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Topic: What's your Love Language and does it fit your Moon-Venus-Mars placements?
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Got Gemini? Knowflake Posts: 456 From: Mercury Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 13, 2010 02:44 PM
What's your love language and does it fit you based on your Moon-Venus-Mars placements?I'm actually listening to the audiobook and this guy makes a LOT of sense. Of course it's not an end all be all solution but I do think finding out your Love Language will definitely benefit you. I'll post mine in a bit. The 30 question quiz is under the "Assessments" tab. http://www.5lovelanguages.com ------------------ Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚ Gemini Sun 24˚ Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house) Gemini Mercury 25˚ Cancer Venus 29˚ (Mutual reception with Moon) And yes, i'm a guy! IP: Logged |
Got Gemini? Knowflake Posts: 456 From: Mercury Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 13, 2010 04:12 PM
I took the quiz and my scores are: 8 Quality Time 7 Physical Touch 7 Acts Of Service 6 Receiving Gifts (I reciprocate though!) 2 Words of AffirmationI think this describes me pretty well. I like to hear you say you love me but I much rather you show me you love me. Talk is free lol, everyone's got an unlimited supply of talk lol. Actions are MUCH more valuable to me, which speaks to my Venus in Cancer. And I do the same for my mate, which speaks to my Moon in Libra. What about you guys? ------------------ Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚ Gemini Sun 24˚ Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house) Gemini Mercury 25˚ Cancer Venus 29˚ (Mutual reception with Moon) And yes, i'm a guy! IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 3912 From: acousticgod@sbcglobal.net Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 13, 2010 04:23 PM
I think your Virgo placements prefer the action to the words, too (just because Virgo is about service).I'll take the test now. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 3912 From: acousticgod@sbcglobal.net Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 13, 2010 04:32 PM
9 Words of Affirmation 8 Quality Time 0 Receiving Gifts 9 Acts of Service 4 Physical Touch Moon in Virgo Venus in Sag Mars in Scorpio Words and Acts of Service are tops for my Mercury-ruled self. Followed by Quality Time. IP: Logged |
Got Gemini? Knowflake Posts: 456 From: Mercury Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 13, 2010 04:34 PM
I think you're right AG! I keep forgetting I have Virgo Asc and Mars. Acts of service is BIG for me because I always give acts of service to my woman.------------------ Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚ Gemini Sun 24˚ Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house) Gemini Mercury 25˚ Cancer Venus 29˚ (Mutual reception with Moon) And yes, i'm a guy! IP: Logged |
Got Gemini? Knowflake Posts: 456 From: Mercury Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 13, 2010 04:36 PM
I hear you AG! I like words too but for me, showing me is better. I do need conversation though!------------------ Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚ Gemini Sun 24˚ Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house) Gemini Mercury 25˚ Cancer Venus 29˚ (Mutual reception with Moon) And yes, i'm a guy! IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 3912 From: acousticgod@sbcglobal.net Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 13, 2010 04:54 PM
Yeah, I like conversation more than I care about words of love and devotion. I can see the love and commitment via the action of sticking around, and all the other little things.IP: Logged |
comica23 Knowflake Posts: 1191 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 13, 2010 05:35 PM
8 Words of Affirmation 8 Quality Time 3 Receiving Gifts 2 Acts of Service 9 Physical TouchAries Moon/Venus Taurus Mars Guess that I like direct demonstration lol someone that is willing to share a big part of their free time with the other is very telling for me (shows that he/she is comfortable and also likes the other's company). About physical touch and words of affirmation, it's important that they are genuine, or risk this Virgo AC with a big 8th house stellium start wondering 1001 reasons behind. XP IP: Logged |
vapor-lash Knowflake Posts: 1868 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted May 13, 2010 05:47 PM
Ok I am Capricorn Moon (7th), Taurus Venus (11th), Capricorn Mars (7th)... Your Scores 9 Words of Affirmation 7 Quality Time 4 Receiving Gifts 5 Acts of Service 5 Physical Touch
It's interesting that words came first... It's true for me because if I do not feel appreciated verbally - I feel like leaving the situation.
