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Topic: Giving birth to the sign you hate the most.
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vapor-lash
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posted May 18, 2010 05:30 AM
  
Hi Teasel - Nothing applies across the board. We always have a choice. The square probably plays out differently in your case. But the particular people I've met with this aspect seem to have some sort off political & social dislike of "all" men and women as groups of people (not as individuals).
In conversation they often complain about gender roles and relationships between men & women... They have very particular complaints about female behaviour -- and others (usually very different compliants) about male behaviour. This doesn't bother me. It is just very unlike me and I find it a bit disruptive - because I generally love male/female relationships. I don't "mind" hearing these tirades about how horrible men are or how silly women are... or whatever else..
But I do not agree.. because that is not my own perception of the world, and I usually change the subject. When I said I don't "get" this aspect... what I mean is -- I have a lack of understanding because I can't really put myself in their shoes. IP: Logged |
vapor-lash
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posted May 18, 2010 05:31 AM
lol Belgz.. I just met a guy with a Moon-Uranus square yesterday. He told me his longest relationship was two days. I'm not sure whether he was joking. IP: Logged |
Writesomething
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posted May 18, 2010 06:29 AM
There are certain signs I dislike but not enough for me to be upset with it if I had a baby with that sign. I'd figure god had a sense of humor.IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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posted May 18, 2010 06:34 AM
Dear Belgz
Don't you like anything about your Gem moon?
I think the moon is hard to have in Gem cuz it is not comfortable there .
I like my Gem placements(Sun,Venus, Merc) for many reasons.
However,IF I did not have strong water, I would not like them.
They need a good balance or Gem is too superficial.
I like Gem cuz it is very rational. It can look at a situation from pure reason in the same way a Cappy moon can look at a situation from pure earth bound logic.
I,being so water(Cancer sun, mars, Scorp Ascendant, 8th house Gemini stellium) need a balance .
Gem is friendly.It can put people at ease with friendly conversation--in social situations.
Gem is very curious. I am never bored cuz I am always studying things and /or talking on the phone.
I know Gem moon gets bored easily but my Gem placements are opposite.
Gem is fun.
Laughing is about the best thing going and as long as you can see the funny side of things, you can always have fun.
On a serious note, the whole chart is the thing, as you know,being a wonderful astrologer.
You can have a really deep Gemini which I am--in my opinion.
I have a 28 degree Gem sun. I think the out of bounds planets are different ,too, as Raymond was saying.
So, maybe you were half kidding about Gem 
but I like it.
I have had so much sorrow that my Gem has been the perfect sign as a way to dig out.
 Ami
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teasel
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posted May 18, 2010 06:58 AM
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DiandraReborn25
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posted May 18, 2010 10:57 AM
Belgzthat happens cause what you resist,persists. well im going to be an aunt again,and this time is from the part of my only brother who is naturally super happy to have his 1st son. guess what....the mom is a libra sun and my Brother is a pisces sun...if the Baby is born with full term then he will be a Gemini! i told him right away that time that it is better for him to born as a cancer! cause my eldest sister is Gem and she is the most complicated person that we know... of course we were jocking and we just expect the baby to be born happy and healthy but...yeah..among all the signs...i dont go along with Gems ( I LOVE MY SISTER) cause i never get to understand them,the hard i try but till today...im not able to understand them. i love cancers though...the way they are gentle and family-oriented.i gues my brother will be much at ease with a cancer baby than a Gem baby. but its the Soul´s baby who knows better what his mission is so....its his own call. IP: Logged |
Astra
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posted May 18, 2010 02:43 PM
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Oh btw astra i dont mean to diss anyones sun or moon. Its just that im a cancer sun and cap moon doesnt show me enough affection. It doesnt even go with my venus leo. It works in friendship just not romantically.
Belgz, Don't worry. I'm not offended. There are certain signs that are easier for us to get along with than others. Gemini is just one sign that you don't particularly like, and that's ok.
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These are all the qualities I admire and want my child to have.. If i had a wish list they would all be there at the top.. I am probably very gemini myself with my gemini moon but its like they dont have any emotions. They never stop to have a romantic moment. They never stop to daze in your eyes and say I love you.
