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posted April 05, 2010 09:07 PM         

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What does it mean to have NN conj Asc and NN trine Asc in a synastry chart?
I read that it means these people have things to teach each other but does it mean like a marriage or long term relationship?Is it a bad thing to have in synastry and how powerful is it as an aspect?

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posted April 05, 2010 09:35 PM         

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posted April 05, 2010 09:42 PM         

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It is a VERY strong compatibility factor in synastry. The Node person represents what the planet person is moving "forward" to.

I have this with someone and I actually feel it reversed. I'm the Node and she's the Sun and (0˚ conjunction in Libra) sometimes I feel like she represents my future.

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posted April 05, 2010 09:44 PM         

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. I'm the Node and she's the Sun and (0˚ conjunction in Libra) sometimes I feel like she represents my future.

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Thought this was the traditional interpretation..... (!)

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posted April 05, 2010 09:47 PM         

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It is but reversed.

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posted April 05, 2010 09:49 PM         

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What you think is the reverse is actually the traditional interp.

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posted April 05, 2010 09:49 PM         

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You're right! Wow! I always had that backwards! I always thought the Sun person was drawn to the Node person.

From Cafeastrology:

When your Sun is conjunct your partner's North Node, one of the major themes of your relationship is developing each other's talents and strengths. This contact is a powerful one. Instant friendship is probable, but if there is any hesitance, it is likely on the part of the North Node person. The Sun person expresses many of the qualities that the North Node person is intuitively drawn to expressing, and any reluctance on the Node person's part really represents a fear of progress. More probably, this relationship is attractive and carries with it some unspoken promise of growth. There is a feeling of "going somewhere" through this relationship. You are likely to be quite active together, spurring each other on frequently.

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posted April 05, 2010 09:52 PM         

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Well I had this with someone recently and it didn't make me want to stay with them at is north node was exactly conjunct my ascendant.

Even though we were same signs and had ok synastry I was repulsed by the idea of spending alot of time with him.

Keeping in mind that his north node was square my north node form my ascendant.

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posted April 05, 2010 09:57 PM         

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You're right!

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NN conj asc is a huge tie, the asc person will teach you a very big lesson related to your soul's path, the ease of that dependent on natal aspects that each of you have to that conj. The aspects will also tell you how easy it is to keep that union afloat. It's quite intense.

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posted April 05, 2010 09:59 PM         

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Belgz, what repulsed you about him? Did you see the repulsion in the synastry or composite?

LOL @ Lonake!

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posted April 05, 2010 10:08 PM         

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Oh i have his synastry somewhere. Let me find the link and come back.

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posted April 05, 2010 10:25 PM         

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Wow! Moon opp Mars, Venus Conjunct Saturn, Sun Square Saturn, and Mercury Square Saturn.

Do you think those played a part in your repulsion towards him?

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posted April 05, 2010 10:40 PM         

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The Node person has something to learn from the ASC person. It's part of the Node person's learning path. There can be resistance on the part of the Node, since subconciously they know this is something they need to move toward, something they need to learn, something they know they have to do. This type of relationship can also start slowly, and take some time to develop, because of that hesitancy on the Node's part.

With a double whammy, I would think you either both jump in with both feet, or there is hesitancy on both parts.

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posted April 05, 2010 10:57 PM         

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Hey VIG,
I agree with your description. I have this aspect with this guy, his NN is conj my Asc and his SN and Pluto sit on my Dsc. My NN is trine his Asc. We broke up 6 years ago as he was not ready to commit to a serious relationship. He came back last year asking for a second chance, but the sad part is he has not grown up at all. He started withdrawing the moment he felt the realtionship was turning serious.I broke up with him that time. And he has been making feeble attempts to be back again.
We have about 4-5 planets in each others' 7th house, Venus opp Mars, but we have pluto squares and jupiter squares.
I still can't figure out why I can't let him go, I go through heartbreak each time he starts going Peter Pan on me and still I can honestly say that I love him with every fiber of my being.
What lesson am I supposed to learn from all of this?

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posted April 06, 2010 12:30 AM         

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His North Node is drawing you to him, and that's why you feel you can't let him go. North Node/ASC connections tend to have that "meant to be" feeling. You both know it. He knows it, and it causes him fear, and he runs because the Node is the one being asked to step up to what the ASC person has to teach them. They are being asked to step into that new direction. You mentioned his "Peter Pan" aspect. He essentially struggles with his Ego pulling him one way, and his Soul pulling him in the opposite direction. Also, with someone else's planets falling into your 7th house, you tend to see them as your ideal partner.

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posted April 06, 2010 12:44 AM         

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What does the opposite mean? DW NN conuct DSC?

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posted April 06, 2010 07:54 AM         

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Hey VIG,
My NN is trine his Asc too, why do I not fear the lessons I could learn from him. I am willing to step up to the plate, why can't he? Do you think the squares are more potent than the NN-Asc connection to break the relationship? I can never understand why he keeps coming back if he is so scared of the relationship.

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posted April 06, 2010 08:22 AM         

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Not sure but everyone thinks hes gods gift to women but to me he as fake and made me felt uneasy after a while.

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posted April 06, 2010 08:33 AM         

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Maybe your Cencerian intuition saw right through him.

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posted April 06, 2010 08:43 AM         

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Belgz
Can I ask you how a couple of aspects played out?
First-he has Pluto conjunct Saturn. How did that manifest in him?
Second---How did it feel to have your Saturn on his Venus?
Third--Also was his Mars conjunct your Ascendent? If so, what was that like?

Thank you very much for any help

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posted April 06, 2010 09:20 AM         

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NN/AC conjunctions are not necessarily romantic relationship indicators, but they are very meaningful. I know a very special friendship in which the AC person has always been there and helping the NN person. With this friendship, the NN person overcame a few issues.

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posted April 06, 2010 09:37 AM         

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So are you saying that the NN person has to "grow"i.e break out of old patterns?The South node shows what they have already mastered--right--i.e.what they are comfortable with?
With my synastry --my NN is in Sag and I DO need to develop Sag traits--fearlessness, boldness and a sense of adventure-
So, the NN person may be afraid to move forward cuz NN is our aspirational place--where we aspire to be.

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posted April 06, 2010 10:02 AM         

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Ami Ann, I agree with you, I have Taurus NN, and I also feel that I need to develop some Taurus traits, like enjoying life and having more self value. SN is our comfortable zone, but it also represents certain traits that we need to overcome. Not to forget, but to overcome, so that the positive traits of our SN are still important to remember. For example, with Scorpio SN, I should overcome my obsessions and darkness, but I don't need to forget how valuable relationship bonds are (a positive Scorpio trait).

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posted April 06, 2010 10:07 AM         

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So how does it play out in synastry. My Asc is in Pisces and my guy's NN is conj my Asc, so he needs to get in touch with his sensitive side?
He has 5 planets in Libra including the Sun. He is a mass of confusion since he comes back wanting to get back together and then if it gets serious starts doing things to destruct the relationship. How do I help him overcome this?

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