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posted June 08, 2010 09:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for meta_4     Edit/Delete Message
Let's talk about cheating. The Sun is transiting my 8th house right now, and this topic is weighing on my brain.

What are your thoughts? Would you ever? Have you ever? Could you forgive your partner for cheating? What constitutes as cheating in your book? Do you believe, "Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater"? What drives someone to do so?

Also, what placements do you think influence this type of behavior?

Share your stories, opinions, and your own placements.

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posted June 08, 2010 10:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini?     Edit/Delete Message
Im trying to hurry up and get my replies in before I get another 500 Error code lol... back in a sec with my reply....

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posted June 08, 2010 10:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for letram     Edit/Delete Message
i think cheating is badddd.

if some one cheats on you, should you forgive them? that depends, you could look at it this way, if you have been together for a long time and have something that feels so worthy to keep together, is forgiving them worth what you can continue to keep together? probably if it can be how it 'should' be.

then the other question is - is it worth continuing with the feelings one naturally has knowing their partner cheated on them? i couldn't feel in love while knowing and thinking about that fact.

there are things to take into consideration in every scenario..

would i ever? no, i dont know if i will feel different if in a different relationship someday though. but as i know now, Never.

could i forgive them? likely not at all. at the best, i can remain on good terms but never could i trust them again, and no relationship works without trust. i wouldn't want one without that.. and as i stated earlier, i won't feel the same, it will just be clouded by hurt and resentment.

have i ever? no.

cheating to me is having desires/feelings for some one else with the intention to act on them outside the relationship. or maintain it without splitting up with me and moving on. without trying to rid those feelings.

if some one is in lvoe with some one else they need to move on from me, or atleast let me know.

and of course, having a physical relationship with some one else.

Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater.

yes, pretty much. that doesnt mean i believe once some one cheats, they will ALWAYS cheat. i believe they will always be willing to cheat given the right relationship and scenario atleast though. in other words, they will always be willing to not consider some one elses feelings when they develop other feelings and desires for some one else and act on them. they are willing to be very selfish. they proved it, so it can't be refuted as far as kyle is concerned. the scenario/case its self kind of defines it though, how 'consented' was it etc. (alcohol) / drugs - and being taken advantage of.. this applies to all else above!)

what drives some one to do so..

depends on the person probably, could be one who simply wants their fingers in more than one pie, could be some one who really found some one else but was afraid to lose what they actually have.. could be many thingssss


neptune and uranus would be a first guess,

different signs for different reasons -

air - freedom
fire - desire?
water - i cant explain it, but defnitely in pisces/neptune/scorp
earth - security, the feeling of 'losing out' on something they can't have maybe..

just some ideas....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qoqsj6WZQv0

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posted June 08, 2010 10:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini?     Edit/Delete Message
Cheating is a VERY subjective area and differs from individual to individual. To me there are a few levels of it. Some people believe in justified cheating (revenge), some people do not. Some people believe that its only cheating if there is actual penetration ONLY. Some people believe any romantic contact of any kind with someone other than your S.O. is cheating. Some people believe even flirting is a mild form of cheating.

Me personally, I don't believe in cheating. It sucks. I have been cheated on so I make sure that I would never do it to anyone else because its a VERY hurtful feeling for the S.O.

I believe once the two people agree to be monogamous together, thats it, all other bets are off, engaged or not. There is no romantic contact of any kind with someone else of the opposite sex. I also believe the two people should sit down and discuss what they both consider to be cheating so that there is a clear understanding of what NOT to do to offend the other.

The realm of emotional cheating is a LOT more difficult to define or put into parameters. Sometimes, when it comes to emotional cheating, you can't help it. ESPECIALLY when things are terrible between the couple. Some wonderful person comes along and really brightens your day and you can't help but take an emotional liking to them sometimes. Its no more right than physical cheating but the emotional cheater usually will not cross that line and physically cheat. Emotional cheating falls under the category of justified cheating (no cheating is justified, its for lack of better terms).

I do believe that once a cheater always a cheater, if the cheating happens when your well into adulthood. If your a teenager and you cheat, you'll probably grow out of that but if you are a cheating adult (physical cheating), I believe you will always cheat or want to cheat.

I can forgive my woman for cheating but I'll NEVER EVER EVER forget, EVER. And that will make me NEVER EVER EVER truly trust her again EVER. So basically, if I don't trust her anymore, there is no relationship.

