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Lonake
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posted March 05, 2010 11:52 PM
  
The Sun is involved in the T square? Yes you have it right, but what sign and house is the NN? quote:
i can never tell if i should focus more or less on that downtrodden uranus o' mine. it keeps nagging me to surrender, surrender, surrender (and all my fixity and detachment keeps saying no no no not yet not yet not yet).
With Uranus in Scorpio being strong, you can do what is good advice for anyone who has those 2 warring energies (Aquarius/Scorpio): You have to have BOTH. You need to do the Uranus thing, to break away, and then you need to come back for a dose of deep intimacy. It's a unique balance but youre definitely not the only one who struggles with both, if youre up front abour those needs your Scorpio side won't care who you scare off and the Uranian side won't give a frig either as it wants to be seen as it really is, that's what those 2 have in common. So don't go hiding one of them in favor of the other. The Moon Taurus is exalted, it can be a big girl and find her way on her own, but you're not letting her take over that for you, you're trying to make her play a role she doesn't like, which is part of that tsquare. Trust the Taurus Moon instincts more, that would help as well. For every Moon there are the basics/bare bones where if you give it what it wants it will STFU for at least a lil bit and let you get on with everything else. You tell the energy what you want it to do vs. have it push you around. You can liken this to a child: with no routines, with permission to run rampant the child will exhaust you till you can hardly think, but, when you go out of your way to provide structure and plan out daily meals, designate certain laundry days, etc. a lot of the BS flies out the window with a lil bit of planning. The crazy energy is brought under control so that things are more settled and you can get more done. What you're doing right now is spoiling yourself with that energy you're allowing to run rampant. Give it the basics, figure out what it needs and that will give you standing and clarity to start working on the rest. If you don't have kids this might not make as much sense  IP: Logged |
woah city
Knowflake Posts: 578
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posted March 06, 2010 01:10 AM
oh baby, that makes sense. she's four and your analogy applies to my reality as well! her pluto is exactly on my AC and i swear she runs this house.okay wow, the moon stuff makes perfect sense. love the STFU bit as well. it's in the whiney fourth house too, so emphasis on the S and F is extra strong (don't worry i can take it). well it's in the last degree of my fourth house so it may technically be in the 5th but that's another issue. and don't i have enough already. keeping my moon happy would be the perfect solution. problem is i never really can *REST* physically (see above first bit of this post), but when i do, i feel fully capable and naturally transcend so much of the 'stuck' feeling i'm generally trying to shake. so yeah i really should just give in to that requirement of my moon sign. and OMG you're giving me permission to embrace my aquarianness AND my scorpioness!?!?! i had never really 'seen' it, but those two aspects of my nature do fight all the time for dominance. made harder by the fact that when i'm in one state, the other seems, well, wrong. perhaps a midpoint may offer a clue. HMM: it's my eros. that may be stretching.. but worth a try  . and you're so right about neither sign giving a particular frig about offending and i hadn't realized just how much i was smothering my own nature(s) by vacillating between the two and beating myself up about it. and i suppose my sun being in the t-square makes it even more relevant. maybe it's your being an aqua mercury like me, but your posts are so relatable for me. you just make sense!  thanks bucketloads. oh and my NN is in virgo in the 8th, conj my saturn by 6. IP: Logged |
Cardinal Arbiter
Knowflake Posts: 350
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 06, 2010 01:15 AM
Saturn (Aquarius) opposite Midheaven (Leo), Square Pluto (Scorpio).------------------
Pisces Sun, Libra Moon, Scorpio Ascendant..
Cardinal Grand Cross IP: Logged |
arcturus90
Knowflake Posts: 559
From: Arcturus
Registered: Nov 2017
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posted May 21, 2022 08:13 PM
Saturn square Pluto (and perhaps opposite) is by far one of the most difficult and stressful aspect to have in one's chart.
This aspect shows someone who tries to progress but doesn't manage to progress, evolve. lots of questioning and disturbing.
Thankfully I don't have this aspect in my chart, but when it comes in transit I feel terrible, always worrying and feel completely abnormal. Knowing that this feeling comes from this aspect reassures me, and gives me faith because I know it won't last forever, but it still makes me feel bad, stressed. I had this aspect in transit a few months before, not at this period.IP: Logged | |
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