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Topic: Loyalty in signs
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fiona Knowflake Posts: 124 From: The World Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2010 07:25 AM
Please share your experiences?My Leo ALWAYS takes my side and defends me, even when I'm wrong. He protects me no matter what. He has a virgo moon, which is supposed to be critical, but as far as his loved ones are concerned, he is pretty "blind" to their faults. My Cancer ex (with Libra moon) was faithful in that he was always there for me when i needed him. On the other hand, he was less likely than my Leo to take "sides". My other ex, who was a Pisces, was loyal to me (he declared his undying love for me and 100% devotion)... until things weren't so rosy anymore. Then, he stopped calling me without any explanation, hoping I would just disappear from his life. The more I hung on to him, the more slipped away. What are your experiences with loyalty in each sign? IP: Logged |
GypseeWind Knowflake Posts: 6378 From: Love Street, she lingers long on Love Street.. Registered: May 2009
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posted April 20, 2010 07:56 AM
I like these kind of questions...Aries ~ friends untill the end, would go down in a sinking ship with you. The women. No comment on the men in the romance department, but they make great friends. Cancer ~ I have had them in and out of my life. Nothing really major happens, it just seems we outgrow one another and move on. Leo ~ See Aries. No experience with dating though. Virgo ~ Every Virgo friend and/or lover I've ever had, I still have as a friend. I think they are very loyal people. Libra ~ Other than my LL friends, the only Libra friend I have (other than acquaintances) I met in high school, and still talk to her every day. She is pretty darn loyal. Scorpio ~ Loyal to the death. Will defend you to the death. TRUE.. but, this only if you have developed a very deep bond with them, which can sometimes take years. Sagittarius ~ OK, see other fire signs. LOL. Capricorn ~ hmm, I'de have to go with loyal there too. I've seen my cap girlfriend go bonkers when someone has said something disrespectful to me before. Aquarius ~ Unfortunately, in my life, IN PERSON, the Aquas I've known have stabbed me in the back. I've forgiven them, only to have it done again. Not the guys though, but, I haven't dated one, so this is strictly a friendship thing. Pisces ~ Can go either way. IP: Logged |
angel100 Knowflake Posts: 265 From: Ireland Registered: Nov 2009
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posted April 20, 2010 08:30 AM
With boyfriends of mine I am 100% loyal with a passion all the time. Defend till the death! that's what I say.Asc virgo sun libra moon capricorn
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la_sexorcisto Knowflake Posts: 131 From: wat Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2010 10:59 AM
Aries with Scorpio Moon: i think he cheated on me but he did try to get me back after he broke up with me, though it never happened. i don't know if he'd take my side on things because we didn't speak the same language (literally, he was a Mexican immigrant)Aries with Capricorn Moon: he seemed devoted to me, and i think he would have taken my side if we had ever been in the situation where i was defending myself. Pisces with Taurus Moon: fiona's description of her Pisces is exactly like mine. 'nuff said. Libra with Sagittarius Moon (current bf): he says he is totally devoted and faithful to me and i feel and know he is sincere (at least right now). he would defend me if he knew i was right but if i were wrong, i'm not so sure he'd defend me. i think it would highly depend on the situation and people involved. IP: Logged |
Astra Knowflake Posts: 830 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2010 07:07 PM
Aries: as friends they are loyal. As lovers, they seem prone to cheating.Taurus: so utterly sweet and loyal. Love them! Gemini: loyal if they consider you a close friend. Otherwise, they won't defend you, though they won't backstab you either unless you anger them Cancer: Sun in cancer is stable and appears loyal. I have a hard time reading them. Moon in cancer--> get backstabbed by them a lot; lacks honesty in my experience. Leo: so lovable and fiercely loyal! They make awesome, entertaining friends. You can always count on them Virgo: They're ok. Libra: I know a few libras and they are loyal, though sometimes it may not seem that way since they tend to straddle the fence on issues Scorpio: VERY loyal...at least the scorpio suns are. Sagittarius: no comment Capricorn: loyal, though they give out tough love Aquarius: they're ok Pisces: very sweet. Loyalty varies IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3671 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted April 20, 2010 07:28 PM
