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Topic: Internet Dating... Oh my.......
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DD
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posted June 24, 2010 03:47 PM
 
Geo,thank you.  And yes, I agree with you about what else you have been writing. And will from now on pay more attention to the Saturn-uranus-aspects (and the others). IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted June 24, 2010 03:48 PM
I find people of the opposite sex online very odd! I haven't been on a dating site (except for FB) but i've looked cos i'm curious and they all are either desperate, loopy, have no clue as to how to treat a woman, into casual sex or shrek look-a-likes.Be careful: Be safe: Have Fun  IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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From: Bay Area, CA
Registered: May 2009
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posted June 24, 2010 04:02 PM
I've met my boyfriend online. We've been together for a year now and live together. We are happy together - completely in love, and totally nuts about each other. It's not perfect, but it's the best relationship I have ever had, and I have had a lot of relationships.
We talked for a month before meeting (in public...). We clicked so quickly, so suddenly, it was ridiculous. And the comfort level was so easy, it feels as though we've known each other forever. I would say if there is such a thing as past lives, we've definitely been together before, maybe many times, because everything between us has been so easy since day 1. I never would've given online dating the time of day had my intuition not nagged me to death to do it for at least a couple of months, which I did, and I am glad I did.
Lots of desperate people online...people are often good at having 'online personas' and then you meet them and a lot of the time they are just losers. That's why it's important to talk for awhile and meet (publicly) to see how you get along. A chart reading alone is not going to tell you if you will get along...! If it feels right, and you feel comfortable, then go with your intuition and stay safe! IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted June 24, 2010 06:14 PM
Wow DD I really luv your in depth posts... Your really great!! Thanks so much for your input.... Much appreciated!
FINALLY! A guy that I effect more than he effects me... hahahahhahahahhaha
As for my Pluto (Geo, I think asked)
Yes I am aware of the Pluto energy/ and cautious of it also...
Since Pluto is conjunct my DC the way that it usually plays out for me....
Well Uranus (in my 7th) I meet people in strange and unusual ways, there's always so crazy story behind it.. I do in a sense always/ and always will have power struggles with me.. Its just apart of it.. Im use to it already.. BUT as I've gotten older, I can better handle these..
I have alot of fire, so some one trying to control or dominate me, goes literal no where... I wont allow it to happen... To be honest, if there wasnt some sort of power struggle, or if the guy didnt some how challenge me, I would walk all over him, and perceive him as weak... Ohh and I secretly love it... LOL I think I draw deep emotions out of alot of people, only for the most part men fear it, and run like the wind... So finding someone that accepts the deep emotions is rare.. After each and every relationship I have, I learn and change from it. No matter what I come out of it, a completely different person. This is even true, with short term relationships.... It has seemed these are the ones that have changed me the most... The obsessiveness, I dont really see, maybe it does effect the men more, only I am unaware of it..
I just recently had my first oppressive feelings towards a guy.. Wow was that intense or what... LOL..... So maybe now I can understand why some of these other guys run like the wind... hahahhaha...
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Dy-na-mi-tee
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From: Cloud 22, Jupiter Ave, Lalaland
Registered: Jun 2010
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posted June 24, 2010 06:14 PM
Lioness - what if you walked down the street and someone mugged you?I mean it's just silly to think this guy has the potential to be a criminal - simply because you met him online.
It's completely insane. If you don't want to meet him - cool.
But don't make a decision for such a silly reason. (sorry to sound patronizing! I just can't believe you're so scared.. The media craps on a lot - you know? bla bla bla... That's what it's there for. They won't tell you happy stories because it's *boring*. Please don't get freaked out - you have no reason to.) At worst - you might not like him.. But at least you *know* one way or the other.. and then you can DO what you would do in any other situation, when you're on a date and figure "you're not that into him" - you bolt! There are always ways to bolt. Don't worry about that now. Trust me. If you need to bolt - you'll bolt! You're a lioness for cryin' out loud. lol Ami - I don't feel that way about friends. My close RL friends are very close to me, but I've known them for years. I love online friends as well. I don't feel a huge difference. Although online I hold back more.. I'm not as open. MVM - My best friend met her bf online! It's strange how good their synastry is. His Moon in Pisces is exactly conjunct her Sun, amongst many other things. It works great for them! quote:
That's why it's important to talk for awhile and meet (publicly) to see how you get along
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Lioness
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posted June 24, 2010 06:22 PM
No no no.... Im not assuming he's a criminal.... Its just new to me and I'm nervous its all just so new to me... Then I saw the synastry, alot of strong connections, especially to my points.... So then I got more paranoid.... and I let my imagination go into overdrive... LOL I like talking to him, but I'm extremely nervous.... Im a cyber dating virgin... LOL IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
Knowflake Posts: 2815
From: Bay Area, CA
Registered: May 2009
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posted June 24, 2010 07:01 PM
Lioness, I am a cyber dating virgin too! But I was not nervous at all when I met my boyfriend, and wasn't beforehand either despite my 'cyber virginity'...it was just like two people who hadn't seen each other forever finally meeting again, and I really feel this is telling. If you're nervous, is it because he's just a stranger or because you are not sure about him? If you want to meet him enough, that desire will override everything anyway, so just listen to your (real) inner voice because it will not steer you wrong. I'm a strong advocate of listening to nagging hunches, because those tend to clue us in to what we really want or don't want!
