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Topic: Do you have a type?
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jane Knowflake Posts: 1142 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted October 01, 2010 05:14 PM
The area in my life where I'm most consistent is romantic attraction. I definitely have a type. Every man I've been in a relationship with works in education, most are also writers, and all are heavily involved with a non-profit.Why I like the good guys: Mars cnj Jupiter in the 10th house - I find men who serve and empower the community sexy and masculine. Why I like them smart and communicative: Venus in the 3rd Juno in the 9th 7th house ruler in the 3rd Why I'm so consistent: Fixed signs on my AC-DC axis. So how about you? What's your type and is it shown by: - Your Mars. House, aspects, sign. (Or Venus if you like women.) - Your 7th house ruler. - Your 7th house sign. - Your Juno and Venus. IP: Logged |
electricmind Knowflake Posts: 521 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted October 01, 2010 05:54 PM
my type: fiery and very virile and masculine. softies are a HUGE turn off for me. i like rough hands, dark skin and muscular (but not hard) bodies. i want to feel like he can kick some butt if he absolutely had to.i love artists. especially musicians. the love of my life is a drummer. i love people who have goals and ambition. men who support me and all of my many skills, obsessions and creative endeavors. i LOVE a man's Man! I think that all of these aspects and placements below attribute to me and my "type": Moon in Aries in the 3rd house (Ruler of 7th house/descendant in Cancer) Mars in Scorpio -- conjunct Saturn in Scorpio -- conjunct Part of Fortune in Scorpio -- in the 10th house -- all square Sun in Aquarius in the 2nd house. Also Venus exactly conjunct Pysche in Capricorn in the 1st house quintile Pluto in Scorpio conjunct Midheaven in the 10th IP: Logged |
Unmoved Moderator Posts: 2026 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted October 01, 2010 06:06 PM
Hmmm... do I have a type? ** I based this on the pattern of men I have dated, not on my preference** quote: - Your Mars. House, aspects, sign. (Or Venus if you like women.) - Your 7th house ruler. - Your 7th house sign. - Your Juno and Venus.
My Venus in 11th, in Virgo. -Venus square Uranus -Venus sxt Jupiter -Venus sxt AC -Venus trine DC Juno in Sag conj Neptune. -They are always in media and whether it is advertising or entertainment, they are always speaking to the masses somehow. Oh, jane... you are brilliant. I've never noticed but it is true. Hmmm... 7th house ruler - Venus 7th house sign - Taurus I am always with men that are stylish, who like the high-roller type of life even if they can't afford it. They have all been very doting and caring, very loving and attentive - but they loved the "good life". Very, very Venusian. I have NEVER been with a stingy man. In fact they are usually too generous. They over-do things and they all wish they had yachts and a Bugatti. It's always about glamor, VIP parties and keeping up with the jones' for them. They have all been around my age, and because I prefer self-starters than trust fund babies, they have all not reached that goal of being filthy rich. So, they make up for that by being popular, by being in the "right circles" and chasing something I can't put my finger on. Unfortunately, they have all used me as an accessory and part of this goal, although I am pretty "down to earth" as in, I don't care for the material as much as they do. One guy I dated said to me, "You will be Beyonce and I will be Jay Z". That played a part in our break up. IP: Logged |
NeptuneIllusion Knowflake Posts: 58 From: Mendocino County, CA Registered: Jun 2009
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posted October 01, 2010 06:09 PM
I like exotic, sensitive men that tend to be loyal: -Venus trine Saturn in Cancer in the 9th house I always fall for people that live all the way across the US or even in different countries (usually people met on the interwebs ). Either that or someone that is from a different ethnicity.But I also like them to be assertive types that are concerned with their career or can provide me material security, also a great sense of humor. Someone willing to question authority, with possibly even a degree of genius: -Mars in Leo in the 10th house -Aries on the DSC -Moon in Sagittarius in 2nd house, sextile Jupiter in Aquarius I guess I just really like fiery type people. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 1915 From: Ohio Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 01, 2010 06:15 PM
My computer is threatening to go again. I'll fill this out for now:- Your Mars. House, aspects, sign. (Or Venus if you like women.) Mars in Pisces, 4th house (if using Equal, then it's conjunct the 5th house cusp). Mars square Moon, Venus, Nodes and Vertex in Gemini Trine Uranus/ascendant in Scorpio I think I'm forgetting something, but I'm not sure... - Your 7th house ruler. Venus at the end of the 7th/beginning of the 8th, widely sextile Jupiter and trine Pluto (also wide). Conjunct Moon, South Node and Vertex, inconjunct Uranus/ascendant. - Your 7th house sign. Taurus - Your Juno and Venus. Juno in Taurus, in my 7th, square my IC/MC axis. IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 4591 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 01, 2010 06:24 PM
I love 'twist my mind in knots' intelligence, highly individual, driven by passion, manly and genius creative types whom are at the top of their field. My love is to create. They have to be either psychic or have an intuit extreme spirituality that they are conscious of. I am drawn to foreigners although the best relationships of my life have been with 2 brits with strong leo/scorpio in their charts. I've been lucky to have dated v good-looking men although i don't look for them. I'm not into looks and i can't bear a man in a suit lol Venus in the 8th ruled by neptune Juno in the 3rd 7th house ruler in virgo Fixed signs on my AC-DC axis.