:edit: Actually this is interesting because.. "receiving gifts" is the lowest. It makes sense because I prefer to *give* gifts than receive them. Acts of Service and Physical Touch are kind-of middle ground... which also makes sense because a lot of the questions were phrased as "do you like it when HE does this for you?" -- and I often feel like "ummmmmm well sort OF... BUT I like it even more when I do that for him - maybe? Not always.." But when it comes to Words of Affirmation.. that's more important to me.. I lack air in my chart - I really crave and need air. The guys I get close to always have air.. I need to HEAR things said. GG - Do you think the houses are more important here - my houses are air... which would make sense since I need communication.. IP: Logged |
braveheart Knowflake Posts: 132 From: sydney, nsw, oz Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 13, 2010 05:48 PM
Your Scores: 6 Words of Affirmation 8 Quality Time 1 Receiving Gifts 6 Acts of Service 9 Physical Touch sun/taurus moon/aries venus/gemini mars/gemini
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electricmind Knowflake Posts: 583 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted May 13, 2010 06:16 PM
i'm so glad you posted this. i read this book about a year ago. its one of my favs. i have often thought about correlations between venus/moon sign and one's primary love language. mine definitely fits. 8 Words of Affirmation 9 Quality Time 0 Receiving Gifts 5 Acts of Service 8 Physical Touch
moon - aries venus - capricorn mars - scorpio i definitely need undivided attention. that would be my aries moon. puhleese be all about me just for a minute. no phone at dinner or when we are talking. look at me please!!! lol tie between words of affirmation and physical touch...both at the same time is best IP: Logged |
la_sexorcisto Knowflake Posts: 131 From: wat Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 13, 2010 06:24 PM
WHAT..how are you guys getting all different types with numbers next to them? I answered the first (only?) question and it said "Physical Touch" with a little description. Didn't give me any option to answer more questions or go on or anything..wtf? Well yeah I guess Physical Touch does pretty much do it for me. If a guy is unaffectionate and doesn't like touching me (not just sex) I feel very unloved, unappreciated, and sad.
My moon is Sag My venus is Scorpio My mars is Pisces
Im generally NOT touchy feely like with friends or family..but with lovers, very very much so.
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electricmind Knowflake Posts: 583 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted May 13, 2010 06:26 PM
@la_sexorcistoyou have to click assessments and then click husband or wive to the right. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 2444 From: Ohio Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 13, 2010 08:23 PM
8 Words of Affirmation 6 Quality Time 2 Receiving Gifts 6 Acts of Service 8 Physical TouchMoon and Venus are conjunct in Gemini (8th) and they square Mars in Pisces (4th). Receiving gifts is the least important to me, but I do appreciate the little things - things like someone I know taking photographs for me, when they went on vacation (they normally wouldn't take pictures, wanting to just take everything in, but they took some for me, which meant they were thinking of me at the time. ) Little things like that, really get to me. Buying me a necklace when you've screwed up = bad. I would probably remember what happened, every time I saw the necklace (and if you're spending that kind of money over a mistake, it would have to be a *huge* mistake you're covering for in the first place). Hugs are important to me - cuddling, holding hands, etc. A lack of affection would bother me. IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 1556 From: Avendesora Registered: May 2009
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posted May 13, 2010 09:16 PM
There were too many damn statements about recieving gifts....even for this Taurus Jupiter. 4 Words of Affirmation 9 Quality Time 3 Receiving Gifts 5 Acts of Service 9 Physical Touch
-Virgo Moon/8th -Gemini Venus/5th -Aries Mars/3rd
I'm not naturally affectionate with most people but I love getting it from a partner and would probably feel weird if they weren't that way, though that sounds more like my Taurean 5th house/Taurus Jupiter. For quality time, I don't have or want to spend every minute of the day with my S.O. but its important that there's some time set aside to spend together. IP: Logged |
soulful122 Knowflake Posts: 161 From: Where I want to be.. Registered: Jan 2010
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posted May 13, 2010 11:17 PM
7 Words of Affirmation 9 Quality Time 2 Receiving Gifts 3 Acts of Service 9 Physical TouchLol, sweet! See I'm gonna show this to my man to prove that I'm NOT materialistic! xD' Cool quiz though, I'm def a touchy person, but not with everyone. I love to be told I'm loved too, but it has to be genuine. Every time I tell someone I love them or how much they mean to me, I mean it, so no fake ish. Sun in Sag & Moon in Leo Venus in Sco with Mars in Lib IP: Logged |
ariescancer Knowflake Posts: 145 From: redlands, ca,usa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted May 13, 2010 11:56 PM
8 Words of affirmation5 Quality time 2 Receiving gifts 4 Acts of Service 11 Physical touch Sun, Venus and Mars in Aries Moon in Sag The test is right on I need the physical touch, I don't care for gifts, I love affirmation words, to me Quality time is like physical touch and I guess some acts of service are Ok. For me love is tounching 7 planets in fire Ascendat in Cancer. IP: Logged |
Got Gemini? Knowflake Posts: 456 From: Mercury Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 14, 2010 02:01 AM
I guess my gift score is high because I'm past that part in the book and it's not all about material gifts. One of the biggest gifts is the gift of presence. Your mate mght need you to be there for them and your being there is a gift. I'm BIG on reciprocation so if my woman does something for me, I'm def gonna reciprocate. I also love giving my woman surprise gifts. I'm VERY UNmaterialistic. A gift for me is any type of surprise like a massage for her after a stressful day. Gifts don't have to be material. Just wanted to share that lol. ------------------ Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚ Gemini Sun 24˚ Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house) Gemini Mercury 25˚ Cancer Venus 29˚ (Mutual reception with Moon) And yes, i'm a guy! IP: Logged |
comica23 Knowflake Posts: 1191 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 14, 2010 07:40 AM
Gifts could actually be hand-made or cooked food/desserts too. X3IP: Logged |
braveheart Knowflake Posts: 132 From: sydney, nsw, oz Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 14, 2010 08:11 AM
Does my Love language fit my moon venus mars?I don't thinks so, becase of my Physical Touch score (9), with I think reflects my Taurus sun. Taureans loves hugs, kisses, and touching, well I do. lol.