I think what drives people to cheat is selfishness pure and simple (not so much with emotional cheating resulting from a relationship gone bad, but still wrong). If you are not happy with your situation with your S.O. be it whatever reason, then you should end it before starting ANYTHING with anyone else.

Some people are compulsive cheaters. They are happy with their S.O.'s and yet they still cheat. I have a friend who says he will always keep a few girls on the side because thats how he's always been, no matter how good his woman is. He's an Aqaurius. I also know quite a few women that are happy with their guys but they still go out to the clubs and cheat whenever they feel like it. One I know personally is also an Aqua. Another is a Libra.

I also know several Pisces men and women and I swear, they ALL CHEAT (well, except one of them)!!! One Pisces friend of mine says he just can't help it. He loves his wife but he said he loves the thrill of a new woman more. I could go on and on but I won't.

I believe once a person cheats on you, the relationship is pretty much over. Even if you forgive the person, you won't forget about it. You two could be watching TV and something about cheating will come on the screen and you WILL feel uncomfortable as the elephant stays in the room quietly until you change the channel or the scene or dialogue switches to something else. You will always be a little suspicious and let me tell you, that is UNCOMFORTABLE. Plus, you will always have feelings of resentment and you'd never feel the same. During periods of happiness, you'd always have that thought in the back of your mind saying "this is fake."

I don't know why but for some reason, I think women can handle and deal with a cheating man MUCH better than a man dealing with a cheating woman. We want no parts of them even if we try to convince ourselves that everything is gonna be okay.

I myself have NEVER physically cheated but I am guilty of emotional cheating 3 times. My marriage went down the tubes years ago and as a result, I found myself drawn to 3 women over the last 3 years. Emotional cheating is wrong and I have detached from those situations and just decided to move on from my marriage. I won't ever again stay if cheating happens with the next woman, I don't care how much of a mistake it was or how apologetic she is.

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Gemini Sun 24˚
Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house)
Gemini Mercury 25˚
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posted June 08, 2010 01:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message
Wow I'm in shock, soo much pisces-cheaters...

Do we all agree about that?

I hope I can trust my pisces!

Well, about me; I've Leo-Sun in 12th and to be honest in my past I cheated whenever I wanted or felt like it. No one kept me from...
And if I take a deep look into myself right now, I think if the circumstances would be there/(un)favourable I could do it again..

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posted June 08, 2010 02:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
People of every sign cheat. I would really hate to see finger-pointing with one sign only.
Granted, from my experiences, the cheaters I've known were cardinal signs, with a lot of cardinal in their chart, esp Cancer and Capricorn male, followed by Libra, and Aries as well tho from what I've seen it's far less likely.
Still, there's no way to say who cheats more or even who is more loyal because that's just impossible to tell. People are not their charts.

I have no tolerance for cheating in general. None. I don't give a damn what your excuse is - you're miserable in your relationship, you work on it, it doesn't work, you leave. Period.
It's when you drag it on that things like emotional affairs or whatever become a possibility because you're always miserable with the person you're with and everyone else is going to look like a freakin' oasis to you. I know from my own experience, and I know I would never want to go through that ever again.

Taurus Mars/Venus Scorpio and 7th house. Neptune in the 7th. Aries moon.
What else do you need?

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posted June 08, 2010 02:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel100     Edit/Delete Message
In my experience you can always count on a scorpio to not cheat...the men I know who have even only their venus in scorpio would never dream of cheating. Come to think of it their opposite taurus also has an excellent record with me for not cheating aswell....hmmmm. Its not really signs we should be looking at but more aspects within charts that cause people to be cheaters/filanderers etc....Im gonna say anyone with strong aspects from neptune to their personal planets, asc and other axis....I have neptune square my venus and I will admit that on occasion while with one guy I have wanted to make something happen with another...Im horrific I know but Im sure a lot of others will agree that its happened them from time to time....another biggie is anyone with sun square neptune.....always being swept away by fantasies........in my experience these one's need to be kept on a leash.

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posted June 08, 2010 02:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
I've known of 3 men with Venus in Scorpio who've cheated.
I have to disagree with you about the aspects, Angel. Aspects will not make a person cheat.
I will agree about Neptune in hard aspects making a person susceptible to idealism, romanticism. But you know what? Maybe in their 20s they have a hard time coming to grips with the reality of relationships, and in their 30s or 40s they adjust. Are they still considered 'cheaters' or whatever because of the Neptunian stamp? Of course not!

