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posted June 09, 2010 05:32 PM            

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You can only pick one of these !

Which one has made you feel better ?

Which one has been more
loving, forgiving, caring, accepting ? Or all of them ?

Maybe neither ? If so, then don't reply :P

I think Cancer is more accepting and caring, and careful not to hurt your emotions,

but Pisces is more forgiving and loving, and able to create a warmer mood.

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posted June 09, 2010 05:33 PM            

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But they both try quite a lot to make you feel good.

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posted June 09, 2010 05:34 PM            

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CANCER!!! Both my kids are Sun, Merc, and Venus in Caner! My best friend is a Pisces though.

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Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚
Gemini Sun 24˚
Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house)
Gemini Mercury 25˚
Cancer Venus 29˚ (Mutual reception with Moon)
And yes, i'm a guy!

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posted June 09, 2010 05:45 PM            

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Cancers.

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posted June 09, 2010 08:31 PM            

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Female Cancer

Male- Pisces...

LOL... can I do that???

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posted June 09, 2010 08:36 PM            

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Cancers

I have more Cancer friends than Pisces. Guess I get along with Cancers better.

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posted June 09, 2010 09:31 PM            

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I love Cancer. I have Cancer moon and mars. It can be annoying but it has a very wonderful side .

Ami

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posted June 09, 2010 10:37 PM            

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i agree with you swirl kitt on both accounts.

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posted June 09, 2010 10:42 PM            

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I find this thread to be a wee bit odd.

At any rate, I have a cancer stellium, some piscean + cancerian friends.....and I don't know the answer since they're all very different. Though I can say the common denominator amongst all of us is empathy.

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posted June 09, 2010 10:50 PM            

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Have met more Cancers then Pisces. Pisces I've found to be a bit pushy. I am, of course, A Gemini/Sagittarius/Virgo.

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posted June 09, 2010 11:47 PM              

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Being a cancer i prefer cancer any day over pisces even though I have pisces on my DC.

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posted June 10, 2010 02:21 AM            

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I'm Cancerian and the most major annoying thing about any sign in the zodiac is Pisces and their tendency to be so self absorbed and wishy washy, too.."ohhh..whatever" and also their tendency to say one thing, then do the other.

Being a straight out cardinal cancer, I feel like screaming. My mother is a pisces and we have a horrible relationship.

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posted June 10, 2010 02:28 AM            

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Between the two, Cancer.

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posted June 10, 2010 03:14 AM            

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Pisces go into their own head too much and stay there, doing in everyone else's heads at the same time

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posted June 10, 2010 04:15 AM            

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I like both but I LOVE Pisces. My closest friend since school is a Pisces.

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posted June 10, 2010 04:16 AM            

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Pisces!!!!!

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posted June 10, 2010 04:51 AM            

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Cancer all the way.

Pisceans have screwed me up way too many times.

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posted June 10, 2010 05:04 AM            

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Pisces!!

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posted June 10, 2010 05:13 AM            

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Pisces and their tendency to be so self absorbed and wishy washy, too.."ohhh..whatever" and also their tendency to say one thing, then do the other.

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I'm Pisces Sun so I can explain this, it's an automatic reaction like a mirror always reflecting. This is what other signs don't understand sometimes, and it's a difficult point to put across to someone who is not used to feeling 'at the currents of life' so-to-speak. Mutable Water, after all.
To get a handle on any of the Mutables, actually, is quite difficult, since we like being on the move changing course and being just out of your grasp.
It's definitely not Cardinal, with a clear vision and pushing new ventures (controlling), and it's not Fixed with a strong and solid sense of self (stubborn). It's the good with the bad like the rest. It brings levity and movement to something that was once stagnant and gets that energy moving again (reacting to the previous fixed sign) generating ideas by brainstorming, communicating, theorizing, creating and not being bothered by mistakes, and then the energy gets pushed forward into a new mode of expression with the next (cardinal), and so forth.
Maybe you'd be helped by positively re-connecting with the Mutable energy in your chart, since I'm sure to others you are "wishy washy" and changeable in those areas as well.

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posted June 10, 2010 05:38 AM              

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I loved Diablos description of Pisces.. so true lol

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posted June 10, 2010 06:03 AM            

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Lifelong experience.

My mother is the ultimate of head doing Piscean and a pretty sh*tty parent because of it.

You think Pisceans are loving and forgiving and warm? Think again. My mother is cold, calculating, selfish, immature, excluding and has never not once ever said sorry for the devastation she's caused. The only thing i'm guilty of is standing up to her and therefore I'm the most horrible, cruelest, heartless person in the world.

Everyone in the family is too scared to stand up to her, except me so I shoulder the burden.

Not nice when your the only person not being spoken to for months yet you have to listen to her being the perfect, loving mother to your siblings and your father is a cold, emotionless aquarian who won't stand up for you and doesn't care either way.

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posted June 10, 2010 06:44 AM            

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Well, it's another one of those poor arguments re: 1/12th of the population, doesn't really belong here.

But if you're in favor of Cancer on this thread, then by all means, it's all good

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posted June 10, 2010 06:59 AM            

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Nah, i just can't stand my mum.

I got friends and had lovers with Pisces placements, for some reason they're drawn to me. I think it's cos Pisces rules my 12th house so anyone's planet in there already makes me a bit weary but at the same time, anyone with Pisces in their chart will undoubtedly have planets in my 12th, which means I had a past life connection with them and they're in this life to tie up some unfinished business.

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My mother: Pisces sun, mars & chiron (which fall in my 12th) I swear, we have had past lives together because we're more like sisters and I do believe that in one life we were sisters, possibly twins cos we're so alike and not competitive, but I'm always compared to her.

Father: moon in pisces

best friend: taurus sun, pisces moon (in my 12th). We're as different as night and day, but she's the only person I could spend days on end with and feel comfortable in her company. I've always felt she was my companion and I do believe we had a happy marriage together once in a past life cos our friendship is very much based on equal companionship and acceptance.

Soulmate: ASC, venus & mars in my 12th...this one is the ultimate of all my soul connections but he rubs me up the wrong way, which forces me to look at myself and my past behaviour in past relationships and makes me come to much needed realisations, even if it is painful.

See, planets falling in my 12th gives me the eebie jeebies because i know this connection is most likely take over my life.

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posted June 10, 2010 07:09 AM            

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Good to hear~
tho i agree h12 synastry does tend to be a bit strange, through the looking glass at each other "who -are- you?"

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posted June 10, 2010 07:27 AM            

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Oh yesss, that connection with someone who has past life connections is just as surreal as you describe it. To me, my 12th house is the rabbit hole lol

Seriously, you know that scene in Alice in Wonderland where she's like, floating down the hole with all the furniture and stuff?? that's what my 12th house is, very much the Neptunian world lol

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