Mars in 9th cj MC. square jupiter square neptune - Your 7th house ruler - uranus - Your 7th house sign - aquarius uranus cj pluto. sextile neptune. trine mars/MC. quincunx saturn/nn/moon/venus - Your Juno and Venus - juno in scorpio/venus in aries juno opp sun/mercury IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 1307 From: Avendesora Registered: May 2009
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posted October 01, 2010 06:25 PM
My type has not been very consistent....in true gemini fashion. The only thing that's been constant is that they must have that 'spark': mainly of intelligence. I'm not into lethargic types either. These days I'm not into selfish brats or really insensitive types either. But I do require someone who has a backbone and some initiative. I'm definitely not into guys who shun intellectual pursuits or really just cannot dress themselves to save their lives. I like a cabellero type guy who's the stuff of movies and novels...unfortunately he probably doesn't exist. Its sucks when you have all four elements in the top four because your never satisfied with who you attract. The people always emphasize only one or two aspects of myself. -Mars in Aries in the 3rd- square Saturn/Uranus in Sag and Chiron in Cancer
-Cancer on the 7th house Cusp. -Moon in Virgo/8th -Juno in Cancer/6th -Unaspected/Singleton Venus in Gemini IP: Logged |
DD Knowflake Posts: 6414 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 01, 2010 06:34 PM
Smart, creative, musical, (voices, voices, voices, I love voices!), confident, warm, charming (yes I admit it), witty, nonchalant and intense at the same time (yeah I know I like to keep things difficult. lol), open to new experiences (not necessarily about themselves though :sighs: ), "doing their own thing, marching to their own drum", tolerant. Physically there seem to be two types prevalent: The blonde ones with light eyes (blue/grey) (Usually the rather "loud" confident, spontaneious, warm, witty, verbally quick types, often very "earthy" with strong physicality)The darkhaired ones with darker eyes. (Usually the "fragile" type - though there have been mix ups, too; serious, quiet, reflective, sometimes almost "etheric", and usually extremely handsome. lol) my astro signature: Mars in Sagittarius in 12th house conjunct Neptune
Gemini on DESC ruler of DESC, Mercury, in Sagittarius conjunct Sun in 1st houe. Juno in Pisces in 3rd house, trine Saturn Venus in Capricorn in 1st house, square Pluto. IP: Logged |
swirl-kitt Knowflake Posts: 217 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 01, 2010 06:37 PM
I definitely do have a type !I love men who seem a bit childish and innocent and have a friendly approach. Not 'too nice' though, but should be smart and silly at the same time 2 of my exes are getting their Phds now , one of them has become an engineer, another one is a drummer(jazz) and he also gives lessons. So far I've dated, 2 musician types, and 4 education types. That makes me a uni student, who happens to looovve music I have
mars in virgo in 4th venus in libra in 4th capricorn in 7th saturn in 5th juno in aries
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swirl-kitt Knowflake Posts: 217 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 01, 2010 06:39 PM
check this out http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/rulersofhousesinhouses.html IP: Logged |
swirl-kitt Knowflake Posts: 217 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 01, 2010 06:42 PM
Unmoved- 'and a Bugatti'ahhh the bugatti dream IP: Logged |
Unmoved Moderator Posts: 2026 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted October 01, 2010 06:48 PM
swirlz - aaahhh, indeed! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Knowflake Posts: 1281 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 01, 2010 07:00 PM
Awesome thread, Jane ------------------ Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend. IP: Logged |
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 2023 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 01, 2010 07:36 PM
