posted May 09, 2010 01:30 PM
I have refined my theory a bit more now (with the help of TPA, but not sticking to them sternly):
I wrote this to someone just today:
I was checking for:
°Partner pattern, indicated in the 7th house, and how the other fulfills it, indicated in the 1st house constellations - this has most influence on relationships of course, and the 1st house is a physical one; so the instinctive / physical experience plays a role, here.
° Binding pattern, indicated in the 8th house (I did not check the 2nd house, which I probably should have though)
° emotional area, indicated in the constellations of 5th and 4th house;
the 4th house is our basic emotional needs and being; the 5th house is indicative about how we express these needs, including our sexual / erotic style of course
(the 1st house is more about an instinctive / physical attraction, based on our hormones maybe, or some genetical thing; the 5th house is sexual attractions fuelled by emotions)
In the mentioned constellations the first planet is indicative of the area I have been looking at.
So,
Moon-Pluto means that the person is Plutonic in relation to the 4th house (Moon)
Pluto-Moon means that the person is lunar in relation to the 8th house (Pluto)
- even though these two are almost interchangeable.
Sun-Mars means that the person is Martian in relation to 5th house matters (Sun)
Venus-Mercury means that the person is Mercurial in relation to 7th house matters (Venus)
Mars-Neptune means that the person is Neptunian in relation to 1st house matters (Mars).
I only checked the basic / dominant constellations; there may be others, too, which may be influential, but more in the background. And I think it is important to see the MAIN factors first, before delving into details.
For this I checked:
Sign at the cusp of a house and intercepted sign (if any)
Ruler of the relevant house in another house
planets in the relevant house
the house these planets come from (rule)
Then I proceeded to check the pattern if any emerged.
There are three possible ways for a pattern:
- no resonance at all
- people have the SAME constellation
- people have a POLAR constellation
SAME constellations indicate that there is a similiarity between people, it can lead to innate understanding, a feeling of looking eye to eye, deep familiarity, but if there is an excess of SAME constellations it might lead to a "brother-sister-connection" rather than a great attraction;
They may feel they are "one of a kind"
POLAR constellations are indicative of magnetic attraction between two people, like key-and-lock, they may even give a feeling of completing each other; there is this feeling of "You were made for me"; but even though they are complimentary there are of course energetic differences (polar constellations are Venus-Mars or Sun-Moon), and these differences may lead to a very temperamental exchange, someone said to me about these constellations: "They are rollercoasters"
(Probably I should have checked your relevant planets in sign and house and aspects, too, but I have really concentrated on the houses as they are much quicker. You can add the planets yourself and see if they modify the themes)
Oh btw I checked only "direct" connections; with that I mean, only Mars-constellations were compared with Venus or Mars-constellations.
And only Sun constellations were compared with Moon or Sun constellations.
Of course it can be that a person has Venus-Saturn and the other person has neither Venus-Saturn nor Mars-Saturn, but Moon-Saturn.
That would mean that person A has a Saturnian need in terms of relationships (Venus / 7th house), but that person B`s instinctive nature (Mars) is not fulfilling that. BUT that person B has that Saturnian trait in terms of their emotional nature (Moon-Saturn).
This would probably give some sort of emotional understanding, but it is a connection that is "indirect", almost like a seasaw. Person A is seeking for a physical manifest relationship (7th house), but Person B gives her an emotional connection (4th house), but without having the fitting (physical) make up to fulfill her needs.
Having thought about this a bit more I think I would make a check list like this one:
1. partner/attraction pattern
Venus in sign and house
Venus aspects (conjunction, square, opposition)
DESC in sign
DESC-aspects (conj, square, opposition)
ruler of 7th house in house x (maybe also sign)
planets in 7th house
ruled houses of planets in 7th house
Mars in sign and house
Mars aspects
ASC in sign
ASC aspects
ruler of ASC in house (and sign)
planets in 1st house
ruled houses of 1st house planets
2. Binding patterns
Pluto in house (NOT sighn)
Pluto aspects
cusp 8 in sign
exact aspects to cusp 8 (only if birthtime is exact)
ruler of 8 in house (and sign)
planets in 8th house
ruled houses of 8th house planets
2nd or even 1st house
3. emotional pattern
Sun/ 5th house
Moon / 4th house
But maybe I am allowing too many constellations again.