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posted September 18, 2010 07:23 AM         

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Well I don't think I would neccessarily be the one doing the playing around thing.

Not that I can justify it by saying that, but he is more than welcome to sleep with my friends LOL

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posted September 18, 2010 07:28 AM         

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Ughh Here I am justifying it in my head and defending it the more I get asked about it which isn't doing me any good.

I don't think the other person will mind.

If you were a male and you had a one night stand with one of your friends girlfriends secretly, would you feel upset if they never called you again? The whole concept of walking into a room again with each other and having that smirk on your face where you both know is like being naughty but it isn't forbidden because your partner knows every detail.

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posted September 18, 2010 07:52 AM         

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Man
I read the first post, gonna get coffee and hurry back

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posted September 18, 2010 07:54 AM         

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Ami, this is the guy I mentioned to you on MSN

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posted September 18, 2010 08:06 AM         

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If you have an unknown entity(a person who does not know) you have no idea what might erupt from that to any of the people involved.
Primal feelings are very powerful.
I do not think you want to undertake something which may hurt you(or someone else) knowing you as I do.

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posted September 18, 2010 08:46 AM         

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Yes the whole great idea has dissolved in my head for now. I should do it then talk about it. I just think I'm young and why not do something wild for once. I am such a sober person. I wake up at 7am and even go to bed by 12. I don't smoke even. I have been so straight for such a long time

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posted September 18, 2010 08:51 AM         

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Well, if all people knew, the deceptive part would be gone.

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posted September 18, 2010 08:58 AM         

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Belgz, I am curious about your Vertex placements and also asteroid Lilith + mean and true BML.
It is very interesting that he is another Taurus, hehe, you draw them like a magnet. Yep you two have Lust and Eros in strong aspects and it describes the nature of your relationsip accurately. Also, I dont think any spells or magic is involved, he showed you that what you thought was your fantasy only can quickly turn into reality, he is some sort of catalyst for you (that's why I asked about Vertex), you are under the spell of your own desires, don't project this power onto him.
I am not going to judge you or tell you that you are right or wrong for having such fantasies, I just want to tell you again, I have always admired your ability to be honest, accept and admit everything about yourself without trying to make things look nicer or sugarcoating them. There is something very very Uranian about it.

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posted September 18, 2010 09:19 AM         

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Belgz,
Who ever gets hurt if this plays out, you will owe them karma in your next incarnation. What ever level the other party is hurt, you bear the burden of balancing in another lifeline with them. To the extent they were hurt, it will come back to you, and you will feel everything they felt.

Maybe you already played this out in one of your prior lifetimes with him, and another party. Maybe this is your lifetime to make a different choice, and not create more karma.

They are asking you to make a conscious choice this time Belgz. To make this choice from a higher soul level, and not from an ego level.

Keep it as a fantasy, where it stays just a delicious thought for you. But please realize that by bringing it into reality, someone gets hurt.

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posted September 18, 2010 09:26 AM         

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Keep it as a fantasy, where it stays just a delicious thought for you. But please realize that by bringing it into reality, someone gets hurt.

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Yes, this is what I think. I admire your honesty in asking , Belgz.
You can be an Honary Member of the 8th House Stellium Club

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posted September 18, 2010 09:50 AM         

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They are asking you to make a conscious choice this time Belgz. To make this choice from a higher soul level, and not from an ego level.

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VIG, i love your wisdom.
This is so true Belgz. The Universe once asked me to make a choice from a higher soul level. I chose ego and the lesson lasted 6 years. This applies to everything in life, not just sexual preference.
Personally, i think the 'idea' thrills Belgz more than the reality, being a curious, cheeky monkey

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posted September 18, 2010 04:34 PM         

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The players would be ME and HIM and the played person would be the so called victim/toy used for sexual gratification.

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How do you know? If he's this manipulative, he could be playing you. I'm willing to bet he does at some time, even if it's not now.

It's probably them playing you.

Looks like his venus is at algol. Figures.

Love the venus/mars in scrpio themes I am seeing lately. I knew it would be a nightmare.

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posted September 18, 2010 05:44 PM         

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I'm repulsed by his idea of that being fun, as well, but I'm also wondering why his ex is an ex, if it worked out so well for them.

It would be healthier for everyone, if the relationship was truly polyamorous - meaning that everyone knows what's going on. I'm trying to remember the names of a few books a woman mentioned (whose blog I read). The Ethical **** , and something to do with honest non-monogamy. It isn't anything new, he just added a sleazy twist to it...

(Oops, that's The Ethical S!ut. And I think she listens to a podcast by someone named Cheeky Minx.)

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posted September 18, 2010 05:53 PM         

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I just want to tell you again, I have always admired your ability to be honest, accept and admit everything about yourself without trying to make things look nicer or sugarcoating them. There is something very very Uranian about it.

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I was wanting to say something similar, but didn't know how to phrase it.

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posted September 18, 2010 06:01 PM         

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I'm not in the mood to pass any judgement one way or the other, but its interesting to note the theme here. I have Venus in Gemini and I can think of quite a few fantasies that I know would never work out in real life. Is that the eternal problem of a Gemini influenced? Things work out waaay too perfect in our heads to even consider the reality? Hmmmm...

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posted September 18, 2010 06:06 PM         

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Yes, I like that "honesty" about Belgz too. She's not fake!

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posted September 19, 2010 04:29 AM         

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Peri,

I have all the liliths in my 5th house.

Vertex on my DC at 28 Pisces.

LOL about Taurus guys. I don't seem to attract anything other than Taurus and Libra.

Thanks for being understanding, I don't want to lie or pretend I'm great. I don't like being superficial and I open up because we are all here to observe and learn from one another I never judge anyone because wer're all here to live how WE want not how others think we should be living.

Thanks Spanky and Peri xo

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posted September 19, 2010 04:37 AM         

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posted September 19, 2010 04:38 AM         

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Diana,

It's my Venus that is right on algol.

What does that mean?

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posted September 19, 2010 04:43 AM         

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Thanks winged leo, I love your honesty too. Leo placements tend to have that

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posted September 19, 2010 05:07 AM         

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I thought Diana was kidding about algol. It is an asteroid which is really bad lol.
I knew someone and the guy's algol was on her ASC . He was HORRIBLE to her!

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posted September 19, 2010 05:20 AM         

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Hmm I will have to look it up and see what Algol means. Does that mean I will have a bad death because Venus also rules my 8th house and it is the ruler of my eighth that is conjunct Algol.

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posted September 19, 2010 05:24 AM         

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Is HIS algol on your Venus or YOUR algol on your Venus?

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posted September 19, 2010 05:27 AM         

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I am going back to bed. I will look up algol ,tomorrow.
If algol is on your Venus,you have to be careful not to attract bad things to you.
So, this situation would be out

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posted September 19, 2010 05:32 AM         

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I got it mixed up!!

I have natal Venus exactly conjunct REGULUS. I knew it was conjunct some fixed star lol

Regulus interpretation is:

(The lions heart) The most Royal Star.

Raphael, the Healing Archangel, the Watcher of the North. Nobility, ambition, alertness, great power, status, leadership, sudden downfall, accidents, violence. Said by some to be the most benefic star in the universe. 29° Leo 53 Very Fortunate

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