posted September 01, 2010 09:11 PM         

Maybe ... someone wants to look at it - what impression do you get? Would it be ... say ... worthwhile to "go after that man" more enthusiastically? I'm afraid I'm at risk to .. hm ... fall for him in a way. But there are several obstacles ... Hmmmm. Should I "invest" more feelings? It wouldn't be an easy/casual thing from all I can tell, rather several potential obstacles (in real life) that make me wary ...

Maybe someone has personal experience to share about one or several of these Synastry-constellations? In any case: Your opinions/impressions would be SO welcome!

orbs: 0 -5 dg.

The PROs in our Synastry

His SUN in my 7th
His SUN sextile my Amor
His SUN trine my own Name-asteroid
His MERCURY in my 8th
His MERCURY sextile my Venus
His MERCURY trine my Aphrodite
His MERCURY trine N. Node
His MERCURY trine my Jupiter
His MERCURY sextile my Ceres
His MERCURY sextile my Juno
His VENUS cj. my Mercury (ex.)
His VENUS sextile my Uranus
His VENUS sextile my Karma
His MARS sextile my Uranus
His MARS trine my Phoinix
His JUPITER trine my Sun
His JUPITER trine my Mars
His JUPITER cj. my ASC
His JUPITER cj. my Neptune
His JUPITER cj. my Moon/Jupiter-Midpoint (ex.)
His JUPITER sextile my MC/IC
His JUPITER sextile my PLUTO
His JUPITER sextile my Venusia (ex.)
His SATURN trine my Venus (ex.)
His SATURN trine my Juno (ex.)
His SATURN trine my Ceres
His SATURN sextile my N. Node (ex.)
His URANUS trine my Circe
His URANUS trine my Amor
His URANUS sextile my Adonis
His URANUS sextile my Lovejoy
His NEPTUNE trine my N. Node (ex.)
His NEPTUNE sextile my Venus (ex.)
His NEPTUNE sextile my Eros
His PLUTO trine my Juno
His PLUTO trine my Ceres (ex.)
His PLUTO trine my Valentine
His PLUTO sextile my Aphrodite
His N. NODE cj. my Sun/Moon-Midpoint (ex.)
His JUNO cj. my Sun/Moon-Midpoint
His KARMA cj. my Venus (ex.)
His KARMA cj. my S.N./opp. N. NODE
His CHIRON trine my Jupiter
His CHIRON trine my own Name-asteroid
His CHIRON sextile my Moon
His CHIRON sextile my Part of Fortune
His VERTEX cj. my DSC/opp. ASC
His VERTEX cj. my Psyche
His APHRODITE cj. my MC (ex.)
His APHRODITE tine my Saturn
His VENUSIA cj. my Uranus
His LOVEJOY cj. my Sun-Moon-Midpoint (ex.)
His AMOR cj. my IC (ex.)
His PSYCHE sextile my Amor
His part of FORTUNE cj. my Moon

It all looks so brilliant up until here!!!! Then come these heavy links - CAN be positive, CAN be stressful ....

strong factors - positive OR negative

His SUN oppose my Moon (!!!)
His PLUTO cj. my Venus (!!!)
His PLUTO cj. my SN/oppose my N. Node
His MERCURY opppose my Valentine
His MARS cj. my Mercury
His JUPITER oppose my Psyche
His URANUS cj. my Isis (ex.)
His URANUS cj. my Sun/Venus-Midpoint (ex.)
His N. NODE oppose my Chiron
His VALENTINE opp. my Juno
His VALENTINE opp. my Ceres
His EROS cj. my BM Lilith
His VENUSIA cj. my Pluto

And finally the aspects that bother me ...

