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Topic: Venus/Uranus synastry
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Alia
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posted July 28, 2010 05:14 PM
  
im noticing often that hard aspects btw venus and uranus in synastry ( especially conj. and opposition ) bring a powerful undying attraction and craving for one another that doesnt fade in time. -on top of the crazy phases of breakup/reconnection btw the two.
probably a high soulmate connection?
because it just stays there for years and even if the two parties are married/committed to others.i d like to hear of more experiences on this aspect 
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Lioness
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posted July 28, 2010 07:01 PM
The Pisces guy I talk about.
his venus squares my Uranus.
His Uranus/Moon in my 8th.
My Uranus conjunt his Pluto
Both way Lilith conjunt moonIn the composite we have.
Moon conjunt Pluto
Pluto opps Venus
Pretty Intense stuff..
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I'm not sure which one or if it is a mixture of everything.. I have never had so much sexual attraction to anyone in my entire life!!! I literally wanted to aggressively throw him up against the wall and ... hummmmmmmmm....
It was uncontrollable, I really had to get a grip on it. (by the way, he is not my type of guy, I would normally be attracted to) The level of lust and passion I felt added fuel to my Aries Asc... He at some point had to hold me off (okkk blushing) BOTH of us were extremely aggressive with each other. Like bruises and all (blushing again) Just being near him was a total turn on. Just him walking by me, made me WANT him.... I really had to LEARN how to control it.. Then one day we said hey we should stop.. Its getting crazy... So we both happily greed... (WTF) shrug... damn Uranus!! 4 hours after we ended it, we were on the phone for 3 hours talking, about everything except for us. Thats when my obsessions set in, and his paranoia. He started accusing me on sleeping with EVERYONE... He thinks Im a sex addict... LMAO!.. now thats funny! He said when ever he see's me leave he knows its bc Im going to go meet some guy... WHAT??? He started saying we cant be together bc he can never "have" me.... We are no longer romantically involved, but the tie is no where near broken.. I've tried at least 3x.. I even deleted his number and hr later he texts me... It's like he knows........ We are "friends" as we call it... The attraction yes is still there.. but I did learn how to control it We still stare at each other... Sometimes we dont talk at all, sometimes he comes to me, sometimes I go to him.. sighhhhhh.... He still thinks I'm going on these "booty calls" (not true by the way) because he see's the twinkle in my eye when I talk to other men.... OOOOOOO kkkkkkkkkkk!!!! As for the craving yes I still crave him, badly!! Only I have put control on it.. I see this person 4x a week... It's Very difficult...
I have been told this is a soul connection by a karmic astrologer. I have been told that we will probably know each other for a long time... We will always some how be in each others live... I have already known him for 6 years, but we have only been like this for the past 8 months. But before that I was attracted, and just kinda watched him... There were times that I wanted to just touch him, but didn't...
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Ami Ann
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posted July 28, 2010 07:07 PM
Dear Lioness,
Can I ask a few questions?
Were there grounding aspects like Saturn aspects ?
Were there friendship/love aspects like Sun/Venus, I think or were there mainly "passion " aspects? Ami
PS What were the orbs on the Pluto aspects?
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Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within.
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Lioness
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posted July 28, 2010 07:30 PM
Its fine not a problem at all. There are no dumb questions My Venus trines his sun In synastry not alot of Saturn Aspects
My Saturn opps his Neptune
My Saturn and venus in his 7th
His Saturn in my 6th
His Venus in my 10th
In synastry I dont touch his Saturn at all. In the Composite
Saturn in the 6th on the 7th cusp
Saturn opps Asc
Saturn sq Uranus
Saturn trine venus
Saturn trine mars
Saturn sextile moon
Saturn sextile mercury
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I think Jupiter help us be friends.. My Jupiter in his 1st his in my 5th.. We play and joke around alot.. We have lots of fun. and play little jokes on each other. We have alot of Neptune aspects.. we do communicate with out words.
We have a really good level of communication, WHEN both of us takes the time to sit and talk.. We do share alot of secrets together..
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Ami Ann
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posted July 28, 2010 07:37 PM
I am more interested in synastry than composite, Lioness. Thanks for saying there are no dumb questions  .
What are the orbs for the aspects you cited-- in synastry--if you feel like giving them? Some people only use up to 4 degrees so I was wondering how close the crucial aspects in Synastry were--like the Pluto ones for example. Thanks much,
Ami ------------------
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Lioness
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posted July 28, 2010 08:06 PM
his venus 15cap my uranus 15lib
my uranus 15lib his pluto 18lib
his lilith 14leo my moon 15leo
my lilith 18sco his uranus 20 sco moon 21 scop
my saturn 18gem his neptune 20sag
my neptune 2 sag his Asc 2Sag
his asc 2 sag my asc 0 ari
my pluto 0lib his asc 2 sag
my pluto olib his sun 0Pis
my venus 2can his sun 0pis
my eros 10pis his merc 8pisDid I miss any?? I did one of those paid composite/synastry reports from Astro Cafe.. The asteroids really explained more of what was going on... It was extremely accurate.. It showed where the deeper connection was.. They used
Chiron
Ceres
Juno
Vesta
Psyche
Sappho
Eros
Amor
Aphrodite
True Lilith (aka BML)
True Nodes Here is the link to the synastry if you want to see it. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/204807.html IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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posted July 28, 2010 08:11 PM
Thanks Lioness.
I did not know you could do a chart with all the asteoids.
The ones I have done have NOT had them.