Oh, are we going by sun sign generalities again? It's a mixed bag, I'd say. For every sun sign I know which has shown unbelievable loyalty, there's been one of the same sun which has shown amazing backstabbing skills as well as a lack of loyalty Makes sense though. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 8743 From: Dublin, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2010 08:01 PM
Aries - I find them to be fairly loyal. Judged over a long enough period of time they will come out seeming loyal I think, though with the possible indiscretion here and there.Taurus - Loyal is practically their middle name. Once you're in with one, you're always in. Gemini - More loyal than Sun sign astrology might make them seem. Cancer - I think Cancers may sometimes be too manipulative for their own good. They want to be loyal, but when they're hurt they'll act disloyal to hurt you back. Leo - I would say that they're pretty loyal. Virgo - Loyal, but wrapped in a package that makes you wonder sometimes. Those critical moments hit, and you're left not knowing whether they're really being critical, or if it was just a passing thing. Libra - I think they probably are, but I don't have a lot to comment about with them. Scorpio - I find them disappointingly disloyal at times. You can be going along having a nice relationship, then in the blink of an eye they're offended at you, and it's all your fault, and you're left wondering, "Where's their loyalty to me and to our friendship? How did things change so suddenly? Wtf?". I've been dumbfounded by this on multiple occasions. Sagittarius - Loyal, but distant. They don't mean to leave you, it's just something they've gotta do, and anytime you talk with them in the future you'll be right back where you left off. Capricorn - Loyal, but I can't comment without considering myself, and I don't think I'm the most stereotypical version. I can't say I'd defend a loved one's position if I didn't agree with it. At most I'd serve them with my silence, and let them believe what they want. Aqua - I think loyal, but I've heard female Aquas talk about how they pick fights with their loved ones not even necessarily having a point at the onset, but reaching one eventually. Not sure what that's about. Pisces - Not sure. Not enough observation. Personally, I enjoy people's loyalty a lot. There may be nothing more irksome than someone with an inability to be consistent. I don't demand the kind of loyalty that fights my battles. I can cover that. I just like people to fulfill the roles I've come to expect them to fill. IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 2791 From: Avendesora Registered: May 2009
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posted April 20, 2010 08:32 PM
I think it depends on what each person's definition of loyalty is. And plus, we aren't just going by sun signs are we? IP: Logged |
Cheshire Kat unregistered
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posted April 20, 2010 08:46 PM
The only loyal person in my life, is myself..I try not to depend or exspect much from anyone because friends and settings change..even sadly family but I am the only constant in my life and the one keeping myself together.Not to say there are not any people in my life I can somewhat count on lol like some of my family and my closest friends but I usually don't count on them..until the shat as really hits the fan.X_X. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3671 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted April 20, 2010 09:21 PM
It looks like they are, Benedict lolOver-generalizations are funnnnn! BTW - all those 'typically' loyal signs have displayed the most appalling levels of disloyalty: Leo, Taurus, Scorpio, Cancer, Capricorn, Aries...oh, and Libra. But they're fickle anyway (ALL OF THEM!!!), so I guess it's no surprise IP: Logged |
Lara Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted April 20, 2010 10:16 PM
Taureans are probably the most loyal sign i have found. IP: Logged |
Deliverance Knowflake Posts: 351 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2010 10:24 PM
quote: Taureans are probably the most loyal sign i have found.
No, we are the most loyal...we back up our b*tches....with ****boxes IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3671 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted April 20, 2010 10:31 PM
Deliverance I know you were just waiting for an opportunity to say that IP: Logged |
Deliverance Knowflake Posts: 351 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2010 11:30 PM
*bows* Yep, I've been biding my time, waiting for an opportuinity to say it. I've got it out of my system now! IP: Logged |
Astra Knowflake Posts: 830 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2010 11:37 PM
quote: Oh, are we going by sun sign generalities again? It's a mixed bag, I'd say. For every sun sign I know which has shown unbelievable loyalty, there's been one of the same sun which has shown amazing backstabbing skills as well as a lack of loyalty Makes sense though.