You're a Cancer Sun, Gemini Moon, right? That combo right there has major clashing energies. Your Cancer Sun is emotional and romantic, but your Gemini Moon is logical and not-so-romantic. This is probably why you have ambivalent feelings towards Geminis--you admire them, but also are annoyed by them due to certain qualities they have.Geminis often feel more like friends than lovers. They do eventually say they love you, but it can take a long time for them to trust someone in a relationship. Emotions are a scary thing for Geminis and they are aware that showing emotion to someone else makes you vulnerable. So a Gemini will only say they love you and be physically affectionate if they feel secure in the relationship. Personally, I cannot say I love someone unless they are someone I would literally die for. I need to really love them, not just like them.
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Deliverance
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posted May 18, 2010 04:50 PM
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I wouldn't care if my child was born under the sign of a Purple Hippo, it's my kid lol.
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belgz
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posted May 18, 2010 06:08 PM
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You're a Cancer Sun, Gemini Moon, right? That combo right there has major clashing energies.
YEP!! It's hard being me, even "I" find myself difficult hehehehe. Actually I think Gemini with an earth moon would tone down the gemini side quite a bit. My mother is all air with fire.
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AscTaurus
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posted May 20, 2010 07:02 AM
This is weird...I used to dislike Cancerians for the longest time due to the terrible relationship I had with my dad(A cancerian) only to discover that my Moon is in Cancer hmmmm...His is in Capricorn b.t.w so I think it kind of muted some of his more gentler qualities.... I don't particularly like/trust Geminis and yet I think there is a strong possibility that I may have a Gemini kid one day...
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metalbabe5000
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posted May 20, 2010 07:33 AM
I am going to make sure I have an 'astrological' designer baby. LOL. I got can-sag moon-sag rising and to be honest, I don't want a baby that wants so much freedom e.g being an aqauarious or sag. I am gonna make sure it's at least a water or earth sign. I am going to be a quite a possesive mother due to my cancerian qualities I have. But we;ll see, I hell don't want an air sign baby.IP: Logged |
belgz
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posted May 20, 2010 08:27 AM
Ami,Gemini sun never gets bored, your right about that but even when im having fun i can say im bored cause i always want something more exciting. About gemini moon there are not many qualities i like either lol. I am very restless and very impatient. I say things i dont mean and cant keep my mouth shut when my emotions are stirred and being curious always gets me in trouble. The only quality i like is how quick i can think and respond. I am also great to talk to lol. Other than that my gemini moon annoys me too. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
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posted May 20, 2010 09:29 AM
This happened to me.My first child was a darling dreamy Pisces sun whom I adored more than life itself, and she adored me right back. The second time I got pregnant, my due date was Halloween.
Seriously, I cried for days.
After living in a male Scorpio home, and having the majority of my boyfriends born of that sign, I was fairly sick of Scorpios, and sick of trying to figure them out.
So of course that is exactly what I got. Fast forward to the best son EVER, on EARTH!
The way that a sun sign appears in your life as a friend or a lover is NOT the same as they appear as a child.
You tend to see the softer, more wonderful qualities, because THAT IS WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR, it's natural as a parent. When I had my third child, I was over the moon excited that she was going to be a Leo, I thought "hell yeah, whoopeee, give me some fire in this house, I need HELP here, I'm drowning!" lol. Boy oh boy. What was I thinking?
I love my little girl, but she is THE hardest person for me to get along with in the house. She can go from totally sweet to clawing your eyeballs out in, like 4 seconds.
