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posted July 25, 2010 11:01 PM         

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Libra likes to do things with a partner. Like, if they have to go do errands, they prefer to do it with someone else. If their lover isn't around, they'll call up a friend. They prefer to share their life with someone, not CLING and be totally DEPENDENT on another human being. Like, lead a separate but together life with another human. It's different than being controlling and manipulative, which is what jealousy and clinginess requires. Libras IN GENERAL (we're speaking in generalities) don't get intense.

This seems like you know a Libra who is jealous and clingy, but that could be because of a number of factors that don't have anything to do with their Suns. Sun sign generality is garbage.

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posted July 25, 2010 11:21 PM         

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[CrazyAqua: Libra like to be with their partner all the time, that doesn't sound clingy to any of you? And loves to be in relationships, that doesn't sound emotional dependent either?]

Yes I find they are very emotionally dependent...but that doesnt necessarily translate to committing/clinging onto 1 person. It's like trying to categorize introverted people as being shy. It's not even the same.

They are Air/Intellectually driven people with the ability to detach when need be. They will also think outside of the box. They love to be in relationships (plural). Their emotional needs could be met by several at one time rather than just one. My cousin for example, she's already engaged to her bf of 3yrs. You would think she has her heart set on that guy, but she's still keeping her options open incase better comes along.
Like Geocosmic pointed out, those who have scorpionic qualities would be the lovey-clingy types.

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posted July 25, 2010 11:24 PM         

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Libra sun with libra and 7th house stellium here! I'm jealous and possesive, and was clingy in younger years. Now I have basically decided I am better than that when it comes to some man and I try to not be that way anymore, though at times it is trying, because it's my basic nature. I do have sun conj pluto 0 deg with mercury and uranus on the desc in scorpio, so there is a plutonian theme there also. I have often wondered, do I want to mark my territory so badly that I would urinate on a man's pant leg, because of the libra influence or the scorpio influence?? It's probably a combo between the both if you ask me. I am even jealous and possesive over my friends! My moon is in cappy and asc in taurus, but venus and pluto are my two strongest planets. So in a nutshell, Yes we are possesive and clingy. I've also been guilty of being in love with love and doing a now and again duck and cover and running in nastry situations, but like the more honest books will tell you, libra is The most prominent sign in generals and high military officials. I can fight very nasty and brutally. I had a double aries boyfriend before and he said I scared him.

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posted July 25, 2010 11:38 PM         

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"Sun sign generality is garbage." Good point amowls! Yes I'm thinking a lot of this has to do with scorp traits in them.
Starkiss, what are your mothers other placements?? I have read that powerful libra in a chart can cause scizophrenic and bi polar traits in people.
Diablo, whats the name of the book??

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posted July 26, 2010 01:02 AM         

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"Sun sign generality is garbage." Good point amowls! Yes I'm thinking a lot of this has to do with scorp traits in them.

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In case I didn't make myself clear in the first post. I was talking about Libra in general the sign and not in any specific planet or any other influences because this is a general question, not based on anyone.

Some people think so but they're could be the Scorpio influence to that. But was still wondering if you'd considered Libra to have those traits. Or maybe it could seem like they have them because of another trait they possess they is being interpreted that way. Like I said before, how they like to be with their partner alot and how that could be looked at as clingy.

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posted July 26, 2010 01:27 AM         

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I'm going to go against the main concensus here and say Yes, I think Libra in the sign alone and in itself is prone to being dependant and clingly.

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posted July 26, 2010 01:31 AM         

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Hmmm, well, I have a Libra Moon/Mars and Libra desc.

I don't even like going to the store by myself, and it's across the street.
I have never seen a movie alone in my life.

I wouldn't describe it as clingy, because people who are close to me say that I am not emotional ENOUGH, but, it's more like that life is just more fun with someone to share its experiences with.
And I get bored of my own company.

Also, I always have had to have a person 'in mind'.
Ever since as far back as I can remember, like to my very first crush.
After him, there was another right behind him, and so on....
I don't know any other way to be..

I've never really been single.
From age 17 to age 43, I've only been unmarried for 4 and a half years.
And during those four and a half years I was terribly miserable, and had a different boyfriend every month. I hated it.

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posted July 26, 2010 01:36 AM         

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Another thing, when I am in love, I want to be with the partner at all times possible. I am addicted to the feeling they give me. Most do not resist me, but the ones that did saw me as Smothering more than anything from what I have been told directly. Librans love close, clingy togetherness, so yes there is definately a tendency toward possessive, holding on, "smotherization." Funny thing is, I usaually attract types so intense in this that I am the one to leave them first, WHEN I GET BORED. I see Libra simular to gemini and sag in this way, they like the new and shiny, they can be intense until they spot greener pastures. So never be too sure of yourself with your libran no matter how commited they seem. They will keep you all the while they keep their eye open for something new and more exciting.

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posted July 26, 2010 01:50 AM         

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Gypsee wind, I am the same, I don't like to do anything alone, my sister who is strong virgo and leo sees this as weak and pathetic and tells me so. Often. Yet I have lots of love and friends in my life while she has few. I love "to be" with others while she is alone. My mother says simply that she is jealous and always has been. I don't know for sure, all I really know is that I am good at attracting others and that I love people for who they are and accept them, there are so many who can't do that and I think it's sad. SO to answer the Original question, Others around me Do see me as clingy, jealous and very needy. Even I can admit I am needy with no denial. I want to be an adventuress, yet I can't seem to do anything without my second, or even third person. And that's not very strong or independent in my book. Sorry, but I will always feel alone inside myself without that "other." We absolutely have to share everything with another to feel worthwhile and that is what makes others see us in such terms.

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