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Alvarella777
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posted July 26, 2010 10:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alvarella777     Edit/Delete Message
Hello folks,

okay, looks like - for the first time in my life - a GEMINI guy is ... in my head - and maybe about to sneak into my heart. But ... I'm a bit wary - and I know about all they say about GEMINIs.. ;-) (fickle, easily bored, not reliable etc.)

YOU GEMINIS OUT THERE (especially the gentlemen): What are your basic turn-ons in love? And what would be a sure way to drive you away in the early stages of flirting?

Actually, I'm the "mercurial" type myself in love (Virgo-Venus in intellectual 9th house). But more than that I am aware that I have an "intense" note in my personality (chart ruler Pluto, ASC Scorpio, 8th-house-personality with a Stellium of Sun, Mercury, Mars and Vertex in the 8th). I tend to "dig deep" ... and I'm pretty aware that a Gemini doesn't play that way...

That Gemini-guy does have some "luscious/passionate" aspects as well - his Moon, Venus and Mars in Leo..

HOW TO APPROACH HIM FURTHER? Or maybe better: NOT approach him further, but wait until he decides.....?

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Lara
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posted July 26, 2010 10:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
Simple: switch on and then switch off like an electrical appliance

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Ami Ann
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posted July 26, 2010 10:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Ann     Edit/Delete Message
I am a Gemini/Scorpio like you are.
The mind is the place that the love connection starts ,for me.
I want to think on it and will be back.

Ami

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Hermes made me do it.

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Alvarella777
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posted July 26, 2010 11:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alvarella777     Edit/Delete Message
Well, I've got quite a lively, playful, adventurous, humourous and easy going Sagittarius-Moon, located prominently in my 1st house. That's definitely one feature where we seem to "click". Also, my "intellectual" Venus is fascinated by that brillantly intelligent and versatile guy. I'm pretty sure that he feels somewhat attracted to me too - and I guess this is mainly due to that Sag-Moon-feature - and furthermore my Leo-Mercury sextiling my Libra-Uranus ... I CAN be quite a witty and entertaining speaker/writer.

I am just not sure: How much (silly?) GAME PLAYING is necessary? I mean ... are Geminis really into that CATCH ME IF YOU CAN-idea? All books say: Be UNAVAILABLE often to keep that man fascinated - and NEVER LET HIM KNOW that you've fallen for him. Okay - I don't mind a little chase But how will you ever know whether such a thing is going somewhere .......? I feel ... puzzled. (Probably that's a very natural reaction to a Gemini-man, isn't it?) Hm....

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Ami Ann
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posted July 26, 2010 11:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Ann     Edit/Delete Message
Where is your sun, Alv?
Did I miss that lol?


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popcorn
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posted July 26, 2010 12:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for popcorn     Edit/Delete Message
Not play a game. Gemini see it quick. Be your self and talk about your self. Try to be his friend exact as you are to everyone you like without attraction.

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posted July 26, 2010 04:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message
Toughie. Be intelligent, sunny and bright. Easy to be around, go away from, and return to without hurt feelings. Knowing the path to your door is easy to tread will hook him.

With all that Leo he wants a woman who's a cut above.

Turn Offs: Expectations, and feelings of obligation.

Turn On's: Intelligence, with all that leo, someone to show off.

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SpooL
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posted July 26, 2010 09:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SpooL     Edit/Delete Message
Well he has to be aware of your presence. I'd start to get him talking.

Almost accidentaly, example your a stranded motorist and looking for directions.

I'm sure he has an opinon on something, i'd think that whould be the best way to brake the ice.

Then the rest of him well come out. The more you talk to him and lisen and share an opinion the more he'll
come out.

But then again I'm not your average gem guy so I couldn't speak for all of them. But I'd
say that whould be a safe way to play it.

Not all gems are the same so don't worry to much about the fixle part. An Aqua freind of mine has known
so many Gem males and each so diffrent.

The ones she dated are as follows one is an Airforce Captain, a poltician and a molecular scientist.

As well a gem male freind of mine is so needy that he's dating a Cancer.

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Gemini Sun, 5th House
Aries Moon
Mercury in Gemini
Venus In Taurus

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Alvarella777
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posted July 28, 2010 03:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alvarella777     Edit/Delete Message
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As well a gem male freind of mine is so needy that he's dating a Cancer.

Haha, SPOOL, actually I am a Cancer-Sun and -Mars. The "neediness/clingyness" is one of the biggest misunderstandings concerning that sign. In fact, if you watch crabs (in nature), you'll soon get the impression that these are very self-sufficient, not at all "cozy" types of creatures. But that's just an extra-note here, because you mentioned that Cancer-thing.

Thanks for all your advice so far, all of you!

GEMINI MAN: So far, we've "played on" a bit via E-mail (actually: via Facebook). We're sort of collleagues, but live some minor distance apart from each other. In fact, Facebook can be a nice tool to learn more at least about a person's mind ... (I do know that guy in person, of course, but not very well so far - E-mail "does the thing" at this stage. Hm). Anyway, the WAY WE'RE PLAYING ON was interesting: Some friends involved - "gossip"-factor - he likes to chat about people and find links between my friends and his - and we had some seemingly headstrong discussion about a political topic - wow, obviously he loves to "fight for fun", haha, we really had some small debate on that political topic, and we both defended our respective opinions (opposite opinions!). But: I guess both of us liked that a lot. It was some sort of "heated debate", but never harsh or rude. At some stage, one of our common friends joint in - and it all ended in the idea (brought up by the friend, the 3rd party) that we'd soon meet for a drink and further discuss, haha. Gemini guy said "yes!", I agreed too and told him/them: "Okay, guys - you find a date and a place and tell me."

That's about 5 days ago. It will be a difficult to arrange that small-clique-date, because all 3 of us live in different cities currently. But ... I'm looking forwward to that.

In fact, I didn't dare to ring up our common male friend afterwards and ask more details about Gemini ... I am not sure how close they are and whether he'd tell Gemini guy about my obvious curiousity. So I just keep silent and patient and see...

After these intense and funny conversations last Thursday/Friday, Gemini and I haven't "talked" to another, neither via FB, nor via E-mail. I'm not "online" there each day, but I've posted some video from MAD MEN (Tv-series) there and posted a comment on how much I like that old fashioned-suits style ... and he followed up a few hours later by posting "I like" Brooks Brothers classical men's wear, haha. Don't know whether this was kind of symbolic flirting or just a co-incidence.

Anyway: There's SOMETHING between us ... we'll see, in which direction it goes.


*** edit *** PS: Should there come a professional occasion for me to travel to Gemini's city during the next weeks (which could be possible, I go there for job-related purposes about 5 times a year), I'd dare to ask him, whether we'd meet up as 2 people only. Of course I'd to that. But I wouldn't force that to happen. And ... who knows, he's also over at my town several times a year, due to job-reasons - maybe he'd aske me the same then? In any case: I WILL NOT ENFORCE THAT THING, I'll just keep in a charming distance, it feels much better that way, all my instincts tell me: Keep it veeeeeery cool with that one!

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