The CONs in our Synastry

His SUN cj. my Nessus
His SUN square my MC/IC (ex.)
His MERCURY square my Uranus
His MERCURY cj. my Lucifer (ex.)
His VENUS square my Juno (ex.)
His VENUS square my Ceres
His MARS square my Juno
His MARS square my Ceres
His JUPITER oppose my Saturn
His JUPITER square my BM Lilith
His SATURN square my Uranus
His SATURN cj. my Eros
His URANUS sextile my Perspehone
His NEPTUNE square my Mercury (ex.)
His NEPTUNE oppose my Juno (ex.)
His NEPTUNE oppose my Ceres
His PLUTO square my Neptune
His N. NODE square my Eros
His N. NODE square my Vertex
His JUNO square my Eeros
His JUNO square my Vertex
His CHIRON square my ASC/DSC (ex.)
His CHIRON square my Neptune
His CHIRON oppose my BM Lilith
His BM Lilith cj. my Saturn
His CHAOS cj. my Chiron
His CHAOS opp. my Sun/Moon-Midpoint (ex.)
His MELANCHOLIA cj. my Sun
His EROS square my ASC/DSC
His EROS square my Neptune
His HELENA oppose my Mars

posted September 02, 2010 02:16 AM         

This person has come into your life for a reason, and if you're drawn to them strongly, it is also for a reason. Whether that reason is love, lust, friendship, balancing karma, to help you, for you to help them... we don't know why.

I would never base my decision on whether I wanted to be with someone on astrology alone.

My Leo and I have a lot for harsh Saturn aspects and I'll be honest, it gave me pause. It has scared me and worried me. But I've decided to see it out, wherever it may go because the attraction and pull is undeniable and outside of astrology, I don't see anything about him that would give me reason to think he's a bad person and if I knew nothing about astrology, I'd have no reason to pause or back off.

posted September 02, 2010 05:17 AM         

VENUS DE MILO: Of course you're right! Basically, I'm even pretty happy that I don't know his birthtime - so that I cannot go any further with my "analysis".

I feel pretty "moved" by him. And it's really a "warm" thing between us - I simply cannot believe that he obviously cares so much - he's always "there", always responding in wonderful ways, he's, furthermore, really a very wise man, really someone extremely intelligent and also an influential/powerful person (he's also 11 years older than me) - and so kind, and obviously interested and never "cheesy" or simply "flirtatious" but behaves "serious" in a way, which is oh so charming. And ... he gives me some "security" in a way that is hard to describe.

To make it short: It's a totally different kind of man - compared to all the other men I had gotten closer to in my life (and I'm 40 - I had 3 serious relationships so far, lasting 5 / 9 / 2 years - and several "causual"-shortterm love things in between.)

The thing is: The TRANSITS that are currently hittin' my own chart do speak some language ....

Tr. Pluto has started to trine my natal Venus and Juno since January (when we got in contact, slowly...) - it will do so again this autumn and this wil last until way next summer. Also tr. Chiron and Neptune are squaring (!) my natal ASC currently - and will do so until next spring... And with Tr. Chiron: It's conjuncting his natal Chiron at the same time, he's having his Chiron-return right now. (And tr. Neptune conjuncting his natal Chiron as well.)

So: He's having his Chiron-return while we get to know each other - and this Chiron is squaring my ASC .... (sort of: destroying/and or healing sth inside of me on my partrnerschip-axis). And at the same time Tr. Pluto is doing his (positive) groundwork in my love life, trining my Venus/Juno and sextiling my North Node.

What I am REALLY learning so far is this: It is a completely DIFFERENT feeling when you really start to "feel" for someone - compared to "developing a crush". Sounds stupid - but, honestly: I had some "crushes" on 2 to 3 men over the last 3 years - and I wouldn't have minded to "start" something with them. It never worked out. (Which is not so bad, after all, haha). I also remember the feelings I had for my last boyfriend (it lasted 2 years and was weird and "complicated" from the beginning - I misread it for "temptation", but after all: It was just plainly complicated and not "healthy"). With this man now, it just feels GOOD. This man is way more mature - it all seems to develop much slower AND kinder AND less "spectacular" ... and I don't know where this will lead to. I do not feel "obsessed" - rather surprised in a positive way that I had never expected. And: From today, I'd even say: I'd rather have a deep, sound friendship with him than to lose that man by a nonsense-quick-affair. I DO find him extremely attractive!!! But ... something ELSE touches and moves me much, much more than that. Huh - it's a different taste of LOVE that I'm currently tasting ... and I like it. And I'm gonna take it slow, that's for sure.