posted September 25, 2010 03:44 PM         

He has some strong Pluto aspects.Maybe ,that is why he is a powerhouse type of person i.e comedian and very social.

He has Venus square Pluto(1 degree) and Sun trine Pluto(2 degrees)

I can tell you about my g/f with Sun trine Pluto. You feel healed around her. It is a powerful aspect when integrated in to the personality.

She said it took time for her to get the power in it and feel comfortable owning that power,if you will

Venus square Pluto I am not familiar with. I have Venus trine Pluto in synastry.

It is powerful so I assume he would need to balance the power in his personality(id impulses and his basic power nature) with his love nature.

I am gonna check YOUR Pluto aspects cuz he could be a powerhouse that you would need to have access to your own Pluto in order to balance.

posted September 25, 2010 03:58 PM         

Ami - yeah, I was actually looking at those Pluto aspects too.

He is very aloof and stand-offish. Here is a link where I wrote about him.

posted September 25, 2010 04:54 PM         

So, you are strong ,there.

You have Pluto in the 12th house which makes it an unexpressed or submerged planet.
It is conjunct Saturn which does not help as Saturn pours cold water on what it touches.
It squares the moon.

So, it challenges you in the way that your Mars makes it easy for you.

Your friends Pluto placements could help you to help bring your Pluto to a more direct expression, perhaps.

I did not know you had moon in Cancer. I do ,too. lol

posted September 25, 2010 05:15 PM         

Yes, Pluto in 12th makes me suppress my Pluto to people, not to myself. Moon square Pluto makes me overwhelming/intimidating and such.

I used to have trouble expressing my Pluto when I was young. This includes trouble expressing my Mercury too. Now I do not have those problems. I still have trouble expressing my Saturn though. I am learning though.

I am very Plutonian. I am more intense than I think I am. I come off stronger than I think I am coming off. I have the trouble of making people feel safe around me because people usually feel uncomfortable or threatened by my energy, I suppose. There is nothing threatening about me, but it happens that way.

Anyway, so I try to tone that down a bit. I think the Pluto that comes through from my 1st house is enough for the world. I don't need to bombard them with the 12th house too. Poor people...

Anyway... I know my chart pretty well, and I have no issues except with Saturn. It is the only planet that I can't wrap my head around. Anyway, this is not about me. It is about Mr Hot Boy.

posted September 25, 2010 07:07 PM         

I,always,took pride in being able to discipline myself in things I wanted to achieve.
It was one of the things I liked about myself when I felt so horrible.
I ,still, like it. I trust that part of myself .
I have Saturn in the 1st house trine Mars.

posted September 25, 2010 09:40 PM         

The Mars in Scorpio is interesting, he's like the bad boy in the back of the classroom, with very smart(Ass) retorts

posted September 26, 2010 05:36 PM         

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Edit, if I remember Venus in Aquarius correctly, they like you more when you don't like them so much..AND they're quite oblivious in general, seeing most everyone as a friend. The funny thing is they abhor romantic game playing, but most feel quite free to do it themselves, and don't even believe them when they say they're not jealous, they are.

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They sound like a total paradox.

Okay, act uninterested, or deny interest. I can do that. I can act interested but still maintain that I am not interested, by blurring the lines a little.

posted September 26, 2010 07:01 PM         

PS I got in a fight with my mother ,today, so please take this post with that in mind lol

posted September 26, 2010 07:09 PM         

In my opinion they ask for alot, because they love intelligent women.... who don't talk an awful lot... or at least talk appropriately like a lady should. She should be sexy but have respect for herself. She could dress like a goth as long as it's feminine and sexy and screams of ... you can't get me, I'm too good for you.

Even the quirky female types are super feminine and well-mannered except when it's appropriate to act wildly... and they need to have a wild side to keep him interested.

posted September 26, 2010 07:10 PM         

edit: The thing is, I can't stand people who-
1) Don't know how they feel
2) Don't know why they acted a certain way
3) Don't understand their "heart"/ soul...

So, it would be a shame. People who aren't introspective (and who lack intuition) make me feel lonely because I can't operate solely on the mental level. As a matter of fact, I operate more on my spirit and heart then mentally. I FEEL things... When I "think" of something, say I say "I think I am hungry", I am not being certain about what I am saying. Whereas, I usually say, " I am hungry" because I know. I deal with that deep knowing mostly, and people who do not feel things definitely can not have that deep knowing.

posted September 26, 2010 07:18 PM         

Funny you should speak of someone who is intelligent but who doesn't speak a lot because I do consider myself to be intelligent, but I seldom speak of what I know. I prefer to watch.

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She could dress like a goth as long as it's feminine and sexy and screams of ... you can't get me, I'm too good for you.

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I like this. It's immature but I like it. I would love to act as if someone isn't good enough for me - but I would be lying because I don't ever think like that... Wait! I lie. I do think some small minded people aren't good enough for me. Shameful but true. So, I can pull that off in an honest way because I know for a fact that he has tendencies to over-compensate for his lack of intelligence. I mean, he is intelligent, but he over-compensates by acting too clever.

