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Topic: How to "catch" a guy ;-)
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Aya_and_baby Knowflake Posts: 298 From: Space (and sometimes Antwerp) Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 05, 2010 11:22 AM
A man with Moon in Aries likes brave, strong, capable women subconsciously seeking a leader in her;Well, my boyfriend didn't get what he bargained for, did he? I like to think I'm brave, strong and capable, but I'm quite the opposite. Well, maybe strong. And I like to pretend I'm more brave than I really am. Venus in Leo – a woman must be dressed exceptionally well as if she was about to take part in a beauty contest... God, he really didn't get what he bargained for! I always look like I'm going to spend the day sitting around in the house. Or "classy", or even "sporty", or "punky", but never as if I'm about to take part in a beauty contest. I don't look good in bathing suit anyway. ------------------ Official Conor's Feeding Machine! IP: Logged |
Aya_and_baby Knowflake Posts: 298 From: Space (and sometimes Antwerp) Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 05, 2010 11:23 AM
evanski - I tried that. They usually run once they see it.  ------------------ Official Conor's Feeding Machine! IP: Logged |
DD Knowflake Posts: 3708 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 05, 2010 11:24 AM
NEver worked for me. With Sun and Mars in Sag I should fall for the typical Sag. I never did (even though some Sags were interested in me).I seem to have a serious flaw for my Venus sign Capricorn, which does not really surprise me, as Venus rules my 5th house. I also seem to be easily drawn to Aries-men (Espcially Sun or Moon in Aries), but t his one is harder to explain. Mmh, my 5th house ruler is in 1st house as well as my 7th house ruler, so maybe 1st house= Aries-house? Don`t know. Aries is on the cusp of my 4th house, and there is only Chiron in it.
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comica23 Knowflake Posts: 939 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 05, 2010 11:27 AM
This article is interesting, but.. is it ethically ok for an astrologer to teach someone to "act" in order to take someone else's partner/fiance? I would think that it's more ethically right if the astrologer talks about two people's potential compatibility rather than how to act in a certain way in order to get someone.IP: Logged |
Aya_and_baby Knowflake Posts: 298 From: Space (and sometimes Antwerp) Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 05, 2010 11:33 AM
I have Sun in Scorpio, Mars in Capricorn. I can say I do often fall for the typical Capricornian established successful men who have a high position in their office (or bar, because I seem to fall for barmen). But I can't say I really fall for the typical Scorpio type men. I like my men open and very social, with a good sense of humour and not too "deep".------------------ Official Conor's Feeding Machine! IP: Logged |
evanski Knowflake Posts: 61 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted April 05, 2010 11:34 AM
In which direction are they running?You caught one, right?  IP: Logged |
Happy Dragon Knowflake Posts: 310 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 05, 2010 11:36 AM
** I think it's any planet in the 7th house which is at 9 degrees. ** oh .. :-)i've only just got that figured .. i.e. how a 7th placement has figured through life .. so far .. 'n how a 1st house placement can work against getting what one really wants .. i.e. contradicting impression to real desires .. cursed with wrong bait on tangled fishing line  IP: Logged |
Aya_and_baby Knowflake Posts: 298 From: Space (and sometimes Antwerp) Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 05, 2010 11:43 AM
I wasn't wearing g-strings at the time, or ever since.  Oh, and they usually ran south. No, seriously. Generally they went to places south of where I am now. comica23 - I was thinking that too. I bet that woman's friend must be peed off because she invited her to that dinner! And if the woman had to act out of character to get the man, it makes me wonder if she's not just putting on an act because she's desperate to get married. All things said and done, the man did fall head over heels for her so it wasn't just the woman's doing. Men do have a choice in things (well, sometimes ). ------------------ Official Conor's Feeding Machine! IP: Logged |
evanski Knowflake Posts: 61 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted April 05, 2010 11:55 AM
Aya, if they're running south they'll be heading in my direction  Happy Dragon 'cursed with wrong bait on tangled fishing line' lol Had a laugh at the singing advice. Am I the only one here that would scare a guy by doing that?
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DD Knowflake Posts: 3708 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 05, 2010 11:57 AM
Comica,I agree. I was really put off when I started reading that article. IP: Logged |
comica23 Knowflake Posts: 939 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 05, 2010 12:43 PM
quote: comica23 - I was thinking that too. I bet that woman's friend must be peed off because she invited her to that dinner! And if the woman had to act out of character to get the man, it makes me wonder if she's not just putting on an act because she's desperate to get married.All things said and done, the man did fall head over heels for her so it wasn't just the woman's doing. Men do have a choice in things (well, sometimes ).