Someone I love talking to, youthful quality: -3rd house ruler in the 7th -11th house ruler in the 7th -Mars in the 3rd -Mars in Libra (Air) -Mercury conj Dsc ....except that a lot of them will actually be older than me, but still with the Mercurial spirit (from above) about them: -Venus in Capricorn -Venus square Saturn -Mars conj SaturnHe stands out *always* never one of the pack, you will never see him blending in with any group, and everyone I know can never understand why we're together because we're so different: -Aquarius Dsc -Uranus in the 5th -Sun square Uranus -Vertex conj Uranus Honest to a fault/likes his space/commitment-phobe: -Aquarius Dsc -7th house ruler in Sagittarius -7th house ruler Uranus sq Sun -Juno in Sagittarius -Vertex in Sagittarius -Vertex conj Uranus Super duper masculine, this is always the case. I never attract sissies: -Mars conj Saturn conj Pluto ...but they have gorgeous bone structure: -Mars/Saturn/Pluto in Libra -Venus in Capricorn Artistic inclinations, mostly musician or painter as a side career or hobby: -Mars in Libra -Neptune in the 5th -Sun in Pisces -7th house ruler in the 5th I'm hesitant to add this but they do have a certain intensity: -Mars conj Pluto -Venus sq Pluto -Sun in the 8th IP: Logged |
dinobleue Knowflake Posts: 141 From: USA Registered: May 2009
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posted October 01, 2010 08:45 PM
DD-I think the first guy you described, the one with blonde hair and blue eyes, is the very man of my dreams! That was him to a tee! IP: Logged |
enchantress299 Knowflake Posts: 167 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted October 02, 2010 07:19 PM
Hahaha Jane... I was just thinking about the 'types' topic myself. I have this very strange pattern of always attracting guys who work with computers in some way (programmers, software engineers, etc). I never set out to date tech guys, but it always happens. It's gotten to the point where I don't even ask what a guy does for a living... I already know. The guys that I attract are NOT the typical 'computer nerd' stereotype in that they are often suave, charming, and fun. Mars- Leo in the 9th in grand trine with Uranus (1st), Jupiter (1st) Moon (5th) 7th house ruler- Venus in the 9th DC- Taurus Venus- Virgo in the 9th house conjunct the MC and Sun involved in a T-square with Chiron (7th) and Jupiter/Uranus (1st) sextiles Pluto and Saturn trines Neptune Juno-Taurus in the 6th making a grand trine with Venus (Virgo 9th) and Neptune (end of Sadge/1st house) The Uranus-Mars aspect obviously has a lot of pull. I tend to find that men who work with computers (or are engineers) tend to have a LOT of air in their charts, and so I think they like me because I have so much fire in mine. Also, the guys I attract are very often 'daredevils.' They love risk taking and thrills. I chalk this up to my 9th house Mars and Venus as well as my Jupiter/Uranus conjunction. Another aspect that I see a lot of, is that usually the guy is slightly Venusian in some way. I've attracted a lot of guys who can dance (I do take salsa dancing now, so that has contributed to it, but I was attracting them before that), or who enjoy cooking in their spare time (which is fine by me since I HATE to cook). Another slight pattern that I've noticed is that these guys are often self-starters and are successful self-starters at that (probably about half the time). I chalk this up to the fact that my Venus is conjunct my MC. Essentially they all have to be insanely intelligent to date me. I fall in love with my mind first (yay Venus in Virgo). Evidently I have a 'jack of all trades' theme going here as well. Goes along with the 9th house/Jupiter influence. IP: Logged |
DD Knowflake Posts: 6414 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 02, 2010 07:34 PM
Dinoblue,back off, he is mine. Luckily there are more examples of this "type" than only one. I actually think someone like this would be good for me. IP: Logged |
jane Knowflake Posts: 1142 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted October 03, 2010 01:40 AM
Great info, guys! I feasted from your astro trough. Now how about this...flipping it and looking at the guys' charts to see what type YOU are. Do any patterns emerge? Do your partners regularly have Venus in the 5th, for instance? Do these patterns match who you see yourself as being? Did being with him accentuate that side in you? Will I ever stop asking questions? IP: Logged |
