posted June 28, 2010 11:41 PM            

My design flaw is all my fire.. I don't have enough balance... All my personal planets are in fire expect 1. My Venus which is in water. It's a singleton..

Ideally fire people is what I should be attracted to, with all the trines...
BUT I have the hardest time connecting with people that have alot of fire.

We compete, fight for the mike, and I basically feel threatened. (men, only) as if they are trying to over power me. I fight it all the way..

My Venus is in Cancer.. and Im soooo attracted to the watery men, only it squares all my fire, so it just never works out. Also My Eros is in Pisces, so oo boy I totally fall for guys with Pisces placements. the more Pisces he has, the harder I fall......

As for air/earth.. Even though it may sextile deep down we dont understand each other, which makes it even harder to communicate with...

So no matter which direction I go... Its a loose loose situation.

posted June 29, 2010 12:18 AM            

Let's see, even though I have Mars and Moon in Libra, I'de say I am least attracted to air men.
I like to connect to people, even friends, on a very intimate, emotional level.
I just can't seem to penetrate the surface of an Air person.

I have the least amount of Earth in my chart, but, I have four planets in the 6th house, and I've always been a sucker for a Virgo, either sex.
Although I've tried with them in the romance department, many times, we always end up making better friends, and I love my virgo ex's to this day.
I fall pretty hard for cappies, but NEVER Taurus men.
Maybe because my Moon is in a cardinal sign?
IDK, but Taurus men come on WAAAAAY too strong and it is a huge turn off for me.

I have to be the pursuer.
Seems like the more complicated, quiet, deep, introspective and difficult the man is, the more I like them.
Hence all the Scorpio's and Pisces in my life.

My Venus is in Sag, and I love people with either a sag asc or moon.
I fall for them hard, but for some reason, I can only like other Sag suns as friends.
Same thing with Leo's and Aries.

So, even though it's probably not good for me, as in, easy and uncomplicated, I tend to like water and earth people the best.
Well, let's say for romance...

posted June 29, 2010 01:53 AM            

I love these placements for the values and strength they lend, but they clash with the rest of my Water or Earth. The Mars in Aries adds a very sharp edge to the Cancerian moodiness, which isn't too bad...except for when people are trying to help you and you push them away. Its just that when I blow up, I tend to say things I regret and then the guilt sets in. *__* I remember quite a few water sun women on here who had Mars in Aries with the same problem.

The Air Singleton Gemini Venus is the worst in romance with my water and 8th house virgo moon. I desire stability and emotional security in relationships, but I also want my freedom/seperate identity to remain intact. I've only ever attracted people who will give me one or the other though. :\

posted June 29, 2010 04:27 AM            

I'm kind of happy with my design, in the sense that I wouldn't really change much hmmm

posted June 29, 2010 05:20 AM            

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Where do I start?

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I’ll start with my Neptune in 7th house.

Me: “Oh, you blew all your money on useless crap again. Sure honey, how much do you need to borrow?”

Send me into a room of 100 men, one of which is a jobless, drug addicted alcoholic. No points for guessing which one I’ll be attracted to. Even if he has a flashing neon sign above his head that says ‘LOSER’ it just makes it easier for me to find him.

posted June 29, 2010 05:43 AM            

D E S I S T.

posted June 29, 2010 05:54 AM            

IQ - About caring for "victims" - I DO genuinely care for people with problems. But I do not fall in love with them. I try to help though. I'm happy with this trait in my personality lol

I was saying on another Neptune thread (I think it was Mars-Neptune, I have the conjunction) - that some astrologers paint this as being easily "taken advantage of" - but for Neptune the notion of "taking advantage" does not exist.
I don't really see people in those terms. I don't ever use that phrase.. because when someones *asks* - I give, as much as I can.. If I was not happy or able to *give* - If I simply couldn't for whatever reason - I would try to get them someone else who can help.

But, really I'm not bothered LOL

I mean - if you told me two weeks later: "Well actually this person didn't *need* the help.. BUT they were lazy... and they just wanted you to make their life easier."
I'd say - great!
lol
"I'm glad I made their life easier."

posted June 29, 2010 06:41 AM            

My Venus in Libra appreciates aesthetically pleasing things, including nice lean bodies, but my Venus conjunct Jupiter trumps it... so that a visit to the gym is just about the last thing I can think to do. Especially when there's mashed potatoes to be licked out of the pot.

It's frustrating!

posted June 29, 2010 12:49 PM            

I only have Virgo Ascendant.
My fire planets are Jupiter and Neptune in Sagittarius

I am not really good with day to day,practical,routine type stuff.

I am also not the very vibrant,outgoing type

but

it's different in my heliocentric chart
which is said to be the higher self chart

My Earth is in Taurus which would be strong placement for Earth. Some say Earth rules Taurus.

My Mercury,Venus,Jupiter,and Neptune are in Sagittarius. My Mars is in Aries.
Therefore, I have 5 planets in fire.

I am wondering if realizing,accessing my heliocentric chart might help.

Yeah...I know. I have developed a strong interest in Heliocentric Astrology.

I want to get a Heliocentric Astrology reading from Philip Sedgwick himself. I especially wanted to know his take on my nodal contacts to my Earth (North Eris), Mercury (South Venus), Venus-Jupiter (South Uranus), and Mars (South Quaoar). I will get one for my birthday.

