posted May 24, 2010 07:01 PM         

No Venus-Pluto, no Mars-Pluto.

I really wonder where that kind of "pull" I feel comes from.

BTW I am the one in the outer ring.

For those interested the relationship charts

Composite:

Davison:

posted May 24, 2010 07:30 PM         

yours psyche/BML conj his psyche. BML are mystified and go strong in to the soul.

Maybe you se more describe in draconic which explain the deeply side between you...

In Composite
woow there we have it valentine conj lust...

posted May 24, 2010 07:41 PM         

Even though you are basically right, I feel this approach is too generalized.
I know too many Aquarians who are not like this.

Besides even if this is true, there is a reason why people "pick" other people.
Otherwise I would be thinking of every man who is in a relationship or geographically distant from me.
And this is not the case.
So I think something about that particular guy and the particular synastry must "speak to me", and I am trying to figure out what it is.

The Uranian theme may be something we have in common, thanks for pointing that out; him with Venus in 11th house sextile Uranus. Me with Moon in Aquarius.
But the synastry isn`t really that URANIAN either.

posted May 24, 2010 07:55 PM         

you mean the one in the progressions?
But actually I met him 2 years ago before, and there was no Moon-Moon aspect in the progressions; yet I did feel the same I do now, that I have seen him again.

Popcorn,

no, the Lust-Valentine is not repeated in the synastry.
The Draco is pretty "family-oriented".
There is also a Venus-Pluto-conjunction fron tropical to Draco, but it is my Pluto, which I found surprising.

He is inside, I am in the outer ring.

Maybe I am just flattered by the attention he seemed to give me. lol

posted May 25, 2010 02:16 AM         

But the most significant must be eros - Juno DW in both Draconic and N synastry. Eros/IC conj juno in the same sign also in composite. I will believe it is so strong so everyone will se it. The conj for me normal are to wide in orb but because the DW I cant ignore it. It feels strong.

Cupid's darts feels because psyche/eros get into touch with so strong

I feel like you once a time to a man and I could not understand why I felt as I did. The only one I find out there must be the juno-pluto DW. Also my BML conj his N venus. I've no strong connection to my moon in that case.

posted May 25, 2010 06:01 AM         

im with PopCorn in this one....

you have so mucj going on! what caught my eye were these ones right away

your sun/merc with his sun/moon/mc!
your lilith/posyche and his psyche: you get each other really deeply.

your ceres/jup with his eros:this one is really sweet.

your IC cj his Ceres!hmmm he must have very deep nurturing and caring feelings torwards you DD.seems that he cares a lot about you,at your deepest core.

look!your VX/Eros and saturn falls into his 5th...and his juno into your 8th:this tells me that there is here a strong emphasis in romance/love/intimacy.

his stellium falls into your 9th:this one is not that romantic and maybe that is why you dont !"get" him like he gets you ..but he must be very fond of talking to you,sharing ideas,philosophies,religion?

composite

valentine cj Lust!this is really...hot!biut look it sqares psyche/vx/saturn so there might be something to be adjusted and balanced here...is it? but these also trines the ceres,so added to the love/erotic energies,there is again here a strong emphasis on caring/nurturing the other.

NN cj Amor!cj Mars!

moon and venus are in the 12th ...so...these emotional/love feelings are somewhat hidden?

look DD!karma,saturn and vertex are in the house of committment!

eros cj the IC.... and Jup in the 5th!

Kiron is in the 29 degree and in the 3rd:wounds/healing in the house of comunication,siblings...is there any wound reharding 3rdH Issues?

Davidson:

this chart i still dont know how much acan be accurate but...look at that venus/mars cj!

eros in the 12th so again,strong deep energies somehwat hidden .

karma in the asc!fated!

places moon in the 7th this time but sqaures pluto...so...is there manipulation/strong power struggles in the way you approach each other,emotionally?it is in the 8th..so...this house must be faced in a very profound way,in order for the plutonian energy to be released,perhaps?

i would love IQ to take a peek here!

posted May 25, 2010 07:20 AM         

Popcorn,

I didn`t see an Eros-Juno DW, even though I would like to see one.

I do see a Valentine-Juno DW in the tropical synastry though.

Winter,

yes, I noticed the DESC-ruler playing a vital roles here, too. Very interesting. I never met a guy before whose Sun was on my Mercury, and in this case it is Moon and MC, too.
Maybe that is why he felt so familiar and approachable to me?