A lot of people associate Uranus with cheating as well, esp Uranus/Moon in hard aspects. And I have this as do several others I know, and no, we do not cheat.
This whole subject is like a can of worms for finger-pointing. No one wins.

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posted June 08, 2010 02:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for letram     Edit/Delete Message
i agree with MVM.

i don't think aspects decide it, but i would say they can explain it.

i have uranus square venus, for me this plays out differently in its energy.

my friend to my own surprise has over the years (since he's been with his partner) has stated desire and ideas to cheat (abroad/road trip). he has venus opposition uranus. he's a gemini sun, his venus is in cancer, along with his mars. possibly his moon (critical degree, unsure birth time)

i have saturn square my own venus and i think that really is one part of my chart that backs up my desire for commitment in anything serious.


two other friends of mine have spoken of the same desires in the same way, one is a Libra sun with sag moon and virgo venus, aries mars.

the other is a Taurus sun wiht aqua mars, gemini venus, sag moon.


they surprised me, especially the taurus, he's engaged.


two people who've actually cheated to my knowledge that i know of include a girl, shes a cancer sun with leo mars/venus, cap moon.

the other is actually a fairly famous criminal, he was a womansier, he is a Libra sun with mars in cap, venus in virgo, moon in either cancer or leo.

if i remember his chart, he has uranus square his sun.

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posted June 08, 2010 02:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message
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I have no tolerance for cheating in general. None. I don't give a damn what your excuse is - you're miserable in your relationship, you work on it, it doesn't work, you leave. Period.

Yep... and ditto to the above about hard Uranus aspects.

Moon conjunct Venus in Gemini, square Mars in Pisces, trine Pluto, inconjunct Uranus/ascendant, sextile Jupiter... Aries Sun, Scorpio Rising. *oops. These are my own aspects, not anything I'm suggesting for this thread.

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posted June 08, 2010 03:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Benedict Moon*     Edit/Delete Message
I'm gonna sound really cynical, but there doesn't seem to be alot of people out there with integrity, and personally, I find that unnacceptable.

It happen across the zodiac and like GG said, it just seems to be people who are selfish. And I hate to say it, but it's part of why if I marry...I hope it's to my own sign (Cancer). After Scorpio Moons, they seem to be the only people I have a complete understanding with when there's not the open warfare of the 7th house involved.

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posted June 08, 2010 03:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for letram     Edit/Delete Message
i looked at the charts of the two cheaters i know, i have no birth time for them, but from what i could see, there wasnt actually any aspects taht seemed 'suspicious'.

in the Libras chart, his venus has no aspects to neptune or uranus..

his mars has a square? of 6 to uranus, his moon trines neptune but squares saturn. his sun is conjunct jupiter tightly, which reminds me of the gemini friend i spoke of, he has jupiter conjunct sun.. uranus in the libra's chart is conjunct mercury and a very wide conjunction to sun.

in the cancer's chart, her venus only juncts mars.. the mars squares pluto.

her sun in cancer conjuncts her mercury almost exactly in cancer, and her sun tightly opposes her cap moon.

no uranus/neptune aspects to the venus/moon/mars/sun.

she has jupiter sextile venus.

no aspects back up those charts.

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posted June 08, 2010 03:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
Letram, I don't like Mars/Uranus in hard aspects in a man's chart in general - not because of cheating, but because of wild temper lol. However, this is because my ex husband had it and i am guilty by associating certain aspects with the b@stard.
In all honesty, he was a complete player through and through...cheated on every other woman he was with, except for me (supposedly, tho you never know lol) and the woman he had been engaged to like 6 years earlier (he left her 2 weeks before the wedding).

He's a Cappy Sun,Mercury,Venus,Jupiter, Gemini Moon/Pisces rising, and his Sun conj Jupiter as well.
Sagittarius Mars conj Neptune, sq Uranus (widely). Saturn also opposed his Mars too.
He also had Uranus sq Sun, Mercury, Jupiter, and his 7th house cusp ruler.

He was not a cheater with the women he was necessarily 'committed' 100% to (as in, the women he brought up marriage with), but any woman he was dating even over time he would cheat on (I know, he told me). If he was in a committed (ring on the finger committed) relationship he was supposedly fine but also turned all of that weird stray energy into workaholism and also occasional substance abuse.
I think of him more as a player than a cheater though. Really, is there a difference though?

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posted June 08, 2010 03:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini?     Edit/Delete Message
MVM and others, I didn't mean to make it seem that only Pisces or one sign cheats or is more prone to cheat above others. I just pointed out a few experiences that I know of personally.

