posted July 25, 2010 05:28 PM         

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This is the type of thing that Benedict Moon was referring to in another thread. I have so many things aspecting my Moon and Venus in Gemini, that it feels weird when I reach a real detachment - good, depending on the situation - but not good if it's a total detachment. I don't know how to explain it to anyone who hasn't experienced it. I love my feelings, as long as they don't get too heavy (they have been, recently).

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I don't have a gemini moon, but I have a Virgo Moon and Gemini Venus and would love to figure out some 'normal emotions' instead of the extremes of severe moods and complete detachment. Meh, I dunno what I'm getting at here...

posted July 25, 2010 11:12 PM         

My ex was Virgo rising and Virgo moon and we did think exactly the same we never had issues with each other .. Ever.

posted July 26, 2010 03:13 PM         

I think the main issue is that each one of us feels the other is selfish because of the traits we don't share in common, and therefore can't empathise with. Por example, my sister thinks I'm being selfish when I become a hermit and hole up in my room, not wanting to talk to anyone. Meanwhile, I think she's being selfish for demanding my talking presence 24-7. I can't be my Gemini Venus ALL the time...LOL.

posted July 27, 2010 07:40 AM         

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have this issue with my mum. She's got Venus in Gemini too as well as sun and mercury. I just don't get why when were trying to make her happy and save her from her misery ( she looks miserable to
Me being antisocial) that she rejects me and tells me to f&$@ off all the time. I want to be involved with her and do things but it turns into this argument and I don't get her either! My mum has mars in Virgo as well but she has an Aries moon. I don't understand how someone doing "nothing" still refuses to have fun and go our. She has a 12th House sun but stil...

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Ouch, things sound really rough with your mom. That kind of rejection is sad.

posted August 10, 2010 02:21 PM         

I also can't deal with writing out long things either. Sometimes I don't even want to write anything even though I have a lot to say.

My p. moon is in gemini!! I wonder if this is the reason, because it has been fairly recent.

PS -- I only read like 3 of the posts on this thread, lol!!

OK, I just went and read past the first 3 posts and two things popped out.

1. GLaucus's gemini degrees are exactly where my p. moon is right now. No idea what that would mean.

2. DD feels the same and she is about to go into gem p. moon.

3. I actually abbreviate everything and anything I can lately and I never did that before. I just can't stand writing stuff out either.

posted August 10, 2010 02:26 PM         

For me, there has been a hesitancy to really let anyone in, though - as an adult. Over the past few years, here and there, I've just admitted to a few people that I know I'm hard to get to know, and apologized for that... the more they stick around (should they want to), the more they get to know me, as trust builds. (Ever since Mars was in Leo for an extended period of time, I've been more open - actually, over the past two years, I've eased into it).

I can be "intense" (that word makes me want to roll my eyes, at times, but it's true). I prefer to keep things light, with most people. I don't know how to explain it right now.. I'll be back.

(By the way, hi Lara. I was thinking about you yesterday.)

posted August 10, 2010 07:15 PM         

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I can't sit the whole two hours in a cinema just watching a movie.

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LOL Belgz

My Mum has a Gemini moon (and Jupiter & NN in Gemini). At the cinema - she won't stop talking. She asks questions and constantly comments throughout the movie. It's too funny.

Like.. 10 minutes into the movie...

"Why did he do THAT?"

"Mum, I don't know. No one knows. Wait for it!" lol

"But it just doesn't make sense. I don't get why he'd do that."

"Mum, we'll find out by the end of the movie!"

posted August 10, 2010 09:03 PM         

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3. I actually abbreviate everything and anything I can lately and I never did that before. I just can't stand writing stuff out either.

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I'm probably the laziest typer here lol I never add apostrophes or commas because I don't like having to give extra time and detail, I just want to type quickly and get to something else. Luckily now my phone corrects everything for me..

I don't usually talk at the cinemas but I play with my phone at the same time or walk to the bathroom and go wash my hands or something. I can't settle down at the click of a finger. I need to ease into it and it can take an hour or so. There are some movies that can get my attention throughout the whole movie.

I think I don't do emotions well either. I don't like kissing and hugging either and I don't like sleeping next to anyone in bed other than my cat. Even if it were Gerard butler and I had one night with him we have to sleep in different beds because I don't like anyone getting too close. Same applies for when I go out to coffee I hate if my partner glues himself to me or wants to sit next to me. Makes me wanna scream and push them away. Sometimes my ex Taurus sun loves to come and hold me down and try and kiss me but I prefer mental stimulation not physical. This means foreplay for me is roleplaying and flirting constantly throughout the day. No touching and kissing unless it's on my own terms. I like to come and hug or kiss if I feel okay to do it and that's just a quick kiss and then I run the other direction

I have Saturn and Pluto trine my moon too and it doesn't have a stabilizing effect on me. :/

My brother who has aqua sun has moon in Gemini too like me but he's more emotional with his girlfriend. He has Venus in Pisces though while mine is in Leo. I think he likes affection more than I do but he's just like me in public or around other people.

I have three planets in cancer and I think my Gemini moon overrides all of my other planets. Oh and one big major thing in my life is I don't go to funerals. You might be right Lara I don't do emotions well at all! I didn't go when my dads mum and aunty passed away. I wont even talk to my friend if she's crying until she stops crying and talks rationally.

I have a friend who has moon in cancer in it's own sign and she's a fruit loop and crazy at times. Where is the moon happy?

posted August 11, 2010 11:27 AM         

I have Moon in Taurus but I behave the same way you described. I just can't force myself to be patient and concentrated on a task-if it's too long or if I find something to be boring. I really do try but my mind won't listen so I have to read articles, replies, chapters of the books over an over again.lol Or I don't listen what people are saying, I just shut myself off. It's kind of frustrating and exhausting having such a short attention span.

posted August 11, 2010 04:39 PM         

I've never tried watching a movie with her.
I don't think I ever will.

posted August 11, 2010 05:13 PM         

BUT.. My Chart ruler is Mercury and he is in Sag, the ruler of my Sun is the 3rd house in Sag, My moon is in the 11th opposite Uranus.

I have been diagnosed with ADHD (which I'm learning to accept without using meds. lol) and I never finish projects- if I do it's a big deal! And right now I have about 10 going on at the same time... LOL. (and I made a commitment to finish them... we'll se how well that goes. LOL

Reading a book? What's reading? lol

I can't sit thru movies... I don't make commitments to stay at parties for long periods of time. When I would drive across the country (United States from Ohio to Colorado... I would stop from 10-15 times.

BUT I guess this is were my Taurus moon kicks in... I never forget what people say...