You're certainly welcome to post moon, venus, etc signs if you like. I was just too lazy and stuck with sun signs. All we can really make are generalizations about signs, placements and aspects. I agree, there are loyal and disloyal people in every sign. In my post, I was only speaking about my own experience regarding sun signs, which may or may not be close to the majority of people's experiences. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3671 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted April 20, 2010 11:53 PM
Astra, and I am a huge fan of simplifying the complex, but when the simple (Sun) becomes even more simplified in these cases, I feel like I can't relate at all. For me, it's been mostly Aqua and Leo as longest time friends. Are they the most loyal to me? I don't know, they're just the most present in my life, closely followed by Sagittarians. I was raised by Aquas and have always been surrounded by them and my Jupiter is in the same sign. Leos as well have figured prominently and have by turns been either very loyal or very disloyal. I've seen both ends of the spectrum with them. Sagittarians have been friends of the more far away variety. We almost always get along, but we're hardly ever in the same place So no, I do not think I can generalize even in that department because all their moons have been different too. As for what defines loyalty, I would say it's someone who is not a fair weather friend. And those are hard to find no matter what sign, period. If you've had better luck than I have and are able to even categorize it, then more power to you IP: Logged |
lionseye*** Knowflake Posts: 333 From: edmonton, ab. ca Registered: May 2009
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posted April 21, 2010 01:24 AM
Now wait a minute. Loyalty doesn't look the same to everybody. For me, you can disagree with my stance on something, as long as you always believe in me and my good intentions. But if I'm wrong, for god sakes tell me so. I'll probably come around if it makes sense...eventually. Don't throw me under a bus to advance yourself Don't disregard our bond for the sake of a good time Don't tell my secrets for fun or advancement in social status.Who has done this to me? Gemini, Gemini, Gemini (I have a Gemini sister who I would like to strangle sometimes) Cancer (with Gemini rising) Scorpio (once I shunned his sexual advances) Aquarius, long sad story I have never been betrayed by a Virgo but I know people who have been. Taurus is loyal and true to their word, but that doesn't mean they won't dissappoint you. They just tend to warn you before they do. Aries is honest as the day is long, but like Taurus, they tend to warn you before they disappoint you. Leo, hard to say, as I don't have many Leo freinds, but they are faithfull,and kind, but also somewhat self serving. But you tend to forgive them easily. It's hard to wish ill will on these folks. Maybe I'm biased? IP: Logged |
vapor-lash Knowflake Posts: 1868 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted April 21, 2010 03:20 AM
Me: Sun - Aries Moon - Capricorn AC - either Gemini or Cancer Mercury - Pisces Venus- either Aries or Taurus Mars - Capricorn Jupiter - Pisces Saturn - Sagittarius(born: 02-04-86) Person who betrayed my trust often. She said things behind my back that I would have prefered to remain secret and often made up other things that were just untrue:
Sun - Leo Moon - Cancer AC - Unknown Mercury - Virgo Venus - Leo Mars - Scorpio Jupiter - Capricorn Saturn - Scorpio (born 26-07-84) Person who I would trust with absolutely anything. He is just amazing and extremely loyal.
Sun - Leo Moon - Gemini AC - Scorpio Mercury - Cancer Venus - Virgo Mars - Scorpio Jupiter - Leo Saturn - Aries (born: 02-08-67) It's interesting that they have similarities in their personal planets. One of them I cut off from my life because I would not trust her as far as I could throw her. The other is the most trustworthy person I've known. IP: Logged |
vapor-lash Knowflake Posts: 1868 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted April 21, 2010 03:21 AM
lionseye - I feel the same way about disloyalty. It is not about a disagreement in opinion. It is about a breach of trust or causing intentional harm. IP: Logged |
fiona Knowflake Posts: 124 From: The World Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 21, 2010 10:08 AM
Feel free to post sun, moon, venus, or whatever you think contributes to loyalty or disloyalty in a person from your own experience. Of course, experience varies from person to person, so it's good to gather some feedback from others.When i say take "sides", i don't mean disagreement in opinion. I mean when someone is attacking or hurting your loved ones (verbal insults or what have you), would you jump in to help him/her or would you do nothing? IP: Logged |
mermaid26 Knowflake Posts: 779 From: Adyton Registered: Jun 2009
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posted April 21, 2010 10:42 AM
I think my Taurus Moon strengthens my loyalty capabilities. I may not keep up with friends very well, but I always resume relationships just like old times. As long as someone's genuinely seeking realty and truth like me I immediately feel the bond.IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 8743 From: Dublin, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 21, 2010 11:46 AM
quote: Now wait a minute. Loyalty doesn't look the same to everybody. For me, you can disagree with my stance on something, as long as you always believe in me and my good intentions. But if I'm wrong, for god sakes tell me so. I'll probably come around if it makes sense...eventually. Don't throw me under a bus to advance yourself Don't disregard our bond for the sake of a good time Don't tell my secrets for fun or advancement in social status.
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Lara Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted April 21, 2010 01:39 PM
I would have to say that taurus and aries are more loyal than cappy IP: Logged |
NeptuneIllusion Knowflake Posts: 81 From: Mendocino County, CA Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 03, 2010 12:02 AM
Loyalty is different for everyone!!! I agree with all the people who have stated this already.I've tried to think back on patterns of disloyalty based on sun sign, but I really can't. I have known people born under just about every sun sign that have cheated on their partners. It's more about the venus and mars sign, or perhaps not even that. More to do with the environment that they grew up in and the values they learned as a child. My ex is a Gemini and she cheated on me quite regularly, but my ex before her was a Cappy and he cheated on me as well too. Taurus is known for being loyal, but I have met Taureans that are just as promiscuous as any Gemini sun person. It really isn't all that cut and dry. Too bad it isn't- it would be easier to spot who is a good mate and who isn't, but it just doesn't work that way unfortunately. I'm sure there are planetary placements that make make a person more prone to lying, but it has been really hard for me to spot since i"ve met people born under every sign that exhibit just about every behavior. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 9380 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 03, 2010 12:20 AM
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