Yeah actually I thought about it too, that if they are happy together then I guess that the act wasn't the only thing that made things work. Coz attraction purely based on acting is prone to failure, unless the actor is very good at it and/or is happy to be loved by the acting. But well, it's a bit of surprise that an Aquarius ascendant would accept the acting advice. I just took a look at that client's chart, and aside of Leo descendant, she has Capricorn Moon. These are actually compatible to that guy's Leo Venus and Virgo Moon, coz with that DC, she would be Leo-like in her relationships (DC also shows how we are with others), and her Capricorn Moon is just similar to Virgo Moon. IP: Logged |
ohmybaby Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 05, 2010 02:02 PM
I'll tell you how. Just sit and let the government do it for you. IP: Logged |
depth Knowflake Posts: 134 From: Al Kuwayt Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 05, 2010 02:31 PM
haha... em an aqua asc & i might hve heeded the advise. i do random synastry & if they're GUYS,i pay particular attention to their moon & venus signs & the no. of planets i deposit in their 7H. i thought of acting acc to their signs once but never really went about doing that. i can't imagine acting cancer,pisces,taurus.....my partner has venus in leo :i take around 2 hours to dress up daily. my style varies from punk to classic. moon's in gemini: i can go on & on & on & em really playful,sometimes immature & gem's luv my craziness. my ex's an aries moon & libra venus. he defo likes chasing & being chased. i did all the courting & pursued him for 2 months. we went out for another 2 months & then i lost interest. libra venus: no em not a model,lawyer,actor....em a sweet person if u get to know me but my 1st impression's always the opposite.... aries moon: tomboyish to a certain extent & can get really bossy(in a playful sense) esp with guys. current suitor + close frnd: leo venus: cancer moon: nahaha...i don't cry infront of people!!em pretty cappie though. but i luv his venus coz it squares my unaspected jupe & not many people touch my venus & jupe. & that method of finding ur mate from ur birth chart actually works. sun(15 deg sag) rules the 7H is conjunct the 11H cusp in sag (5+1=6=virgo) jupe is in scorpio in 9H. sun conjuncts mars(11H)only. he's a virgo & is of a diff nationality.we met abroad,bcame friends & got into a relationship after a month. He's very uranian!! uranus- sun trine venus kinkunx mars/jupe square pluto sext neptune conj desc conj i've a feeling that he'll enroll into the army & em so not supportive of it.
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ohmybaby Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 05, 2010 02:36 PM
WHY the hell would he enroll in the army, unless he wants to die?IP: Logged |
Diablo Knowflake Posts: 320 From: Melbourne, Australia Registered: May 2009
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posted April 05, 2010 02:52 PM
Hmmmm what about a boy with an Aries moon and a Pisces Venus??Yep, he loves my slightly muscular yet thin (and i can be described as bony if i'm having a stressful week). The other wk he was asking me to tense my arms and saying i had a figure like Angelina Jolie (?? i said, um nooo..i look like Sarah Jessica Parker and got her body, actually and he's like, "oh yeah, you totally do"). Loves the leader in me, whenever its a bad situation, its me who has to step in and take care of it. Venus in Pisces..well, we met in the strip club i was working at, where i was dressed in those fishnet stay-up stockings, the strappy platform stripper heels (i liked mine to have just a black thin strap with a clear platform and a long, silver chrome stilleto heel), loved the lingere that comes with that job. Been 2 yrs since then, but yeah he still likes me to have my nails done, hair done, dress girly and feminine in heels and skirts and all that etc (but cos of my Aries Rising, i'm just comfortable in jeans, hoodie and sneakers) Being so Cancer ruled, I can do sweet, innocent daddy's girl princess or big mama/sister eaaasy. Sometimes i feel my personality is split between the 2. My Venus in Taurus and Libra Moon totally add to that femininity that he adores so much. IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 501 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted April 05, 2010 03:06 PM
Okay, the first part was very interesting...with Sun in the 7th trine Mars and Sextile Jupiter, I wonder if I'll hit the Jackpot?  But the second part....that's definitely not the way to get a guy. My friend does that type of thing without astrology (taking on the partner's world, likes, dislikes, personaity) and her relationships never end on a happy note. It either goes two ways: she becomes resentful or the guy gets bored and takes advantage of her after a while.