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So what's in the way?

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...for us to meet again and interact.

posted September 27, 2010 12:10 AM         

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His Aquarius Moon-Venus
The man with the Moon or Venus in Aquarius craves--or adores--an unusual woman or an unconventional relationship. He needs or values everything that is cool, progressive or different in womankind. He actually prefers it if you're not like everybody else. And he loves and needs whatever you can give him in the way of space, freedom, and unpredictability. A slightly mad relationship, or a female who is simply not like the rest, will feed 50 to 100% of his needs or desires. [...]
Give him love, but above all give him eccentricity and liberty. He is so popular, so friendly and so seductively unusual, that it is easy to fall in love with him. But he does not want your dependency, does not feel comfortable with being a 'rock' to any woman, and has a horror of any relationship, marriage or de-facto arrangement which he believes will tie him down.
If you are to come to a satisfactory agreement with this man romantically or emotionally, you will have to appreciate his need for activities, work, interests, or friendships which have nothing to do with you. This is not somebody who necessarily wants to clock up a lot of time with you. If he does--you will still be dealing with a noticeable kind of distance. Love does not thrive on a round-the-clock basis here. Nor does he necessarily swallow conventional society's rules for happiness. A white wedding, followed by cosy domestic routines until death parts you, is just not in it.
His image of the beloved is a woman who is non-possessive and who does not register jealousy. He is not being deliberately cruel in this regard. He honestly cannot fathom why any woman would be hurt, angry or upset by his interest in, or feelings for, another woman in his life. What he wants is a progressive, free-thinking, easygoing female who takes an advanced view of human relationships.
If either Uranus or Aquarius itself is prominent in your personal chart, you may be able to accommodate this. It is highly likely that you also find it hard to deal with a man who will not tolerate or understand your light connections to other men in your life.
In women, he needs and loves originality. There has to be something quite remarkable or different about you to attract him. He has a penchant for woman who are refined and cultured, slightly bohemian or alternative, or--frankly--an odd choice for him to make. However, he also needs a female who is keen to experiment--particularly romantically or sexually--and who prefers a lot of freedom. He'll have his friends, and he wants you to have yours. There may be platonic friendships on either side of the fence for both of you. If you are independent and rather cool, you will certainly attract him. If there is something noticeable unexpected about your style, your interests, your attitudes, your lifestyle, or your appearance, you will fascinate him even more. To keep things going between you, though, you will personally need to appreciate and understand his difficulty with the watery world of feelings. Part of him fears he will drown to death in them.
Women who have been through suffocating and stifling relationships with jealous men, or lovers who have been scarily intense or close, often find Moon or Venus in Aquarius men like a shot of oxygen. There is no intense, heavy breathing with this man. And he will not cling to you, or resent the time you do not spend with him. Being with him can be like a wake-up call. And it can feel tremendously exciting (he is always, reliably, exciting) and also full of possibilities for you.
This happy, unusual state of affairs can only come about if you are prepared to rethink your ideas on relationships, though. What he will probably require from you is a very unlikely set-up where closeness, emotion and true intimacy are just not possible. He may have a heavy work schedule--or a lot of outside interests--that require you to go off and do your own thing while he is doing his. He may be a radical Moon or Venus in Aquarius man, in which case he will make it very clear that he wants an open relationship, or an affair (being with you and being with his partner at the same time guarantees that he will never have to feel too close to either of you). This sign is about invention. He may make up the rules as he goes along. He'll see that side of you, to--the unafraid, experimental side.
If you are wise you will honestly examine your own needs at the beginning of the relationship. And don't be afraid to challenge him on what he wants as well. He won't be offended. As long as your questions don't 'crowd' him (this is a favorite word with Moon or Venus in Aquarius) he will give you the truth quite openly. This is not a dishonest man, unless there are contradictory indications in his chart. He prefers complete frankness and openness and is not a game player. However, you will have to accept his terms. No matter how much compromise or middle ground you can find together--and he is always amenable to logical debate--the basic reality of Moon or Venus in Aquarius is that his need to be exactly who he is will somehow always dictate what goes on for both of you.

Where he places you
Somewhere between Yoko Ono, Soon-Yi Previn, Juliette Greco, Simone de Beauvoir and Caitlin Thomas. He find you odd, unusual, original and very exciting. When you're not clicking, he finds you cold, weird, and unemotional. His image of the beloved is totally unaffected by convention--or what other people think he 'ought' to be doing with his love life!

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This is an interesting book..I read the ch. on Men with Venus Sagittarius (this one I have) and I don't see myself as a Jupiter gal.. but his eyebrows did perk up when he saw i was studying theology lol.

posted September 27, 2010 07:09 AM         

He met my mother in a discotheque. She was a really attractive young woman, slim, long legs and long light blonde hair.
He was at that time serving as a "marine" (it`s not the same as in America I think), and looking quite dashing himself.
You would have thought that those two would have gone dancing all night.

Yet, when they met, they pretty quickly left the disco and were standing outside in the cold discussing the Vietnam war.