But, I wanted fire, and I GOT IT! But as someone previously stated, I think we draw certain sun energies into our lives because we need to either have more of those qualities ourselves, or we need a mirror to show us that we do actually act like the very thing we dislike. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted May 21, 2010 09:17 PM
That's funny Gypsee my girl's a Gemini with Aquarius rising, my H7 is Aquarius with Mercury conj.IP: Logged |
lionseye***
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posted May 22, 2010 03:06 AM
You know what? I battled all my life against Taurus..my sister & my dad mainly...and then I gave birth to one. As I moved forward in life (and in my progressed chart) I had issues with Sagittarius (my mom)..and then I gave birth to one. It's just the Uni-verse saying to you "get over it". You can love anyone. Doesn't matter the sign.IP: Logged |
alma_pisces
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posted May 22, 2010 03:07 AM
I never liked Scorpios very much and now I am expecting a Scorpio!IP: Logged |
evander
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posted May 22, 2010 07:20 AM
My mom hates Capricorns! I was suposed to be one, but I was born prematurely so I am technically a Sag.. with say... Moon, Neptune, Saturn, Uranus in Capricorn It all turned out well though, Because she's a Scorpio stellium, so we sextile each other. We're pretty good friends. In her family, her mom, brother and brother's wife are Capricorns. It's the funny way the nature works. ------------------
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Belage
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posted May 22, 2010 03:25 PM
This happened to one of my friend. She always hated Capricorn and always badmouthed them. Then she gave birth to a capp. I loved it! :lol: IP: Logged |
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posted August 26, 2011 11:20 AM
Heh, my mom doesn't care much for astrology, but I'm the one who isn't thrilled about having a Cancer mom and a Virgo dad (I'm a Gemini Sun). My stepfather is also a Cancer.I stopped caring after a while, but I do wish sometimes I had parents who were more similar to me. Virgos are the worst for me though. I'm hoping when I will want kids I'll manage to get pregnant around early September, so I could have Gemini babies ;D IP: Logged |
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posted August 26, 2011 11:30 AM
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posted August 26, 2011 11:31 AM
i think some signs can actually be good for you as a child and not as a lover, boss, friend, or parent.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 26, 2011 01:05 PM
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Originally posted by belgz:
Myvirgomask,
These are all the qualities I admire and want my child to have.. If i had a wish list they would all be there at the top.. I am probably very gemini myself with my gemini moon but its like they dont have any emotions. They never stop to have a romantic moment. They never stop to daze in your eyes and say I love you.
That is so not true. I know a few geminis both friends and family members and they are actually quite romantic. It's just that they are shy. But they have definitely done things like hug me out of the blue, smile and make eye contact from afar, tell me they love me and that I'm a sweetheart randomly, comfort me when i'm nervous, told me random meaningful things that really impacted me, one also blew me a kiss as she walked by me, she also sat with me on the floor one day to talk about a problem i was having and was very comforting.
I love geminis. They're sweethearts  . You just have to get to know them. They seem emotionless, but they really aren't at all....it's shyness. IP: Logged |
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posted August 26, 2011 01:09 PM
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amelia28
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posted August 26, 2011 01:30 PM
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Originally posted by belgz:
Yeah you might be right.. Funnily when I fell pregnant it was due in June. In the month of gemini. Which is my mums sign and even though I have moon in Gemini I just dont get along with this sign at all.Theyre insensitive most of the time and too fickle. I get along with venus and moon in gemini but when the sun is in gemini its a different story. I wonder if its because i pick up on the same energy as my mum who I believed to have treated me so wrong. When I was younger she was my best friend but I was naive and blind to her faults (Neptune on my IC)
Hi, I do not hate geminis but I have stopped trying to have relationships with them. I have gemini in cusp 7th in my northnode (7th) and chiron (6th) and I attract them but relationship never gets off the ground on a friendship level or love level. I like that they are "light" and "free spirited" but secretly they are bit perfectionist and judgy which doesn't go well with me. I am a virgo but I am not a perfectionist lol. The irony. They are "free spirited" but simultaneously controlling and think they are wise and know more than others, a bit of grandiose thinking. They also have some serious intimacy issues which really get on my nerves. When they get to close then they retract. Gemini are good as acquaintances and to engage in some light interesting conversation every now and then and if you want a good laugh but to get involve on a serious relationship whether friendship or romantic since they have issues with intimacy and getting too close is quite a pain and I am sorry I just do not have time for games. Prefer to do better things with my time. IP: Logged |
bella_taurus
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posted August 26, 2011 02:10 PM
All I have to say is, I will avoid having either a leo, gemini and or scorpio baby.I'm just saying. hahahah IP: Logged |
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