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Topic: Pregnancy Horary
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amowls*
Knowflake Posts: 1557
From: richmond va
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 26, 2010 10:27 PM
 
You THINK but you don't KNOW. For all you know he could get cold feet like Belgz's boyfriend and leave you. And Belgz and her mama's boy boyfriend were together for 10 years. For all you know he could've came in you without even really thinking about it. Maybe he thinks you'll get rid of it if worst came to worst.Basically, if he likes it he should put a ring on it (Saturn square Venus talking). Then you can have all the love-children you want and I wouldn't be sitting here worried about another single mother. IP: Logged |
belgz
Knowflake Posts: 2248
From: Planet love :)
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 26, 2010 10:27 PM
Amowls
I have sun, mercury and mars in cancer and I can't fall pregnant when I want.
My fifth house ruler is in first exalted in libra making a tight trine to my moon and nodes. IP: Logged |
belgz
Knowflake Posts: 2248
From: Planet love :)
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 26, 2010 10:30 PM
Amowls,That's right on! He did expect me to abort it when his family flipped out after I fell pregnant before marriage and said my child was a ******* before it was born lol. I come from a Muslim family and so does he and normally this type of stuff is covered up through a quick marriage. I got a reaction I was not expecting. IP: Logged |
raspberri
Knowflake Posts: 1175
From: venus
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted September 26, 2010 10:31 PM
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Ami Anne
Knowflake Posts: 734
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 26, 2010 10:31 PM
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raspberri
Knowflake Posts: 1175
From: venus
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted September 26, 2010 10:35 PM
Sorry Ami, that I'm not exactly the picture of humilty for you. But I'm only defending myself from your negativity. Don't get your panties in a bunch just because I can stand up for myself.
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Ami Anne
Knowflake Posts: 734
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 26, 2010 10:38 PM
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raspberri
Knowflake Posts: 1175
From: venus
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted September 26, 2010 10:38 PM
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Ami Anne
Knowflake Posts: 734
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 26, 2010 10:40 PM
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raspberri
Knowflake Posts: 1175
From: venus
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted September 26, 2010 10:42 PM
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Ami Anne
Knowflake Posts: 734
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 26, 2010 10:44 PM
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amowls*
Knowflake Posts: 1557
From: richmond va
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 26, 2010 10:45 PM
It's just illogical to think that he'll defy his parents and have a child with you when he won't tell his parents to f*ck off and marry you now. I don't get it.This is all real talk. I'm not trying to cut you down (I have no motivation to do so). We, as basically anonymous members of a message board, have no stake in your life and it's out come. We are merely dispensing objective advice, and it is, of course, your prerogative to listen to it or not. Ami and Belgz are older than us and have experienced a lot more. You come off a bit childish being so flippant about Ami's posts. A more mature person would've said "Thank you for your concern, Ami, but trust me, I got dis" instead of being overly defensive and insulting. The end. IP: Logged |
raspberri
Knowflake Posts: 1175
From: venus
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted September 26, 2010 10:47 PM
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raspberri
Knowflake Posts: 1175
From: venus
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted September 26, 2010 10:48 PM
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Ami Anne
Knowflake Posts: 734
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 26, 2010 10:49 PM
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raspberri
Knowflake Posts: 1175
From: venus
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted September 26, 2010 10:50 PM
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Ami Anne
Knowflake Posts: 734
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 26, 2010 10:53 PM
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raspberri
Knowflake Posts: 1175
From: venus
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted September 26, 2010 10:56 PM
Well you are wrong.
What you feel is wrong. You know what my rationalization is, people have gotten molested by their parents, have been poor sleeping on the streets etc. And I haven't. I'm lucky. There is nothing dramatic enough for me to feel sorry for myself. I never ever allow myself to feel that way. My life is my life, nobody is responsible for it but myself. I'm an educated person. I have common sense.
What I don't understand is how my asking if im pregnant aroused negativity in you. That is what bothers me.
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Ami Anne
Knowflake Posts: 734
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 26, 2010 11:05 PM
I think you are holding pain you are not aware of. This is coming out as a cold nature toward the guy such as saying a baby will "have him by the balls" . I don't think you are seeing the ramifications of getting pregnant in THIS way especially with his family against the relationship.
Also, a long traditional culture such as he has should be respected.
IF you enter in to it, you should do so in the right way such as meeting the parents, let them know you,get engaged etc not using a pregnancy. There will be another life in the drama, also.
I think it all will blow up in your face,badly, if you do it this way.
Bottom line, I think you have gotten cold in order to survive.
If you don't face it,inside you, it will play out in a drama such as this where you may rue the day you brought things down on yourself.
I think people feeling those things aroused some of the sentiment you got on this thread.
Also, you may not be aware of mean and sniping things you have said over the course of my time on LL. That build up anger in many people.
I am not saying it is right but if someone hurts other people, it does come back on them.
I think that was a factor here, too.
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lalalinda
Moderator Posts: 819
From: nevada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 26, 2010 11:47 PM
Come on knowflakes,
Our strength is our ability to nurture and support, not criticize and condemn.If you'd like to point out possible flaws in her mindset or actions, that's fine as long as we continue to treat her and each other with respect. Let's not confuse issues here
this thread is supposed to be about a horary  Belgz you are a ray of sunshine   Out! IP: Logged |
belgz
Knowflake Posts: 2248
From: Planet love :)
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 27, 2010 02:56 AM
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Lara
Knowflake Posts: 4485
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 27, 2010 04:18 AM
boy oh boy! Lala Raspberri, if you are pregnant then congrats and if you're not then congrats  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Knowflake Posts: 734
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 27, 2010 08:27 AM
I am gonna be really honest about myself, here. I ask anyone who does not like me to refrain from using this time to tell me about it.
I am trying to face myself and be honest with myself and Rasperri.I was angry at Rasperri for times of being mean and sniping to me and other people. It would have been honest to say THAT if I needed to.
Her pregnancy, relationship etc is ONE issue and my feelings toward her behavior are another.
I was dishonest to put the two together . I am sorry for that.
I have erased things I said in a mean way and have left what was heartfelt
I have parts of myself that I need to face. I am not honest about my own capacity to be mean .
I have not been honest about my own insecurities,my own capacity for evil, meanness, nastiness, sniping, pettiness, jealousy.
I did what my mother did. I split off the "bad" parts of myself and tried to be "good" The "bad" parts don't stay down but come up in ways that are not honest and direct like I did here.
I am sorry if I hurt you, Rasperri.
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lalalinda
Moderator Posts: 819
From: nevada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 27, 2010 10:48 AM
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Diablo
Knowflake Posts: 644
From: Melbourne, Australia
Registered: May 2009
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posted September 27, 2010 12:22 PM
Sorry, but I agree 100% with Ami, Belgz and Amowls. Those are some of the worst reasons to bring a child into this world. And totally selfish on top of that. Oh, and I'm a young, independent, 100% healthy and educated cancer sun female with a Libra moon ..so similar to you and Belgz except I got a hell of a lot of rationality and balance with my moon. You should only make the decision to bring a child into this world when that little life you created is going to be loved and accepted by their ENTIRE family. It should be wanted from ALL parties, not just the parents. The child shouldn't suffer the burden of blame and being unwanted from relatives. And you cant just "hope" with faith that once it's born, it'll make everything better. I'd say more, but Amowls said it perfectly.
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