posted October 03, 2010 03:57 AM         

Venusian = 22
Neptunian = 22
Saturnian = 21
Uranian = 21
Mercurial = 17
Lunar = 16
Plutonian = 15
Jovial = 13
Martian = 10
Solar = 9

If their type is mostly Venusian/Neptunian (22 each),
that must mean I'm gentle and sweet and a bit otherworldly.
Then their secondary type is Saturnian/Uranian (21 each),
this must mean I'm also grounded in reality and a lil offbeat.

This fits,
Libra stellium
Sun (also Asc ruler) in Pisces, sq Uranus
Moon/Venus Capricorn

The next strongest is Mercury @ 17,
Moon/Venus in 6th, Mars in 3rd, angular Mercury

posted October 03, 2010 04:27 AM         

What method did you use for that cool tally thing? I want to try it out, but I need an example to emulate.

Did you add to the Venusian tally whenever they had Moon, Venus, Juno, or 7th house ruler either in Taurus/Libra/2nd/7th/aspecting Venus?

Sounds diffimucult. D@mn you for getting me interested in something laborious! :begins to shake fist but is too lazy to continue:

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If their type is mostly Venusian/Neptunian (22 each),
that must mean I'm gentle and sweet and a bit otherworldly.
Then their secondary type is Saturnian/Uranian (21 each),
this must mean I'm also grounded in reality and a lil offbeat.

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Ooh, I like you.
My Neptune's in a Venusian house and my Saturn's in a Uranian house. I think I understand where you're coming from.

posted October 03, 2010 04:31 AM         

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One guy I dated said to me, "You will be Beyonce and I will be Jay Z". That played a part in our break up.

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As it should.

Did you laugh when he said that?

posted October 03, 2010 04:49 AM         

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I have this very strange pattern of always attracting guys who work with computers in some way (programmers, software engineers, etc). I never set out to date tech guys, but it always happens. It's gotten to the point where I don't even ask what a guy does for a living... I already know.

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Yes! That's how it's worked for me too. With most of them, the similarities I listed in my 1st post developed after we'd already split up! Only 1 was already working in his profession when we met.

So this tells me there's a specific energy/character I'm drawn to in a man. When I encounter that energy, I'm captivated. It's the energy more than the outward signs, since most of them didn't have those signs when I fell for them.

posted October 03, 2010 04:58 AM         

Oh, an unaspected Mars! That must give a lot of sexual energy. I had an unaspected Mars in a composite once. So much Mars energy.

posted October 03, 2010 05:44 AM         

a Yin-Venus, in an overwhelming number Venus is in:
Taurus, Scorpio or Capricorn (Pisces in some rare cases)

The only Yang-Venus that comes up is:
Venus in Sagittarius

Moon usually is in Aries, Libra, Scorpio or Sagittarius

Mercury is in Aries or Sagittarius

Mars is more variable, though I can reduce it to Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Pisces, Capricorn in rare cases

posted October 03, 2010 06:29 AM         

Prolly, the unaspected Venus makes or breaks a relationship.

I have Venus in Gemini. I am attracted to words. If I see a man using words the way a craftsman would use a medium like woodworking etc---I fall.
There is a certain way that words fall off a man's mouth or his pen.
They flow effortlessly,like water, smoothly lol
This trait trumps all others ,looks,etc

I love words.

Then, he needs to have a soft ,warm side for my Cancer moon to know it will be safe and not hurt ,excessively, beyond humans hurting humans as part of life lol

My Venus is in the 7th with Taurus on the cusp. Every boyfriend I ever had wanted to marry me --eight

posted October 03, 2010 06:33 AM         

I like the depressive type of guy.

I don't care a great deal for what they're doing in life or how they communicate (doesn't mean I can't be frustrated by lack of talk)

I like to see something extremely human and at least a grain revolution. I guess it's something what the mainstream loathes.

Retro Aqua-Mars/NN square Scorp-Moon and Leo-Juno/SN is making a T-square of it.

posted October 03, 2010 09:35 AM         

Ferdi had his mars square my mars 5 degree orb.

The other didn't make an aspect within 5 degrees.

posted October 03, 2010 09:46 AM         

I can't imagine having an unaspected Mars. Once, you pull it in and own it---it will be better than an aspected one,if you know what I mean

posted October 03, 2010 10:24 AM         

My grandmothers Venus is exactly on my mars.

Noone else really. Oh my cats planets make aspects to it and quite a few actually.

Everyones planets either square it or oppose it. No sextiles, trines or conjunctions

posted October 03, 2010 11:20 AM         

Hilarious!

posted October 03, 2010 11:25 AM         

It is like a child who was not socialized. It can be stuck, frozen, too loud or too soft.

It can be abberent lol.

However, if you can grab it and make it yours, it can soar in unique ways. It can make a stamp in your life which makes you unique in the area of that planet.

I have some sense of that but only the beginning stages .It is like you must make your own rules for that planet.

It demands that you must in order for you to USE it.
My Venus is opening up to me,now.
She was squished down by my mother who did not understand much about love.

My Venus wants to find her own way of being, not anyone else defining her.

I am trying to do that,now.

posted October 03, 2010 11:30 PM         

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No they didn't directly aspect it within a close orb.

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Sounds like the best is yet to come.

posted October 03, 2010 11:42 PM         

Yay! I was thinking the 2nd house would make more sense than the 1st bc of their focus on wealth. I bet you'll end up with a wealthy guy who uses his Neptune not just for glamour & creativity, but also for spirituality. I think that's what you've been missing with these guys. A true sense of spiritual fellowship.

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I didn't laugh. I was too appalled. I did smile and nod. Nod and smile whenever you're unsure, I say.

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