It was still interesting to read the descriptions though, but the Gemini Venus one only applies to me at certain times. I had a narrow waist 4-5 years ago, but certainly not now. quote: A man with the Moon in Capricorn goes for a darker complexion, dark-haired women of a serious and even melancholic expression
I have a Cap Ascendant and I guess you could say this applies to me. IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3681 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 05, 2010 03:50 PM
Thongs make great catapults and article is interesting, yet it is also odd. v odd!  IP: Logged |
SpooL Knowflake Posts: 109 From: Toronto/Ottawa,Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 05, 2010 05:34 PM
quote: A man with Moon in Aries likes brave, strong, capable women subconsciously seeking a leader in her;
I can't speak for all Aries Mooners, but I can speak for myself.
I whouldn't say it that way, I'm not intrested in a "Joan Of Arc" kinda figure. That whould be to much to handle, a personal liability if I can say that. I whould say any competent and profesional female, kinda hard to find in Ottawa. As there all mostly goverment workers. There is nothing wrong with goverment work, its generally fround upon by the private sector. Pay is generally more in the private sector, but the goverment is more secure. With that said its vary hard to find ambitous people here, hence why I miss Toronto. Also, my mars is in cancer and I have a venus in Tarus so that effects things a bit. Not to mention my rising. So I'm both the conquerer or to be conquered --------------------------------------- Gemini Sun Capircorn Rising Aries Moon Mercury Gemini Venus Tarus Mars Cancer IP: Logged |
vapor-lash Knowflake Posts: 1475 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted April 05, 2010 06:04 PM
Yes Ami - It's usually Sun-Mars for women. I'm not sure if I see it. I'm Aries Sun, Cappy Mars. The only definition that comes to mind is - animal in the bedroom who behaves himself impeccably socially.. and I DO mean - impeccably LOL Spool - Could you be a bit more specific with what you'd want in a woman personality wise? I'm curious about Aries Moon.
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comica23 Knowflake Posts: 939 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 05, 2010 06:13 PM
About that method of degrees mentioned.. let me try.. X3- my bf's 7th house ruler Mercury in the 0ºdegrees (Aries?) and sextile Mars - I'm Aries with Virgo AC; - his Mercury is in Sagittarius and 9th house, and the ruler Jupiter is also there - I'm an university student, and I was born in another country; - his Mars is in the 7th house in Virgo, but at 27ºdegrees - another indicator of a fiery partner; - his Venus is also in the 7th house in Libra, at 5ºdegrees (Leo?) - I'm not sure if this applies to my traits, but I do have some small Libra traits (maybe it's coz of my Juno/Angel there?); - his Moon is in Pisces - I'm in fact kinda Pisces, with my Pisces DC. - in my chart.. DC ruler Neptune in Capricorn at 3ºdegrees (Gemini?) in the 5th house - he doesn't really have Gemini influences, only Chiron, NN and IC there, so I wouldn't count this.. but he has Pisces AC and Moon.. and we've met through friends/entertainment; - Neptune is trine to Mars, sextile to Pluto and square to Sun - my bf is a Scorpio.. the square to Sun might not seem very fit thought, yet it can indicate a Piscean partner (if according to the theory of Sun/Mars indicating women's preference); - The ruler where Neptune is is Saturn, that is in the 3rd house in Scorpio - again, he's a Scorpio. IP: Logged |
Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 1006 From: US Registered: Dec 2009
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posted April 05, 2010 06:14 PM
quote: Yes Ami - It's usually Sun-Mars for women. I'm not sure if I see it. I'm Aries Sun, Cappy Mars. The only definition that comes to mind is - animal in the bedroom who behaves himself impeccably socially.. and I DO mean - impeccably LOL
I hear you girlfriend. 
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Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 501 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted April 05, 2010 07:02 PM
quote: Yes Ami - It's usually Sun-Mars for women. I'm not sure if I see it. I'm Aries Sun, Cappy Mars. The only definition that comes to mind is - animal in the bedroom who behaves himself impeccably socially.. and I DO mean - impeccably LOL
Sun in Cancer/Mars in Aries--->> The Poetic Warrior works just fine with me. 
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AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 2684 From: acousticgod@sbcglobal.net Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 05, 2010 07:16 PM
quote: Venus in Sagittarius makes him responsive to long legs, short skirts, shorts...
This is apparently our song  IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 47 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted April 05, 2010 08:13 PM
so let me get this straight, she got the guy being sb she's not?wow. IP: Logged |
Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 1006 From: US Registered: Dec 2009
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posted April 06, 2010 06:50 AM
quote: Also im a girl with venus in leo. I like to dress up like im at a party everyday but I dont like my man to dress that way. I like him to look good in simple clothes. I dont like men that are too dressy and accessorise and pluck their eye brows and look like done up dolls.
You mean----You don't want a man who is prettier than YOU are  IP: Logged |