnt forget.surely i wouldnt forgive. for a cancer sun i bet it is even more difficlut due to the strong emocional bond that this Soul has to the family. if that bond with his wife,is made out of strong love,there is the possibility to forgive i guess...but easy? no.and surely cannot be forgotten,specially by someone with that placements. IP: Logged |
Lara
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From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 01, 2010 05:48 PM
I hear you Diandra...he has sun cancer
moon taurus
mercury cancer
venus gemini
mars sagittarius
AC sagittarius I think he's doomed marriage-wise  IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 2804
From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 01, 2010 05:54 PM
I can sort of relate to him actually, i suppose because i have moon cj venus exact - which might be similar to moon in taurus?It's like it gives me an insight into him about his level of forgiveness. IP: Logged |
vapor-lash
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posted February 01, 2010 05:58 PM
I know a Cancer-Taurus Moon. He'd try to forgive because he cheated on his ex of 15 years and wasn't forgiven (she was Aries-Virgo Moon). But NO - I don't believe he *could*. IP: Logged |
MoonPixie
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posted February 01, 2010 06:13 PM
My best friend in college was a Cap Sun/Taurus Moon. Super possessive - even over her friends. Anyways, I nursed her through several breakups with her girlfriend and saved her from committing suicide... we were really good friends until I decided to move to NY. She got mad at me and stop speaking to me...Fixed signs in general have a hard time letting go... but more so adapting to change. I'm not saying that they can't... but it takes a lot to move a mountain. IP: Logged |
Winged Leo
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posted February 01, 2010 06:26 PM
I think this depends a lot on his wife's behaviors.If she is genuinely sorry for what she did and is willing to do everything in order to win his trust back, he may succeed in forgiving, but it will be "slow". It may take a couple of years, his wife must constantly reassure him whenever he remembers that incident. It's going to be tough for both sides. For a Taurus Moon, forgiving "a cheat" is difficult because he/she gets afraid of losing self-respect and other people's respect too. IP: Logged |
Lara
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From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 01, 2010 06:28 PM
Well he travels every month... so, not sure he can handle it.IP: Logged |
Lara
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From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 01, 2010 06:34 PM
She is gemini sun/libra moon. IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted February 01, 2010 09:34 PM
Yeah, Taurus is stubborn, but it takes a fare bit to get them there.If he has decided to give the relationship another shot, the ole bull is still tranquil. But the offense is noted. In a year or so when she gets a little lettuce in the martini and he clams up and stops talking...it's over, and it won't be over the lettuce. This is my understanding of Taurus revenge. Like the Scorpio, they will hold a grudge & you will never know, until one day they will strike swiftly & decisively, only without the nasty sting... IP: Logged |
winter
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From: Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 12:17 AM
With a Cancer Sun and Taurus Moon he won’t be letting go just yet. I doubt he’ll ever forget.
He may ‘try’ to forgive her but as Nine pointed out – the offence has been noted.
The damage is done, he’ll erupt one day.
