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Topic: Why Does Great Synastry Bomb?
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Lara
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posted May 31, 2010 11:07 AM
 
So true and the more you are just yourself, the more vulnerable and real. I find it a never-ending problem for me. Catch 22 scenario.IP: Logged |
DiandraReborn25
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posted May 31, 2010 12:00 PM
Mermaidi always love the way you put things in perspective. great answers. IQ agreed on that too,only when one has mastered the potencial of its own essence,will know how to handle and appreciate and bless every relationship and people that enters in one´s Life. yeap. IP: Logged |
Belage
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posted May 31, 2010 12:58 PM
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Synastry is great and composite is bad = Difficulties in relationship but amicable friendship.Synastry is bad and composite is great = good chances of a successful relationship but happiness could be a casualty as time progresses. Good Synastry and Good Composite = Maximum Success in a relationship.
Wow. Wonderful insight!! I am so glad I learned something new. . IP: Logged |
mermaid26
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posted May 31, 2010 04:08 PM
Ami, we are both gaining that strong sense of self more and more each day. Diandra - thank you for your kindness. My dream is to travel to Portugal and buy a gorgeous pair of shoes and see all the beautiful artistry ... all very Piscean.
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Ami Ann
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posted May 31, 2010 05:38 PM
Love you (((Mermaid)))
Ami
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Lonake
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posted May 31, 2010 07:51 PM
I think you can have great synastry (as in traditional lovey dovey aspects and placements) with someone and still only be able to move along only so far with it. Primarily because you're not really speaking the same language, because that planet in your chart, or house ruler or whatever, is going through different things than theirs.The better alternative is to look at the natals and see if they have corresponding energies. These would be 2 people dealing with the same issues, maybe not the exact same situations but the way that they're being affected by it is something they can both relate to. For instance 2 people with natal Sun in aspect to Jupiter, this is an energy and when they get together they'll easily manifest it together and it will be something that they recognize of themselves in the other. Or one person having Mars/Mercury and the other with Venus/Mercury, they both resonate to romance/desire with a Mercury component. All these and others, like corresponding house placements, maybe both having the Sun in h4, those sorts of things work better I've seen than traditional 'good synastry across-the board'. Most important is to see how each person is resonating with their chart, what aspects or placements are they focusing on, etc. = the partner will need to resonate on a similar level, otherwise theyd just pass each other by with maybe a hello and a short convo but not much else. IP: Logged |
mermaid26
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posted June 01, 2010 10:30 AM
Ami - Love You Too!I came upon this book in some research and it looks pretty good. So many of us were not modeled healthy relationships and for those of us that experienced abuse or trauma there much is healing work to be done. As you know, it is by healing ourselves that we are also healing others concurrently. Happy healing!
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0960383263/ref=cm_rdp_product_img IP: Logged |
Nephthys
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posted June 01, 2010 12:34 PM
because you have to take into consideration the individuals themself. For example, person A might be ready for a relationship, have no emotional baggage, no major issues in their life at the time. Person B might have emotional baggage which needs to be addressed, problems with family or job, etc. that would interfere with them being able to contribute fairly to a relationship. Great synastry, works when *both* individuals are at a point in their life when they are both *ready* for a relationship together. Of course, Composite and Planets in each other Houses can give furthur info. IP: Logged |
Unmoved
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posted June 01, 2010 12:42 PM
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because you have to take into consideration the individuals themself. For example, person A might be ready for a relationship, have no emotional baggage, no major issues in their life at the time. Person B might have emotional baggage which needs to be addressed, problems with family or job, etc. that would interfere with them being able to contribute fairly to a relationship.Great synastry, works when *both* individuals are at a point in their life when they are both *ready* for a relationship together.
Great response Nephthys.  Lara - Not full steam ahead, but with great faith that I will get there. Thanks hun. ------------------
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Ami Ann
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posted June 01, 2010 01:20 PM
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you have to take into consideration the individuals themself. For example, person A might be ready for a relationship, have no emotional baggage, no major issues in their life at the time. Person B might have emotional baggage which needs to be addressed, problems with family or job, etc. that would interfere with them being able to contribute fairly to a relationship.
Profound point but who thinks about things like that 
x o x Ami
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