And I also agree with MVM on the whole "everyone else is appealing when you're in a miserable relationship" thing. I know from personal experience. It's not fun once you realize having an emotional affair is bad too. You either make your current relationship work or you move on. Don't waste anyone's time by cheating.

As far as one sign or aspect showing a person cheats? Nah, I don't quite buy it yet. Thousands of people are born everyday at the same time, surely they all can't be mirror images of each other.

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posted June 08, 2010 03:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for letram     Edit/Delete Message
really? wild temper? well i can certainly say that is backed up in the Libra's chart.. goodness, he was described as virtually psychotic. he has an extremely short fuse as the media described him. he is currently doing his life sentence for shooting a police officer dead in an instant, after executing another person minutes earlier. his previous sentence before taht one was for shooting at another person in their car during a 'road rage' incident!

he was known for his awful temper and short fuse.

but the orb between his mars and uranus isnt tight.. however, his mars squares his sun by a 5 orb.


i think cheating might just be quite a bit beyond astrology.

those aspects you mentioned sound understandable though, the pisces rising, gemini moon, and if were onto this cardinal energy thing, all taht cap. jupiter on the sun, freedom lover.

haha i thought of two deceased celebrities who were known cheaters, guess who they are? "notorious big" and "tupac" pfft.

heres their charts..

'biggie' cheated on faith evans -

cancer mars/venus oppose jupiter in cap!
http://www.astrotheme.com/portraits/S6P5gT6m57YY.htm
http://www.astrotheme.com/portraits/RU3yv9PK5AD4.htm

2pac.. mars in aquarius trine mercury and sun..

venus in gemini oppose neptune and jupiterr


lol and VENUS IN SCORPIO is definitely not clean, tiger woods anyone? pftt
http://www.astrotheme.fr/portraits/62qpDk56mY8m.htm

http://www.astrotheme.com/portraits/PNUkh4skxyk7.htm

liam gallagher cheated on patsy kensit.

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posted June 08, 2010 03:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
GG, I definitely didn't take it like you were saying Pisces is a cheater or anything! If you have one set of experiences with a certain sign, that's your story!

Letram...oh yeah, Mars/Uranus is notorious for a short fuse. Rather, I think anger flares up out of nowhere in these folks. 6 degrees might be wide, but if the shoes fits...
Also, Mars sq Sun can be hostile I suppose but I feel it just lends Aries flavor maybe to the native. For instance, boyfriend now has it and is very zen-calm, rarely loses his temper. His Mars-Mercury sq makes him like debate, even argument, but i think it also makes him not know when to shut up (Jupiter conj his Mercury too) and he has a tendency of saying randomly inappropriate things lol.

But I honestly don't know about mars alone to personal planets...it seems to stand out more to me personally with uranus. i also think these people have a very high voltage type of sexuality that's electric, so they can be very magnetic too.

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posted June 08, 2010 04:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ursa     Edit/Delete Message
I have sun pisces and uranus square moon and I have not and will not cheat. I have been cheated on by cancers and gems and I can't say anything about the rest. I've seen it happen to so many people. I doubt astrology has much to do with it.

I don't get it, one should be able to talk about these things, the desires and insecurities that lead to cheating but they don't for whatever reasons of personal evolution. Cheating is so childish in most cases and I think a lot of those that do cheat enjoy the drama and egotism of it.

I am sure there are circumstances that may make cheating necessary and I am open to considering such counter points. In most cases all I can see is selfishness and self-loathing. It hurts like crazy when it happens to you and no, you don't ever forget betrayal like that.

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posted June 08, 2010 05:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diana     Edit/Delete Message
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In my experience you can always count on a scorpio to not cheat...the men I know who have even only their venus in scorpio would never dream of cheating.

bahaha! From personal experience -- and also -- Tiger Woods is a venus scorpio. 'Nuff said!


But anyway, I am not calling out scorps here. ALL signs can cheat. All of them. I don't even think you can tell by signs or even aspects, tbh.


I actually wouldn't consider it cheating if my SO had a purely emotional affair. I seriously don't think ti would phase me. I'm really not the jealous type though. I honestly am getting to the point that i wouldn't care if they cheated, meaning it wouldn't really upset me. I'd leave because I couldn't trust them and for disease reasons, but I wouldn't be that mad. I think people make a bigger deal out of cheating than it actually is. Yes, it's a big deal, but people act like someone just freakin' killed them. They really overreact. They even get violent over it. Don't get that at all.