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Lara
Knowflake Posts: 2804
From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 03:04 AM
He's very angry now and he told me he feels cold inside.The problem is - they only married 3 months ago. One more interesting fact: before they married they hadn't had any sex for a whole year. In fact until she confessed out of guilt of her affair, they hadn't had any sex for a year! They have been together 4 years and engaged for 18 months. He married her in a dying relationship. IP: Logged |
iQ
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From: Chennai, India
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 04:54 AM
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I'm wondering if a cancer sun/taurus moon guy can forgive his wife for cheating on him
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Highly unlikely.I dont know what he is trying to achieve in this dead relationship. I dont know why she is not letting him go either. Very weird past life karmic debts at play. IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 2804
From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 04:58 AM
I think it's a "need" thing IQ.She is 29, he is 40. She is quite needy i believe and expects him to do everything for her. I suppose after only 3 months of marriage he feels the need to try. He has another 3 months in which he can annul his marriage, after that it can only be done by divorce. It's horrible to sit back and watch this unfold. I feel like i have a peep hole insight into it all, on a feeling level. IP: Logged |
DiandraReborn25
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From: Portugal
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 10:25 AM
hi Larawhat an awful thing to happen...it is better if he breaks off now than later i supose. it is easier. IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 2804
From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 11:21 AM
It is awful and i totally agree with you. He won't though. He's stubborn and determined to make it work.He says that its more courageous to try than just walk away! IP: Logged |
DiandraReborn25
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From: Portugal
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 11:26 AM
it is his taurus moon talking...but it is not as he things unfortunatelly.he will suffer much more trying to mend something which cannot be mended. and then he will only feel that he had failled,and that he is a loser...which of course he is not. try to advice him that courageous is to stop before things get souer. Courage involves being wise enough to know when to sop.sometimes... you did that with your ex husband..imagine where you would be,if you wouldnt have done that...he has your example of courage. IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 2804
From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 11:32 AM
I will try Diandra.. the problem is he won't talk about it at all.Maybe i should send him my story and just let him read it and see that the other way works too. why do you think it will be worse if he tries? More resentment? IP: Logged |
DiandraReborn25
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From: Portugal
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 11:38 AM
it is a good idea.well i obviously dont havea a lot of experience in life,i just imagine that if it were me,it would have been awful. i would never forget the cheating and there will never be trust again,and how can there be a loving and fullfilling relationship without trust? he will always be suspiios now,even if she doenst cheat him again...the past is there and cannot be erased. he will resent allright the time he had passed trying to make things work out,and he will realize that that part of his life was simply...waisted with someone who didnt loved him the way he deserves. IP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner
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From: Toledo, OH
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 11:41 AM
i would not believe everything a married man tells me about his lack of sex life with his wife. the cheating part is plausable. but i kinda doubt he went the whole year prior to being married without having sex with her. perhaps he tells you this so he can have sex with you?..some guys fabricate, as do some girls....just throwing it out there...and i find it hard to belive he says he is noble for trying, if he really was trying, he would be putting his energy in to his relationship with his wife and not so much into a friendship with you. just my opinion. IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 2804
From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 11:45 AM
cpn, it's true.. he didn't. He is a very upfront, honest dude! He wouldn't cheat on his wife. Can you imagine a month before your wedding, your partner cheats on you? It's just so sad and gutting. IP: Logged |
DiandraReborn25
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From: Portugal
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 11:45 AM
cpnwhat??if it happened to you,would you forgive a cheating? IP: Logged |
Lara
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From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 12:12 PM
I think that it's harder for a man to forgive a woman in this situation. Do you ?IP: Logged |
woah city
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posted February 02, 2010 02:19 PM
i'm a taurus moon and i'm stubbornly loyal in relationships. being otherwise does not even occur to me, because the other person is all i see or care to see, and for that reason i do not give up. in my last two relationships it took some extremely prolonged nasty behaviour to even get me to fathom that my relationships were not worthy of my devotion. and it wasn't until i found out that i was cheated on (several times) that i was able to disengage completely. and as soon as i found out, i did. completely. he even had a big change of heart and tried to win me back a year or so later, but there was no way i ever could. taurus moon is about permanence, but i think when the realization slaps you in the face that another does not share your devotion, it can be extremely difficult if not impossible to maintain the maintaining. i am a very forgiving person generally, but cheating is extremely deceptive. total deal breaker. but then again this guy was pretty much a total dick, and it took the cheating to make me realize it and allow all the other crappy things he did to affect me (which my taurus moon had endured).IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 2804
From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 02:58 PM
This cheating went like this:met each other and swapped numbers.
contact.
he visited her town.
dinner on several nights in a row.
hotel sex. premeditated infidelity. NOT GOOD!!!! NOT a drunken night out and a quick sh4g IP: Logged |
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