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Raymond Andrews,
President,Executive Director of Developmental Neurodiversity Association
Supporting the Neurodiversity Movement

posted June 29, 2010 12:56 PM            

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My Venus conjunct Jupiter makes me love food and too much of it. I don't really have the same "off button" that other people have. The springs on my button are rusty.

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posted June 29, 2010 01:07 PM            

I can relate to stuff written about Venus-Jupiter aspects including stuff about food.

I have Venus conjunct Jupiter in my heliocentric chart. They conjunct the South Uranus Node and sextile Uranus.

So my higher self love nature,value,relationship would involve independence,freedom, expansion, unconventionality,change
that would involve past collective association,connection with independence,unconventionality,change

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Raymond Andrews,
President,Executive Director of Developmental Neurodiversity Association
Supporting the Neurodiversity Movement

posted June 29, 2010 01:54 PM            

I also have a thing for the Sag Asc. These are always the guy's I spot from across the room.. Especially if they have Pisces placements...

Ohhh how I love those water boys...
Water hits all my best house's

H4 Cancer
H8 Scorpio (woot woot, sexy men..LOL)
H12 Pisces

Now what Im discovering is the younger generation with Uranus in Scorpio... OMG! how sexy are they.. (H8) Especially if they have moon is Scorpio.. YIKES!!

posted June 29, 2010 03:52 PM            

Yep, IQ is right, I have nept in 7th AND moon in 6th, and I've spent my LIFE with losers.

You'd think you would learn by my age, but, it's really harrrrrrddddd.

I feel sorry for EVERYbody.
At my last job, a huge portion of my tip money I spent on making sure the really old alcholic guys, the ones who shake and get sick, had money for beer. That's nuts!
I just can't stand to watch anyone suffer, no matter if they are doing it to themselves or not.

posted June 29, 2010 04:02 PM            

x o x Ami

posted June 29, 2010 07:11 PM            

xoxo

posted June 29, 2010 07:33 PM            

Just thinking about that- Saturn and Uranus aspecting both my Moon and Venus... Just reminds me I'm still screwed. LOL

posted June 29, 2010 07:46 PM            

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Ami I have Capricorn Moon/Venus and am getting to know someone special with Cancer Sun/Moon, we do balance each other well thus far.

But don't you have h10 prominence? That's akin to Saturn, I think you can call on it whenever you like It's already there. Or maybe your own personal Saturn could be nurtured a bit to more strength (I don't know how you use it know just, pondering..)?

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Thank you Lonake and Lala for asking and caring!

For me--I could only have one station--Cancer.I was allowed to have the Cancer traits as *I* see them--sweetness, gentleness,kindness--but had to suppress the strong parts of myself--Scorpio/Pluto and even the Gemini strength.
I shut down everything inside myself except "nice"
I, also, thought *I* was bad if I saw anything other than "nice" in other people.
You can imagine what kind of life I was set up to have.
I love the Cancer moon but I only felt comfortable with this part of myself.

I think Gemini has a lot of strength. I read that this sign is pure logic and rationality .
This gives you a strength cuz you can detach . You can see above situations almost like a person in a Near Death Experience.
I used to be afraid of this. I thought my mental health was bad lol.
I think it is just the particular strength of Gemini.
Scorpio/Pluto has a strength that is "Talk softly but carry a big stick" lol
I was afraid of this ,too.
I thought this made me have bad mental health, too lol
This may sound silly but having a therapist mother made me doubt my sanity lol
I had to throw away so many parts of myself that I was left with a shell.
The shell was the Cancer moon. That is why I love the Cappy moon friends .
I think in any planet--the opposite one may balance it.
x o x Ami

PS Thank you Lonake for reminding me of those placements.

posted June 29, 2010 08:04 PM            

On the downside, I place the needs of others before myself, because I feel they 'need me' and my water always wants to be their help. Even if it is to my detriment, I place their needs above my own.

posted June 30, 2010 03:02 AM            

virgo moon (h1) square sag neptune (h5). I think this aspect creates an emotional haze around my relationships, and makes it particularly difficult for me to be realistic and not have clouded perceptions which often lead to an intense disappointment with most relationships. I think it also plays a part in me not being completely comfortable with my emotions and feeling awkaward expressing them. I also tend to come across as quite antisocial at times, perhaps this could have something to do with it.

I'm also not too thrilled about uranus in the fourth conjunct IC. I think this contributes to a constant feeling of instability. My parents divorced when I was about 12 and before that the home was a tension stress filled place where I always felt emotionally repressed and uncomfortable. After the divorce I was constantly between houses for most of my teenage years because I felt like I had to spend time with them equally. Libra sun I guess. This manifested into physical sickness. Anyways even into my twenties I never felt like I had a stable home base. I still don't.

I also think that leo mars (h1) square scorpio venus (h3) is really not helpful in any of my relationships. I think that I find it very difficult to handle some of the very intense feelings that come with these placements, and I think I expect way too much sometimes.

I also think that libra sun (2h) conjunct saturn really doesn't help me express myself in a confident way when I need to. Although I am thinking if I didn't have a leo AC things could be a lot worse.