Incidentally, my little sister met her husband online and he's one of the nicest people I've ever met.Like Dy says, the media likes to scares us ... if you get people terrified by statistics and the like, after a while they start ignoring their intuition...which is sad! IP: Logged |
Geocosmic* Valentine
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From: New York, NY
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 24, 2010 07:47 PM
I love that term - Cyber-virgin. I'm definitely a cybervirgin.And DD, you actually said what I was thinking, that Lioness is the one who affects him the most and I had the funniest thought. What if SHE'S the one who mugs him in a dark alley...LOOOOOOOOOL!!!! Listen here, Lioness!! Don't you go attacking this guy, we know who you are and we'll tell on you.  IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 261
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted June 24, 2010 08:03 PM
hahahha... Hilarious!!!Damn it, U figured me out!!
========================================= I checked out our midpoints...
My sun/moon is alrdy conjucnt
my sun is at 16Leo my moon is at 15 Leo so not much of a difference there... My Venus/Mars midpoint is at 29 Can... Conjunct his IC.... hahahha... His Sun/Moon midpoint is at 6Leo.. Doesnt really hit me.. but its in the same sign as my stellium.. but not conjunct. His Venus Mars midpoint is at 1 can, conjunct my venus :0 I love that I hit him more than he hits me... Its about damn time.....
(hopefully I wont regret saying that..lol) IP: Logged |
Lioness
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted June 25, 2010 11:57 AM
@ DD and Geo....I was talking to this guy last night until 2am..
I was getting the impression, that he just wants to seduce me.. LOL Not in an offensive or negative way, it was in a nice sweet way, which well my Leo ate it all up..... LOL... Then I started thinking, is he being a typical guy wanting -----.. Or is actually feeling the synastry aspects..
Can someone feel the synastry aspects before even really meeting someone? Just by seeing a pic, and some words on the computer.. I was also thinking... damn if its like that over the pc, how will it be if we ever do meet.... I wonder if the sexual attraction would hit him like a ton of bricks in person or what??? LOL
Ohhh I so luv having the guy feel it more than me.... ==================================================================
Also I was thinking about the Saturn Conjunct Uranus... Then opps Chiron...
(not necessary for me and this guy, but the aspect in general) Tell me what u think about this.... First we have Saturn Trine Saturn (karmic king, flow with karmic king) In general, this is an easy flow, saying we are both set in our own ways,which flow together in a natural way...
Then Uranus steps in and says hey that old way doesnt work anymore, both people have to learn to adjust to something new for each. Go out side the norm.. (we both have Uranus in the 7th, so both need "something unusual" to be happy.....) yeah easier said then done.... not just for one person, but for both.. If you dont or wont go beyond the status quo, then feel the wounds of Chiron... (more or likely since both people wont change at the same time) If you BOTH do then feel the healing from Chiron. Which is prob not likely... What do u think?? Just a theory from a novice..... If both change IP: Logged |
DD
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posted June 25, 2010 12:03 PM
Lioness,"Then I started thinking, is he being a typical guy wanting -----.. Or is actually feeling the synastry aspects..
Can someone feel the synastry aspects before even really meeting someone? Just by seeing a pic, and some words on the computer.." Yes, I definitely believe that you can feel synastry aspects before meeting someone in the physical. Well, you already met, jsut without the presence of two "bodies", but your minds and maybe souls met.
I think that is the reason that we feel the synastry we might have with celebrities, even though this is of course onesided synastry.
AS for your theory, it seems sound to me, but I can`t tell for sure.
With Chiron I always feel like first we have to acknowledge the wounding, before we can accept the healing. Like there are two or possibly three phases to Chiron aspects.
But I will keep your theory in mind.
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Lioness
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posted June 25, 2010 12:17 PM
I wonder another thing... My Chiron is in Rx and his Saturn is in Rx... I wonder how this changes the aspect... Yeah its just a theory Thanks for reading it.. so nice of u..... My Saturn is in Gem, and what I am really seeking right now is strong communication, w/o this a relationship wont develop for me... I long for real communication of a level that I have never experienced. This has just been recently (prob transits)
He's near his Saturn Return....
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