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Topic: Tricky Neptune in relationships.
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Ami Ann
Knowflake Posts: 3841
From: Pluto
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted August 21, 2010 09:44 PM
 
Hi Lioness,
I am gonna come back tomorrow and look!
Have a feeling you and your guy are coming together in some more ways.
Are you? x o Ami ------------------
To will to be the self which one truly is,is indeed,the opposite of despair. IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 524
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 21, 2010 10:41 PM
I'm not sure.... He did text me Sat, but IDK he doesnt know what to say.. LOL... He asked me for directions.... Yet he's big on using mapquest..When he came to my house unexpectedly he asked for water. (even though he called from the store on the corner) How adorable is that?? but you know I wonder if he is doing this to see/talk to me.. Or is it just a coincidence and Neptune has me seeing this incorrectly. I will see him tomorrow, so I will see what happens.. Im trying really hard to not be so flaky, bc yes one day Im super nice, the next day Im kinda cold and wont even look or acknowledge him.
This has been going on for 9 months... so maybe I'm past that point with him.. shrug... But when ever I do text/call him he always replies, but it is rare when I do it.. Sometimes I go weeks.. The one thing that is consistence with us is the fact that both of us KNOW that the other would be there for the other, if needed..
We have both said this to each other with no doubts either way.. I in no way doubt this.. He has been clear about it,and so have I.. I made a special effort all last week to connect with him. Once I realized it was me taking off... Oo I feel so bad the things I did... One day we were talking and laughing, then I left and 30 mins later, I texted him that I have no choice but to walk away from him. He said nothing back to me. So I deleted his number, texts,pics.. everything.. I ignored and avoided him for a month. He would try to say hi to me, but I wouldnt allow it, I kept walking and turning away from him. Then a month later I texted him (I had phone numbers backed up on my pc) I did bc some stuff happened that I was really upset about. He replied back HI!!!!!! and then called me before I could even reply back to his text. We talked and he calmed me down and made me feel better.. Could I email you some thing? Something I dont want to say publicly? IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 524
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 22, 2010 10:43 PM
Well Ami I said Hi today, but that was about it... I was feeling the need to be left alone... I didnt take off, but I didnt do anything either... I was really feeling the I need to get away feeling.. So I kept my distance.. But I didnt ignore him... IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
Knowflake Posts: 3841
From: Pluto
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted August 23, 2010 01:17 AM
Dear Lioness,
I think his natal was not put on right. I can't blow it up.
You are wise to pull back when you feel unsure or overwhelmed by strong feelings.
Please keep writing to me . I am thinking of you and will look at natals when my head feels clearer which it has not in the past few days!
x o x Ami
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Ami Ann
Knowflake Posts: 3841
From: Pluto
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted August 23, 2010 07:00 PM
Of course, you could e mail me. I did not see your request,before.This way I can say things that are more personal, too, that I might not want to say on LL.
It is a good idea! Ami ------------------
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racole12
Knowflake Posts: 507
From: the world is my home!
Registered: Feb 2010
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posted August 23, 2010 08:21 PM
Ami- Yep~ we have started communicating again... hopefully this whole situation will be over soon and we get back to being friends again... IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
Knowflake Posts: 3841
From: Pluto
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted August 23, 2010 08:24 PM
That is AWESOME, Racole.
I am sure you can use some good news with all the sadness/back problems/sense of despair(I picked up, anyway) He seems like he is very special to you.
There is nothing like love with someone who gets you and vice--versa. It is about the only thing that matters, really. x o x Ami ------------------
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Ami Ann
Knowflake Posts: 3841
From: Pluto
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted August 27, 2010 08:23 AM
Dear Lioness
I am sorry I did not get back to the synastry. I did not forget.My mind is not in a good space to see details and connections which I want to do with your charts. His chart is too small and won't enlarge.
If you could get his to enlarge, it will be there when I get back. It was SO wonderful to hear from you by email.
You said wonderful, helpful things to me.
Thank you!  Ami ------------------
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