posted June 16, 2010 12:46 AM            

lmao. My sister would describe herself much as you do! She often calls herself neurotic and, well, she is. She's hilarious and brilliant. I like her personality and find her easy to get along with.

posted June 16, 2010 04:39 PM            

Ah! Very interesting! I wanted to see what could show how easy it is for her to hide her true nature. I suspected it would be something with the Moon, seeing as how my own dad's Moon makes any lasting deception pretty much impossible. And look at that - Moon cnj her IC opp Neptune on her MC!

She can keep her instinctual self hidden (Moon on the IC) and put up an attractive illusion for all to see (Neptune on the MC).

Does her Moon aspect your chart?

BM -

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this is gonna sound freaky, but I'm studying to be a nurse!!

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posted June 16, 2010 04:46 PM            

A good friend of mine has a Cancer Moon (Aries Sun). We laugh so hard together, I think it's only a matter of time before she makes me pee my pants. And it will be soo worth it. I really love Cancer Moon silliness.

I know 2 people who have Cancer Venus & Mars. (Both are Gem Suns.) I find them both really warm and attentive to what I need, in a way that's comforting and not at all invasive/clingy. I also can feel them appreciating what it is that I give to them.

posted June 16, 2010 10:25 PM            

The one Cancer placement I don't seem to have good experiences with is the moon. And this goes all the way back to 2nd grade with my whiny neighbor who was a Libra Sun/Cancer Moon. Wait, I should scratch that: I reconnected with him on facebook last month and he's a sound bloke now.

I was seeing a gemini with a cancer venus 2 years ago and aside from the lies of omission that totally soured everything for me, there was a infectious warmth that radiated from him. That mutual Sun/Venus contact does wonders (I have a gemini venus).

On Diablo's mom's chart: I just noticed she sort of has that bucket pattern concentrated in the first quadrant. Sometimes that causes one to not be able to see past themselves and their own feelings.

posted June 17, 2010 02:21 AM            

She does keep her true self so well hidden, everything thinks she's gorgeous, sweet, nice, accommodating damsel in distress. Not surprised the illusion is on the IC & MC...nobody would ever believe that as a mother and wife she's an absolute tyrant and monster..the illusion on the MC, trust me when i say she ripped my dad's balls off years ago and keeps them in a jar next to her bed lol

BM: like i said, she has never said sorry, she has never admitted to the hurt she has caused and denies it if its ever brought up, blames me for being unable to work with these issues, she honestly believes she has none. I've never been able to go to her and say, "I'm so upset about this" because she would turn it around on me and start tearing me down as to why its my fault and telling me why I deserve it.

Never looked at our synastry but I do have the aspect Moon trine Uranus..I've always interpreted that as rebelling against the feminine role my mother demonstrated me. My moon is in my 7th house so I rebelled against the typical european way.

She got married when she was 17 to get out of the house so she could have independence so by the time she was my age she had a husband, a house and 2 kids to look after. I think that's just too much to ask from a young adult but yeah, to me that was always the most futile life and I rebelled against that by having lots of friends, getting into rock, rap and techno music, started taking drugs, finishing school and going to uni, having boyfriends and not letting them control me, not to mention all the flings and mini relationships in between, basically, doing whatever I want because its MY life.

When I was little, i hated our homelife and hated being the punching bag for my mum's unhappiness. But you mention this to her and she denies denies denies.."Oh i'm happy with the decisions i made in my life, it worked out exactly how i wanted it and i have no regrets". I promised myself that i would NEVER end up like her and that I would always indulge myself first.

I think she resents the fact that I'm so free, independent and hellbent on protecting that so rather than be happy that her daughter is fulfilling the things she wanted for herself, she makes me feel like a failure instead.

Its probably cos I'm the oldest. I'm was one of the first symbols of her self imposed imprisonment cos she's not like this with my brother and sister. They're the kids she wanted. I'm the kid she had to have. In other words, not wanted.

Here's our synastry...never looked at this before either hahaha

Oh, this should be even more interesting lol..last night at dinner she was telling me that I need to be locked up in a psych ward and that i'm doing so bad that I'm losing the people around me(cos I'm getting treatment for depression..nice huh? and this is after yesterday when my dad threatened to bash me cos i told him to leave my room) so when I said,

"really? And you would know because you wen to uni and are an respected expert in the field, right?? If I'm a failure and i was to take the example of anyone else in this house, I'd be a coffee maker, over 50 and unemployed with no income or 15 and dropping out of high school with no future prospects. I'd rather me be than you ANY day. And if I've "lost" people, please explain to me why you do not have one girlfriend or friend even except for your mother and husband and how I went to a festival this weekend that I couldn't afford to go to but had friends who wanted me to be there so they bought my ticket as gift? Yeah, real lonely I am"

...she goes in her hurt little girl voice, "You are so, so cruel..I dont want to be around you"