Basically, the way I see it, chances are someone will end up cheating. It's a typical scenario and the reason for the majority of breakups. It's not a matter of IF, it's a matter of WHEN and WHO will be doing it. Everyone knows this going into a relationship, or they should, but yet people are shocked. I also don't understand why celebrity cheating gets so many shocked responses or why people really care. Over 60% of people cheat.


I'm not saying it's right but it is very prevalent. People cheat for a variety of reasons, but usually it's because the relationship is dead but they are too afraid to leave, so they cheat. This is why a lot of people want to get caught, because they're too chicken s-it to leave the relationship, so if they cheat, they know the other will end it. It's the easy way out.

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posted June 08, 2010 05:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Coffee     Edit/Delete Message
House 6 is cheating as such. 12th (cheat/illicit thing) from the 7th house (relationship)

I guess negative aspects there, and/or 12th house aspects (indicating a natural cheat in most forms) is another one to look at.

I guess it's all down to communication and honesty. You stay monogo-thingy in a relationship, and then cheat, you probably had that in mind from the start. Best to always be honest with each other.

No, as stupid as some Men and lots of women (I kid you not ladies) can be, just because your partner does something bad or not good enough ("he wasn't there") does not give a reason for cheating.

So, maybe house 6 for the actual cheating, along with 3rd house for communication issues, and also house 9 for a very warped sense of judgement ("he wasn't there, so I will cheat on someone instead")

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posted June 08, 2010 06:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls*     Edit/Delete Message
I cheated on my last boyfriend. I had never considered cheating on any boyfriend before him, nor would I ever cheat on my current boyfriend. Why? The last boyfriend was a total a-hole and I was too weak to leave him. Do I feel bad for cheating on him? Only because outside parties now judge me because of it. I don't feel bad about potentially hurting him at all (I never told him about it).

Anyway, I guess this gives people with Mars in Sag a bad name (also Venus square Uranus and Saturn). I've had so many relationships and that was the only time I've ever cheated. I'm normally heartbroken at the thought of hurting someone but I just can't feel bad about this one.

Interestingly enough I had a 12th house stellium in the composite with the guy I cheated with. Sun, mars and Venus.

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posted June 08, 2010 07:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
amowls, you're also young, right?...i'm not saying all cheating is justified or whatever, but i do think when we're in our early 20's for the most part we're more likely to run around. i cheated on my boyfriend when i was 19, a week before i broke up with him, and flirted ruthlessly with another guy when i was 24 and in a relationship with another boyfriend (because he told me wanted to see other people).
like i said the age doesn't justify necessarily but i also feel like we're more prone to act out our (maybe more) erratic astro aspects when we're younger, maybe we're even a little more at their mercy??


PS - when i was leaving ex-hubby (as in the same week i said i wanted a divorce) i started a short but intense relationship with a guy who i almost actually married. it was a complete rebound and i knew it. but he also had his stellium in my 12th.

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posted June 08, 2010 08:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diabla     Edit/Delete Message
I'd never cheat on a partner and also I'd never ever forgive him if he cheated on me!!!
Cancer Sun, Taurus Moon.Venus in Leo. Mars in Scorpio.

Loyalty/fidelity and honesty are absolute high priorities in my life. Any relationship cannot work without them.

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posted June 08, 2010 10:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Benedict Moon*     Edit/Delete Message
For my influences, apparently I have many redflags for cheating...LULZ.


Cancer Sun/7th
Virgo Moon/8th
Gemini Venus/5th
Aries Mars/3rd


Like I said earlier, I find a lack of integrity completely unacceptable and that extends into the area of loyalty/fidelity. Once someone breaches my trust, I completely cut them off and don't look back. The fact that so many people ARE that way makes my faith in humanity die a little more each day.

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My ex husband cheated on me many times, I told him to stop it or I would do the same, he said that it was going to be imposible for me to do that, so I went and did it, but I did tell him about it, what's a revenge if he does not know it, besides I have a Sag Moon I like to tell what I am feeling. My ex is a Cancer with Piscis As, but I don't believe that signs have any thing to do with cheating it is people.

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posted June 09, 2010 01:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
I don't believe it's signs either, ariescancer...at all. I have to admit though that think it's kind of weird that every Cancer male I've known, been with, or is the boyfriend or (ex)husband of a female friend winds up cheating left and right.
I really like Cancer males too, so this is hard for me to even feel comfortable noticing!

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