IQ,

yes that is exactly how I feel around him.
For a change it is nice to not feel that "dark karmic stuff" around someone. Even though with his Saturn squaring my Sun so exactly, oh boy.
But it just proves, that there is always a Saturn square to Sun or Moon in my synastries. I have that even with my best friend (DW of Saturn square and opposite Moon). We have been friends for over 20 years though, and I don`t see that change.

Diandra,

thank you for that analysis. I loved to read that, especially the part where you wrote that he might care for me.

The 9th stellium actually makes sense, as we are both Sagittarians, and even more so as yes we were talking about astrology actually, among other things.

Yes, the feelings are hidden. Interestingly the composite Moon falls onto his natal Venus.
Also the composite Sun conjuncts his Sun-Moon-mp and the composite Moon conjuncts my Sun-Moon-mp.

And yes, I suppose there is a wound regarding communication, at least how I feel it.

The Davison seems to be accurate. I just had a report in which the astrologers used it to describe what brought two people together, so in a way relating it a bit to the past. Their description made complete sense to me.

The Venus-Mars-conjunction in Taurus looks nice, but not so nice, if I see Uranus opposing and Saturn squaring it and Pluto being exactly quinkunx to it.
Also the Davison Venus-Mars-conjunction falls onto his natal Chiron.

Thanks a lot!

posted May 25, 2010 02:34 PM         

Also, Just throwing this out there... the only time I have been completely intrigued with a man/ him always being on my mind was when T Pluto was conj my DSC (venus point) and Mars... once the the aspect separated I became less interested. (I moved across the country to be with him and once the aspect moved out of orb I moved back home. The reason I bought this up is that I see T Pluto crossing over your Venus.

Also, at the same time his natal Saturn was opposite my Prog Sun (maybe giving some temporary glue to work out our karmic issues) This aspect also moved out orb at the same time as the T Pluto conj my DSC)

Another example... My Progressed Sun/Mars in Cappy was squaring his Sun, Mars and Venus in Libra. All these aspects became out of orb the same time as the ones I mentioned above... even though these are "hard aspects" and a lot of what I have heard progressed squares keep people a part but I believe that an aspect is an aspect no matter what form it comes in.

Do you have any progressed planets forming any tight aspects to his outer planets... or anything related to the the examples I posted?

I also had the Neptune conj Mercury aspect with him like you two have... Mercury is heavy in my chart and when someone's planets hit that point... it effects me dramatically. It was very mystical how I saw him... BUT also, I refused to see him in a realistic view.

posted May 25, 2010 02:40 PM         

I appreciate your answers.
And I think you`re right about the Uranian energy, basically. But I wanted to get a bit deeper into that synastry.

MErcury is heavy in my and his charts, too, as Winter noticed.

Also, yes my pr Venus actually just moved into a perfect trine with his natal Pluto, which reiterates the transiting Pluto-natal Venus conjunction I am having currently.
But then again, this wasn`t the case 2 years ago, and I felt the same way about him then.

Now his pr Venus is also squaring my Mars, which isn`t all that great I think.

The Venus-Pluto progression could be important though, as it seems to be a bit of a theme, not only in my transit chart:

Both of us have a Venus-Pluto square natally
(his Pluto is in the 7th, too)
Venus squares Pluto in the composite, too
his Venus conjuncts my Dr Pluto (and my Dr Venus widely opposes his Pluto)
In the Davison Venus exactly quinkunx Pluto

So maybe there is a bit of Venus-Pluto there after all, even though not through direct synastric aspects.

I actually find this synastry to be pretty multilayered, but then probably every synastry is.

posted May 25, 2010 03:07 PM         

I was in complete disillusion... I thought he was my "perfect" mate and in the end he was everything else but that... he wasn't using his Neptune in a positive way. He could of talked me into anything. Also, I had all these unrealistic dreams about him and us too. Plus we would stay up 3-4 days straight just talking until we couldn't keep our eyes open anymore. It was heavily romanticized.

We also had Venus conj Mercury, Venus conj Pluto and Moon conj Uranus.

I know my answers aren't very "deep" but I look at the big picture first before jumping into the details.

posted May 25, 2010 03:14 PM         

I am the Neptune person, and he is the Mercury person, so in our case roles would be reversed then.

My Mercury is on 25 Sagittarius, conjunct his Sun, Moon and MC.

posted May 25, 2010 03:24 PM         

I don't know if this theory is true though. Right now I'm starting to lose my faith in Astrology... there always seems to be an exception to the rule...

posted May 25, 2010 03:26 PM         

don`t lose your faith in astrology.
`Life simply isn`t one dimensional, and things are rarely black or white, not even astrology.

Amowls,