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mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 160 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted May 14, 2010 11:56 AM
Your Scores 7 Words of Affirmation 10 Quality Time 1 Receiving Gifts 5 Acts of Service 7 Physical Touch Aries rising Virgo Sun Libra Moon, Merc, venus Virgo mars
Moon conjunct Venus (2 degree) in 7th house Virgo Sun in 6th house (lol) must appreciate the actions behind the words.
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soulful122 Knowflake Posts: 161 From: Where I want to be.. Registered: Jan 2010
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posted May 14, 2010 12:04 PM
quote: I guess my gift score is high because I'm past that part in the book and it's not all about material gifts. One of the biggest gifts is the gift of presence. Your mate mght need you to be there for them and your being there is a gift. I'm BIG on reciprocation so if my woman does something for me, I'm def gonna reciprocate. I also love giving my woman surprise gifts.I'm VERY UNmaterialistic. A gift for me is any type of surprise like a massage for her after a stressful day. Gifts don't have to be material. Just wanted to share that lol.
That's true. I get what you're saying though. I reciprocate too, and it doesn't always have to be material gifts but that's what he gives me most of the time. Right now my job is unstable, and I've been currently looking so I am kinda tight with the 'material' reciprocating lol. I do appreciate the fact that he gives me gifts but that's the last thing I want unless it's my Birthday. Time together is want I love most. IP: Logged |
Yin Knowflake Posts: 1949 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 14, 2010 12:12 PM
Your Scores8 Words of Affirmation 8 Quality Time 1 Receiving Gifts 3 Acts of Service 10 Physical Touch Sun - Saggie Moon - Libra Venus - Saggie Mars - Leo IP: Logged |
Diablo Knowflake Posts: 698 From: Melbourne, Australia Registered: May 2009
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posted May 14, 2010 04:13 PM
9 Words of Affirmation 7 Quality Time 2 Receiving Gifts 3 Acts of Service 9 Physical TouchLibra moon Taurus venus Cancer mars Too many gift questions and I found the statements a little simplistic but it was interesting to do Words of affirmation, yeah I guess to a certain point (that would be my moon) but I prefer more conversations than words. Physical touch, with someone I'm in love with, yes in appropriate situations (Taurus venus loving the physical sensuality with Cancer mars loving the physical closeness/intimacy while Libra moon gets funny about public displays of affection. Cancer mars likes it to be private) I had a boyfriend briefly who I found incredibly annoying because he was so touchy-feely. It annoyed me the most when he'd be trying to touch me when I was in the middle of doing something, like blowdrying my hair..my arms would be everywhere with the hairdryer going everywhere and he'd be staring at me intently while trying to catch my moving arms to put his hands on any spot he could, like my elbows or something. UGH! Quality time could be anything, I'm happy lounging around the house or going out (lazy Taurus venus, cancer mars homebody) Acts of service, little things that help me that are typically man-type things like car problems or moving stuff or whatever i appreciate. I don't like things being payed for, the mentioned ex-boyfriend forced me to accept him paying for my car registration..as soon as we broke up he demanded the $$$ back the nxt day. I knew that was going to happen. Receiving gifts, well I'm not big on the whole gift-exchange thing, I prefer sentimental things (cancer mars) rather than big, expensive displays of love. I feel guilty or owned when money becomes a massive factor (Taurus Venus in the 2nd..i'm funny about money and possession). IP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 170 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted May 14, 2010 04:38 PM
Your Scores5 Words of Affirmation 9 Quality Time 1 Receiving Gifts 5 Acts of Service 10 Physical Touch Wow-Saggie Sun, Moon in leo, Libra venus and mars.
I LOVE giving gifts to people (maybe libran nature). LEO moon obviously loves attention and affection. Sparkling
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