posted July 10, 2013 05:16 PM            

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Originally posted by GrlyGirl20:
Hey,

I've had this aspect (as the Conjunction) both ways. Where I am the Venus or the Moon. In all three cases (two where their Venus Cap was Conjunct my Moon in Cap. One of those guys Cap Rising was also Conjuct my Moon...I ADORED him completely, and if you read any of my posts I found it VERY VERY difficult to get over the Aqua that had this placement. Currently I'm very into a Cap who his Sun and Venus is Conjunct my Moon...and it's proving to be difficult to get him to be loving towards me...his Venus is ALSO Conjunct Saturn/Uranus/AND Neptune lol), and the other was my Venus in Taurus Conjunct his Moon in Taurus (he was a Virgo)...all three I have been romantically interested in...however only the one with the Asc Conjunction actually became something.

Basically overall I just LOVE being around them...and no matter how bad things get I just can't stay mad at them at all...plus in all three circumstances being phycially close was something that I loved...being affectionate or even being loving towards them was impossible to avoid. And generally we tended to be affectionate...the Virgo because it was in Taurus...and we LOVE touch lol...the Cap because obviously he was my ex...but so far with the current Cap we've only touched a few times...and the few times we have touched I've almost melted lol.

I have more experience with this aspect, and have to say overall it is a VERY sweet, and lovely placement...however for me it makes it impossible for me to stop caring. I am a Cancer so being the Moon is easiest for me, plus I think that my Cancer stuff opposes the guys Venus so I end up being somewhat an ideal/anti ideal lol. I could answer more questions if you have them.

GG

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Yes, I had the same synastry only in reverse. With this guy he has cap in moon, mars, neptune, and 10th house and I have cap in sun, mercury, venus, neptune and the 5th house. I can say that it did take me years to realize he had a secret crush on me for about 8 years (I'm assuming that's the moon shyness). I haven't seen him since high school and finally one day I just felt like catching up with him. Now I can say even if I feel like giving him a head massage, he looks as if he is in heaven and is about to melt into my palm (as girlygirl20 stated). We hardly have disagreements or have the pettiness that you would otherwise have in most other relationships. When we do hang out, we both feel comfortable with just cuddling and watching a movie. I'm not so sure about the forgiveness factor, but then I've never seen him disappointed or upset at me.

On another note, he also has Scorpio in Pluto and 8th house and I have Scorpio in mars, Pluto, and 4th. I have 8th house in Aries in his mercury and ascendant. Whenever we do talk, it is normally about deeper things that include death, sex or blood. I do have a few funny stories and it makes him act very peculiar when it comes to me lol. One time I went to his job with some friends to grab drinks. Unfortunately my friend and her boyfriend had an argument in the car with me about their sex life (really awkward) before we got to his job. By the time we sat down, my friend had to walk outside to get some air because she had been drinking too much and couldn't handle it. Good thing my boyfriends sister works there too, she saw something was wrong and inquired about it. I told her what had happened and I just left without say goodbye. Right after I left, he told me he was trying to hunt me down and just say hi. He went up to his sister and asked about what happened to me.

Another time, I went there to eat mid afternoon. He sees me when comes in for his shift, he immediately tells my server that he will take over my check and take care of me. This is without me knowing until I inquired about it to him.