Ami
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Lioness
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posted July 28, 2010 08:14 PM
You can do them on Astro up to 10 I think.. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted July 28, 2010 09:38 PM
I had venus opp uranus with a guy (his venus was on my IC)
also eros and psyche in oppositionThere WAS attraction, n it was pretty damn strong. BUT i definitely wouldn't say it was anything soulmatey. IP: Logged |
Alia
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posted July 28, 2010 09:48 PM
if his venus was on yr IC was past life and karmic , most likely...but yes i m lookin for validation of the intensity of the attraction almost unbreakable IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon*
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posted July 28, 2010 09:52 PM
There is a powerful attraction in my experience, but I'm not sure I would say that its timeless....LMAO. I still care for this person as a friend, but I don't think I would want to be in the place I was like 2 years ago (wanting to jump him). Though, then again, I don't think I'm *not* attracted to him anymore, I just know better now....he was lovely/loving, but selfish. He had some pretty bad habits.
I was Venus and he was Uranus (we had the opposition).
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mintgirl123
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posted July 28, 2010 10:49 PM
LOL it definitely wasn't anything karmic or past life related.
Just a guy that had his venus on my IC. Not anything major.If you have alot of saturn with the guy, or karma/destinn/juno then it's more likely sth that's karmic. I agree with ^ They say moon conjunct ic tightly is karmic. I kinda agree, the moon moves pretty damn fast so if it conjuncts the IC by like 1 degree or less... then it may mean sth. IP: Logged |
Ursa
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posted July 28, 2010 11:28 PM
The happiest married couple I know, a marriage wherein the two are dear friends (uranus) and still enjoy talking to each other throughout the day after 10 years, have uranus square venus dw in synastry. The orbs are between 5 and 6 degrees.
They only have two important saturn aspects, both over 4 degrees. Lots of pluto though and I have read that pluto can act upon a relationship in a manner similar to saturn. IP: Logged |
belgz
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posted July 29, 2010 01:29 AM
I have this aspect with every guy I date because I have it in my natal chart and since uranus doesn't get around as quickly as I would've liked it to, it means any guy born in my year or 2 years older will sually have a uranus/venus aspect with me.So I don't feel its effects IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian
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posted July 29, 2010 02:19 AM
Wow I wouldn't think so. I've always heard about how Venus/Uranus aspects means they may suddenly be quite attached but its not stable, then suddenly go, but a quick obsession. Flightly love what I would think, but just me.------------------
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Ami Ann
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posted July 29, 2010 08:56 AM
Thanks for the aspects ,Lionness! They are close. Ami ------------------
I do unto others what they do unto me, only worse.
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seeleah
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posted July 29, 2010 09:18 AM
about that couple who has the uranus/venus squared in their synastry..I am starting to wonder something. If some of these more negative aspects are somewhat subdued if these pple have them natally in their charts...not saying it doesn't rear it's ugly head but perhaps since one of the natives have it in their charts, and they are used to that energy...it becomes a bit subdued. thoughts?IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted July 29, 2010 11:54 AM
Ali I dont think it was just that one aspect, that make our attraction so strong. I think it was a mix of everything... Venus/Uranus is an attraction but cause's the relationship to start and end quickly.
His Moon/Uranus in my 8th.. IS also alot of attraction.. WOWOWOW.. My head twirled..
But I have met another person who's Moon/Uranus was in my 8th and I was not attracted at all.. blahhh... LOLIP: Logged |
letram
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posted July 29, 2010 12:14 PM
the person i am currently with, we never suddenly got into a relationship, but it suddenly turned romantic. she is the uranus, i am the venus. we was 'friends' for a month at first, i always was intrigued by her romantically and was attracted that way though, she began to like me but how we came to mutually find out was 'sudden' because a 'middle' man told one of us about the other. i have venus square uranus natally, ithink you are onto something about subdued.. im not sure if thats it exactgly, but i think it atleast mean the natal native can handle the energy to the point where it might not be so prone to causing upset or even break up. her saturn squares my venus but again i have that natally, the interesting thing is, i havent seen these energies play out in the more subjective, personal ways as they have been described, but much more objectively and circumstantially. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted July 29, 2010 12:32 PM
The person I am speaking about, I have also know him for a long time. Over 6 years.. I just kinda watched him, but didnt connect with him.. He told me he always "wondered" about me... We were both married, once both of us separated, then we just all of a sudden got together.. We even had a 3 hour conversation about getting together IP: Logged |
DD
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posted July 29, 2010 01:02 PM
There is one guy, with whom I share URanus (me) opposing Venus (him). NEver been a couple, never will.
*some* attraction is still there, whenever I see him, after 20 years. lol
He`s only been a crush, yet this Uranus-Venus thingy gets me everytime. IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez
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posted December 09, 2012 08:18 PM
YES!! Omg, I finally found the aspect that doesn't allow me to forget about the guy I have/had the biggest crush on. It's been almost 10 years and I still think of him (not as much after we talked)His Venus squares my Uranus by mere seconds and it's applying. I can never forget about him. His Venus activates my Uranus and I don't think the feeling is mutual anymore. We never dated, but we talked about it way back until I did something to him. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
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posted December 09, 2012 10:11 PM
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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
YES!! Omg, I finally found the aspect that doesn't allow me to forget about the guy I have/had the biggest crush on. It's been almost 10 years and I still think of him (not as much after we talked)His Venus squares my Uranus by mere seconds and it's applying. I can never forget about him. His Venus activates my Uranus and I don't think the feeling is mutual anymore. We never dated, but we talked about it way back until I did something to him.
I'm always the Uranus in my synastry 
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KarkaQueen
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posted December 09, 2012 11:11 PM
Uranus wants to make out with the Venus and throw them on the bed in my personal experience
w/ conjunction Venus feels the same way but is more subtleVenus trine Uranus synastry Venus finds the Uranus exciting and unique very appealing sexually too and Uranus will be romantically attached to Venus and very turned on as well IP: Logged |
violet7887
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posted December 10, 2012 12:29 AM
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