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Topic: Depression without romance?
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belgz
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From: Sydney, Australia
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posted May 09, 2010 06:10 PM
 
What placements would show this? I hate living without romance, I feel like my world is ending and I become unstable  Theres gotta be an explanation for this? I feel like I need to constantly be in love. I want to do all the candlelight stuff and stare in each others eyes. Its sickening but true.. I get dissapointed if I feel the love or passion is dying. I get upset as if its the end of the relationship and were doomed. I am tired of trying to put the spark in my relationships by doing new things and preventing this from happening.  IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted May 09, 2010 06:49 PM
Oooh! me! me!Sun in the 5th house.
Moon in Aries.
Neptune in the 7th  No romance = BOREDOM and spiral into depression. I need someone to put up on a pedestal (and then dismantle lol) I would look at 5th house definitely.
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Ami Ann
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posted May 09, 2010 06:50 PM
I don't know what placements would show it but I think everyone on here feels it or has felt it.
Thanks for sharing!
It helped me to read that I am not alone cuz I feel blue, today ,too.
I won't ask you to be an empath, though x o x Ami
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Glaucus
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posted May 09, 2010 06:56 PM
I definitely feel loneliness overlapping with depression from not having somebody in my life.My Saturn contraparallel Mercury-Venus-Neptune. ------------------
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Deliverance
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posted May 09, 2010 07:19 PM
I feel a sense of foreboding & anxiety with the thought of sharing my life with someone. I thrive on absolute freedom. Venus in Aquarius 3rd
- wide Square to Uranus in the 11th.
- opposite Saturn in Leo 9th Sun/Moon MP - Saturn
I know a few people with Moon conjunct Venus who cant bare to be alone.
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belgz
Knowflake Posts: 1449
From: Sydney, Australia
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posted May 09, 2010 08:05 PM
Even in a relationship I am high demand attention/romance seeker lol
I dont understand how some poeple get on with their everyday lives without being lovey dovey with their partner. My ex partner was NOT romantic! But he did chase the ball when i threw it at him. He shows his attraction by wanting sex all the time and thats romantic enough for me to watch him want me and try everything for it without giving up for hours but now when i see him and were not being physical as much anymore it is boring. Theres nothing left unless im playing my flirty games and trying to MAKE romance happen. The world then becomes a sad sad place.
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Glaucus
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posted May 09, 2010 08:11 PM
"Venus in Aquarius 3rd
- wide Square to Uranus in the 11th.
- opposite Saturn in Leo 9th"
I have a friend that has all that, and she's different from you. She's been in 2 marriages already including her present marriage.
She has Venus in 3rd and Saturn in 9th in Koch house system, and she has Venus in 2nd and Saturn in 8th in Placidus house system
I wonder if there is other stuff that is factoring.
She has Sun,Mercury,and Venus in Aquarius.
She also has Moon in Pisces
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MyVirgoMask
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posted May 09, 2010 08:13 PM
There's always more to it than astrology, I feel  IP: Logged |
Glaucus
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posted May 09, 2010 08:15 PM
MVM,I agree.
Free will is the ultimate factor.
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Deliverance
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posted May 09, 2010 08:57 PM
Perhaps the south node in Taurus & my 2nd house Capricorn Sun (combined with the Venus aspects) are also at play. I can't think of any other astrological factors that contribute to feeling anxious about sharing my life with someone.I still think the aspects that I mentioned point to thriving on freedom. Perhaps your friend's independence is expressed in a different area of her life.... quote:
There's always more to it than astrology, I feel
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Free will is the ultimate factor.
So true, but since this is an astrology forum, I guess people are focussing on astrological factors to shed light on their dispositions  IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon*
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posted May 09, 2010 09:06 PM
Geez, I'm always torn between wanting romance and wanting absolute freedom and autonomy. That's why daydreaming isn't always a bad thing. 
Cancer Sun/7th
Virgo Moon/8th trine Neptune
Gemini Venus/5th (big one since its a singleton/unaspected)
Aries Mars/3rd
Oh and Mercury-Neptune Opposition in Cancer and Capricorn.
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teasel
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posted May 09, 2010 10:23 PM
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ohmybaby
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posted May 09, 2010 10:34 PM
Are you the part time dreamer or what? You have a way out of hell now, its happening. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted May 09, 2010 10:59 PM
Who are you talking to, ohmybaby?IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted May 09, 2010 11:13 PM
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amowls*
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posted May 09, 2010 11:13 PM
I get this way. I have a 5th house Libra Moon so my security needs are met by romantic relationships.IP: Logged |
vapor-lash
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posted May 09, 2010 11:18 PM
Belgz - I have a good feeling about Mars transiting over your Venus -- soon. You might get an interesting & fun new romance!Don't sweat it. I think it's on its way!!  IP: Logged |
ohmybaby
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posted May 09, 2010 11:21 PM
I thought you had an Aquarius moon? IP: Logged |
ohmybaby
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posted May 09, 2010 11:24 PM
I'm talking to myself as usual, dont mind my crazy self IP: Logged |
Deliverance
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posted May 09, 2010 11:24 PM
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Glaucus
Knowflake Posts: 3417
From: Sacramento,California
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posted May 10, 2010 05:53 AM
Honestly I'm a bit depressed right now, and it's connected to loneliness and not being in a relationship as well as missing my ex. I can't sleep right now.It's a combination of anxiety and depression
I checked my transits
currently
opposition of:
transiting Juno is in 13'06 Gemini
transiting Saturn/Neptune midpoint in 13'22 Sagittarius
squaring my Ascendant/Descendant axis in 13'27 Virgo/Pisces
also
conjunction of
transiting Pluto/Sedna midpoint in 13'24 Pisces
Transiting Ceres/Sedna midpoint in 12'57 Pisces
is opposing/conjunct my Ascendant/Descendant axis
transiting Venus/Sedna midpoint is in 5'02 Gemini
conjuncting my Saturn in 5'08 Gemini R
transiting retrograde Ceres in 4'15 Capricorn R
transiting retrograde Pluto in 5'08 Capricorn R
conjuncting my Sun/Moon midpoint in 4'16 Capricorn
conjunction of:
transiting Sun in 19'37 Taurus
transiting Sedna in 21'41 Taurus
oppose my Venus in 21'47 Scorpio all the stuff together really reflects how I am feeling right now ------------------
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Seeing Stars 7.21
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posted May 10, 2010 07:18 AM
is that dog suppose to be looking at the world through rose colored glasses?IP: Logged |
Deliverance
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posted May 10, 2010 07:30 AM
 Awww, it's so sweet! quote:
is that dog suppose to be looking at the world through rose colored glasses?
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belgz
Knowflake Posts: 1449
From: Sydney, Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 10, 2010 11:49 AM
LOL yesss!!:P IP: Logged |
Happy Dragon
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posted May 10, 2010 01:59 PM
** What placements would show this? I hate living without romance, I feel like my world is ending and I become unstable
in the natal placements .. .. .. leo venus .. square to chiron and jupiter
** Theres gotta be an explanation for this? **
transiting chiron ( and neptune ) is opposite leo venus .. forming a 'cross' with that t-square configuration ..
natal moon will also be in the picture as it sextiles natal venus ..
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