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 2023 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 03, 2010 01:50 AM
If only i had tob for em all lol. if only tob was tattooed on our butts at birth heheIP: Logged |
jane Knowflake Posts: 1142 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted October 03, 2010 02:02 AM
lol Lonake. It's only right. If you're seeing someone's @ss, your relationship is close enough to entitle you a peak at his chart. He11, why not put the whole chart there. But then there'd be constant - "You have Uranus cnj your anus" - jokes.IP: Logged |
GypseeWind Moderator Posts: 4058 From: Dayton,Ohio USA Registered: May 2009
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posted October 03, 2010 02:29 AM
I like them short, with curly hair and dark pleading eyes. WAIT! That's my taste in dogs. Not much different for men, only they need to be TALL. And funny, but not 'center of attention' funny, just funny around me, with lots of private jokes, and the ability to make up words for objects.. I'm into the word thing. Usually everyone I get interested in has been in a band at one time or another. Hmm, they need to sort of brooding and difficult too... if they put all their cards on the table too soon, I'm running! Now I've forgotten what aspects you asked for Jane. Well, I have Sun/Venus in the 8th. (Sag) Merc/Neptune in Scorpio in the 7th, and Mars/Moon in Libra in the 6th. IP: Logged |
jane Knowflake Posts: 1142 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted October 03, 2010 02:40 AM
Looking at 4 men's charts:VENUS - Sign: 3 Fire, 1 Water. - House: 2 in the First House, 1 in the Seventh House, 1 in the Eighth House. - Aspects: All 4 aspect Pluto. (Only aspect they all have in common.) *** Says I'm fiery, watery, and Pluto-influenced when relating with a man as a sexual woman. That matches my fire Sun & Moon, Sco Asc, and Pluto on my Sun/Moon mp. 7th HOUSE RULER - Sign on cusp: 2 Earth, 1 Water, 1 Air - Sign of ruler: 3 Earth, 1 Air/Fire (dual rulers) - House of ruler: 2 in Second House, 1 in Eighth House, 1 in Fifth & Sixth. - Aspects of ruler: They don't share any. *** The emphasis on Earth Signs and Fixed Houses could say I give out a "long-term" vibe. Probably from: Taurus Dsc, Cap Venus, Cancer Juno, Pluto on Venus/Juno mp. Their info could also show the physical side of a relationship is really important to me. MOON - Sign: One from each element. I never noticed that before! They're Sco, Sag, Cap and Aqua. So they're all in social/universal signs. - House: No pattern. - Aspects: 3 aspect Mars. *** My emotional vibe must have range. Actually, those signs make sense. For Sco - my Moon tightly aspects Pluto. For Sag - my Moon rules my 9th house and trines my Sag Sun. For Cap - my Moon's in my 10th house. For Aqua - my Moon tightly squares Uranus. As far as the Mars influence, probably shows that I have a fire Sun & Moon. JUNO - Sign: 3 in Water (all the water signs represented), 1 in Earth. - House: 3 in Water Houses (all the water houses represented), 1 in a Fire House. - Aspects: No pattern. *** With that water emphasis, I must give out an emotional intimacy vibe. IP: Logged |
belgz Knowflake Posts: 2306 From: Planet love :) Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 03, 2010 02:46 AM
Yeah I have a type.His eyes must read/say S E X I don't care if he looks like a cow but if I feel that pull ( which is very rare) I will play my Venus in Leo and lure him in. I can see it in someones eyes when there is chemistry, I guess that is all that matters to me. IP: Logged |
jane Knowflake Posts: 1142 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted October 03, 2010 03:00 AM
belgz - quote: I don't care if he looks like a cow but if I feel that pull ( which is very rare) I will play my Venus in Leo and lure him in.
That pull though...have you noticed afterwards that the men you've felt it with were all similar in certain ways? Ways that you didn't even know about when you first fell for them. That's what's happened with me. IP: Logged |
belgz Knowflake Posts: 2306 From: Planet love :) Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 03, 2010 03:37 AM
Yeah that could be right. Similar and different in lota of ways but mostly similar IP: Logged |