posted September 25, 2010 11:53 AM         

Time of birth is unavailable, so... We can look at aspects and we can forget the houses. We will also assume his Moon sign as Libra because on that day, the Moon was only in Libra.

Go on! We have all this knowledge from the stars. Let's use it!!

Him:

posted September 25, 2010 12:09 PM         

I'd say be direct (Mars in Scorpio). If you're forthcoming with you desires, but perhaps don't mind a huge emotional scene out of it (Venus in Aqua may not appreciate that) you should get what you want. Sort of like a making a proposition. Explain rationally that you're very interested, and don't forget the power of body language!

When looking for what a bloke is attracted to, they say to specifically zoom in on their Moon and Venus signs/houses. So act like a Libra, and dress like an Aquarian. Perhaps a bohemian stylish lady who speaks her mind and carries herself with feminine confidence is what this fellow is looking for.

posted September 25, 2010 12:21 PM         

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When looking for what a bloke is attracted to, they say to specifically zoom in on their Moon and Venus signs/houses. So act like a Libra, and dress like an Aquarian. Perhaps a bohemian stylish lady who speaks her mind and carries herself with feminine confidence is what this fellow is looking for.

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Very nice. A;though I don't dress in a Bohemian style, I am stylish in a different, classic way. His Venus in Aqua is hard to pin down since it is apparently quite detached, but so is my Venus which is square Uranus in the 11th house, so maybe it won't be a big problem.

I'll keep the body language thing in mind

posted September 25, 2010 01:22 PM         

He has Mars and Saturn in Scorpio,conjunct. This may dampen the usual power of Mars in Scorpio.
Also, they are in the 12th house so perhaps he is not direct in going after what he wants.
He could give hints rather than be direct. Is this true?
He has Pluto and the moon in the 11th. Has he had shake-up's or intense ,life changing experiences with friends/groups?
His moon is there so his heart is in to belonging with others in social ways.
His Venus and Mercury are in Aqua. I,personally, do not like Aqua placements cuz they are too cool and detached for me.
He is quite"Aqua " with these two placements.
OK--I am gonna try to put something together ,here.
You tell me if I am right.

Cuz of the Mars/Saturn conjunction in the 12th and the cool Aqua placements---YOU may need to chase him a bit---in subtle ways of course .
Don't want to give my Girlfriend bad advice
He has a Pisces Sun in 0 Pisces which adds to the intensity of Pisces.

This adds fuel to my above statement that he may need a subtle push.
Also, how does Uranus conjunct his ASC play out in him ,do you think?
Does he seem like a "different" sort of person?

posted September 25, 2010 01:33 PM         

If the houses WERE right--How did my analysis sound ?

posted September 25, 2010 01:43 PM         

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Cuz of the Mars/Saturn conjunction in the 12th and the cool Aqua placements---YOU may need to chase him a bit---in subtle ways of course .
Don't want to give my Girlfriend bad advice
He has a Pisces Sun in 0 Pisces which adds to the intensity of Pisces.

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Your analysis was excellent Ami.
The part that caught my eye, as it pertains to my question, is how he would prefer to be chased. I think this is s lightly true, and only based on my instincts, not astro.

I think he would feel better and safer if he knew that a woman wanted him, this giving him more confidence to go after her. Although... I think men just want to chase, generally.

posted September 25, 2010 02:03 PM         

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Be a friend without any pretense. Appeal to his practical but sensitive side. Venus in aquarius- we always notice our friends more than romantic interests. Its easier for us to turn a friend into a lover too. That way whatever we all build on will have the foundation of friendship. I'm a Cappy with venus aquarius and so is my SO.

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I really like the sound of this because that is also how I operate. I usually date my friends, and I actually prefer to date someone I am friends with. Trust is better, relationship has a good foundation etc. So, thanks for that.

posted September 25, 2010 02:09 PM         

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I don't know if I am right in this but doesn't Aqua have a vibe of come close and go away?

I know Pisces has a disappearing vibe so

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For me, the aqua suns I know are quite loyal and quite passionate. They are just not concerned with pettiness and drama, that's all, although they can be dramatic themselves, but only playfully.

posted September 25, 2010 02:24 PM         

He was a high-strung person with a wicked sense of humour annnd he liked :

Venus in aquarius: witty girls who have their own style, who write poetry or can talk about politics, read books, and somehow different

mars in scorpio : accentuated breasts, sexy lingerie and stockings

pisces sun : affectionate girls who like helping others, and can be romantic too, who would cook for him (even if it's just an omelette)

this sums him up lol He was also a bit shy(not when flirting but when making the first move !!), but let him chase you a bit !!!!!!! hehe

posted September 25, 2010 02:49 PM         

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I have an observation,Unmoved. You have Mars conjunct Uranus. He has Mars conjunct Saturn.
I wonder if that could work out in a way that you could balance each other out.
You could be more of a go getter than he is. You could help his reticent Mars to go forward, perhaps.
This further accentuates the fact that his drive could have fear in it to go after what he wants.
The observation of being friends, first,sounds like the way to solve the dilemma.

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Oh yeah, I do have Mars conj Uranus but out of sign and a bit wide. That's interesting Ami. You have me thinking. I like that.

Okay, so you are saying that his drive is fear based and mine is not. My drive is more "Eureka!" and it usually comes when it wants to. I can see myself being more light spirited than he is, although he is very sociable, charismatic and popular than I am. He has a large circle of friends, I don't. He is a comedian by trade. So, he is funny! He is very well liked and that Mars/Saturn doesn't show to the general public. I think that is his private feelings, i.e. to have a fear that drives one to succeed. So much so that one does everything it takes. Whereas, I don't do everything it takes. I would rather wait for the right time to arrive. That is why he is more successful than I am though. I wish I had that aspect of Mars/Saturn.

Anyway...

posted September 25, 2010 02:54 PM         

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Sigh... Pisces Men... lol. What's up with them lately? lol

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posted September 25, 2010 03:06 PM         

Pretty girl with accentuated breasts dressed in a sexy pair of drawers cooking omelette for her man while reciting political satire out loud...