posted October 18, 2010 09:06 AM         

tr. Pluto has been going over my 1st house, as you see, and it has been a very transformational period since 5-6 years. that's true the importance of my Mercury in the areas of relating with others and situating self, and of course the tr. Pluto finally hovering over it back and forth HAS TO have a major impact!

wow, this has been a real eye-opener for me. thanks so much everyone! now i shouldn't be fearful of uncertainty and vague fear, because you guys pointed to me what's up.

being tough is not my way of dealing with things. BUT even in dealing with these room mates, in the end i DID have to show them my tough side and make them shut up. it was scary and felt very strange because i felt like i was someone else. but they could not penetrate my firmness because in the back of their heads they knew they were the guilty ones. so now i think i have to learn not to be hurt by the experiences like these. because as opposed to being let down and humiliated as i felt, i am actually evolving, getting better!

posted October 18, 2010 10:10 AM         

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being tough is not my way of dealing with things. BUT even in dealing with these room mates, in the end i DID have to show them my tough side and make them shut up. it was scary and felt very strange because i felt like i was someone else. but they could not penetrate my firmness because in the back of their heads they knew they were the guilty ones. so now i think i have to learn not to be hurt by the experiences like these. because as opposed to being let down and humiliated as i felt, i am actually evolving, getting better!

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You've just described a Pluto moment

posted October 18, 2010 02:58 PM         

lechien -

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so now i think i have to learn not to be hurt by the experiences like these.

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Yes, exactly! Until the transformation is complete, you're going to feel uncomfortable. Using your Pluto will hurt. But once you've grown into your new way of being, the accompanying pain will disappear.

posted October 18, 2010 08:21 PM         

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Until the transformation is complete, you're going to feel uncomfortable. Using your Pluto will hurt. But once you've grown into your new way of being, the accompanying pain will disappear.

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posted October 18, 2010 09:00 PM         

Neptune has Mercury and Sun trine it.
Pluto has Mercury and Sun sextile it.

posted October 19, 2010 06:28 AM         

When my health was worse, I didn't find solution in transits, especially not in transits of the fast planets (they come and go).

I found it in my progressed Mars.
Why nobody here uses Secondary Progressions?

posted October 19, 2010 08:49 AM         

Hi Bobbie
I don't know how to look at transits
Just wanted to say I was thinking of you!!!

Lechien
For many woman, accessing their Pluto/Mars is hard.
Woman have been taught to be "nice" and not angry or "aggressive"
That has hampered us, IMO.

Men have a harder time with the gentle emotions of love and caring, it seems(Venus and the moon)

posted October 19, 2010 09:38 AM         

bonadea, my progressed Mars is in the 7th house, square Chiron in the 4th, and also in opposition with my progressed Sun/Venus in the 1st. that does explain something!

posted October 19, 2010 01:17 PM         

Ami. I've no aspect between mars and pluto.

my venus conj N.N conj mars trine saturn.

My merk conj uranus conj kaali conj pluto. Yes I see my word sting and often I see after a while how it looks like. That's because english not my mother tongue.

The strongest in my chart are my Sun conj AC in leo conj Draco karma Sun conj AC also in exact parallel.

My next strongest are my saturn in house 8 in pisces. I think I've aspect from almost everything in my chart to saturn.