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Topic: Final Unaspected Planet Theory
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Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 3721 From: Pluto Registered: Dec 2009
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posted August 30, 2010 01:04 PM
Dear BM I am gonna tell you how I feel. Then, tell me what you think about unaspected moon. When I was younger and had my best friends, I felt I could bond. That was cuz I had pretty good confidence and was bonded to myself i.e had a good identity. I knew that your bonds with other people had gaps in them cuz you were you and they were they. Then, when I lost that sense of self, I never felt as if I could bond although you would not know that from looking from the outside. I SEEMED bonded but did not feel it. It was that insatiable feeling you describe. It was like I could not get close enough to this elusive ideal called "bonding" I may add some things but wanted to put that out to see your opinion. x o x Ami ------------------ It is either a lesson or a blessing. IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 1134 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 30, 2010 02:53 PM
So what you're saying is you felt disconnected from that ability to emotionally bond? Do you feel that way today? I ask this because that seems like it would be situational (related to traumatic events...which you have mentioned before). I dunno, my impression is that your moon is very prominent. Though they say that in alot of cases, the unaspected planet is very prominent to everyone else but the person who has it. Other questions for this would be....
-Would you say you have strong roots? -Do you ever feel 'at home'? -Are you connected to your feelings, or do you feel disconnected from them? IP: Logged |
Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 3721 From: Pluto Registered: Dec 2009
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posted August 30, 2010 03:20 PM
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Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 3721 From: Pluto Registered: Dec 2009
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posted August 30, 2010 07:44 PM
Dear BM I was thinking about the unaspected moon.I don't think I have it cuz I can bond. Also, I used to be able to feel my feelings and that was a huge strength in life. I think trauma made me feel like I had an unaspected moon. After trauma, I felt I could not bond or feel my feelings. Ami ------------------ Stuff is not as it seems. Pluto IP: Logged |
belgz Knowflake Posts: 2076 From: Planet love :) Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 30, 2010 09:51 PM
What kind of aspect fixes our so called unaspected planets in synastry? my grandmother has her Venus exactly conjunct my inspected mars and she seems to Bethesda only one I lift a finger for otherwise I don't really care much about the rest of my surroundings. Mu grandfather also has his sun conjunct my mars who I love and care about alot too. These two people are the only people I put energy into. IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 1134 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 30, 2010 10:04 PM
This article gives the Sun as an example, but I think any planet or point from another person can 'save' the unaspected planet. I remember feeling totally Venusian in alot of wonderful ways when I met my ex who's North Node conjuncted my Venus. But ultimately in the end, its up to the Unaspected Planet owner to 'save' and intergrate the planet in question. The article I'm linking here is talking about the Unaspected Venus, but you can apply the same logic to any other planet: http://sasstrology.com/2010/06/rogue-venus-unaspected-venus-in-the-natal-chart.html *edit* Oh, you asked about the aspect....my bad. It seems to me the Conjunction is the strongest (in the positive sense), but Im sure others have different experiences.
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Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 3721 From: Pluto Registered: Dec 2009
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posted August 31, 2010 04:55 AM
I wish more people with unaspected planets would reply . It is a unique issue---a different kind of vibe which is hard to get a hold of but very essential. My sense now is that it is crucial to integrate them and the reward will be a gold mine. x o x Ami ------------------ Stuff is not as it seems. Pluto IP: Logged |