posted October 17, 2010 10:29 AM            

would anyone like to share their experiences with this aspect? or any aspect between these planets in romantic synastry? (COnjunct, square, opposition, trine, sextile)

posted October 17, 2010 11:25 AM            

I've had this aspect (as the Conjunction) both ways. Where I am the Venus or the Moon. In all three cases (two where their Venus Cap was Conjunct my Moon in Cap. One of those guys Cap Rising was also Conjuct my Moon...I ADORED him completely, and if you read any of my posts I found it VERY VERY difficult to get over the Aqua that had this placement. Currently I'm very into a Cap who his Sun and Venus is Conjunct my Moon...and it's proving to be difficult to get him to be loving towards me...his Venus is ALSO Conjunct Saturn/Uranus/AND Neptune lol), and the other was my Venus in Taurus Conjunct his Moon in Taurus (he was a Virgo)...all three I have been romantically interested in...however only the one with the Asc Conjunction actually became something.

Basically overall I just LOVE being around them...and no matter how bad things get I just can't stay mad at them at all...plus in all three circumstances being phycially close was something that I loved...being affectionate or even being loving towards them was impossible to avoid. And generally we tended to be affectionate...the Virgo because it was in Taurus...and we LOVE touch lol...the Cap because obviously he was my ex...but so far with the current Cap we've only touched a few times...and the few times we have touched I've almost melted lol.

I have more experience with this aspect, and have to say overall it is a VERY sweet, and lovely placement...however for me it makes it impossible for me to stop caring. I am a Cancer so being the Moon is easiest for me, plus I think that my Cancer stuff opposes the guys Venus so I end up being somewhat an ideal/anti ideal lol. I could answer more questions if you have them.

posted October 17, 2010 02:25 PM            

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We have a sweet closeness with each other. It is a very loving aspect. We care about each other deeply.

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posted October 17, 2010 03:07 PM            

dolphin, i can certainly relate, as we have the mutal reception/dw aspect as you do - even the same way round,

her Venus in Aries Conjunct my Moon in Aries

her Moon in Capricorn (28/29th/critical degree? 0 orb Aqua maybe) is trine my venus in Libra.

we don't have a Sun-Moon conjunction though (that is sweet ontop of moon venus i would imagine!)

her Sun is conjunct my NN and both rest in my 7th house. her sun tightly opposes my sun (my sun is conjunct my southnode)

we also have Venus-Opposition Venus,

and the marriage thing is definitely strong in ours, cardinally it is strong.. because we have this moon-venus aspect double whammy, but we also have Saturn-Square-Venus double whammy! the marriage-long term desire is STRONG.

my saturn conjuncts her DSC also, and her saturn trines my Sun!

our DSC rulers are conjunct EXACT.

seems to be some cardinal -ping-pong thing going on between all the cardinal planets except mars (venus/moon/saturn all aspecting eachother except for saturn-moon aspects)

our venus-venus opposition is tied by our saturns squaring them each, and our moons aspect eachothers venus mutually (though her venus is conjunct my moon which is the stronger aspect, by 1 orb, the trine is 3-4 orb.)

there is the dsc rulers conjunct exact, and also the MC rulers trine by 1 orb.

posted October 17, 2010 07:31 PM            

I share the same thing with my significant other half in scorpio .. me being the moon though not the venus ..

So my question is what does your partner the moon in scorpio do to you to make you feel the way you do ... maybe I can learn from him lol .. thanks!

posted October 18, 2010 06:06 AM            

I agree on this...although I will add and say that I think Venus when in this aspect loves the attention they get from the Moon, almost to a territorial extent. Looking at the guys with Cap Venus that I had dealt with tended to not take me showing affection or attention elsewhere well if at all lol...even the Aqua who had some emotional placements as well didn't really take well to me dealing with other people. I also noticed this with me being the Venus, and my Virgo guy friend being the Moon. I really got hurt when he focused on someone else lol. Its actually quite horrible haha.

I think Venus is at its best being loving and loving the other person, and when the Moon does ebb and flow (ie show attention else where even if for a little bit) it can cause a very hurt Venus who needs to be loved. So they may turn else where to seek attention, while this creates a very hurt Moon.

posted October 19, 2010 07:25 AM            

I would deff say there is a pull...you guys would have an affinity. I know some people would say you wouldn't feel it persay...but based on my own experience (a friend had a 3 degrees Cap Venus...and I have a 24 deg Cap Moon) I still felt that and it was quite strong. But based on who you ask they might tell you something differently.

"Just another reason to want Moon or Venus in Taurus...LOL. It just doesn't feel as nice when its in Virgo or Gemini. Or what I mean to say is that its all nice at first, but then it turns real critical/hypersensitive. That's alright, I'll just settle for the trine."

Lol I agree, Moon and Venus in Taurus is LOVELY...but then again I'm kinda biased haha. Even relating to other ppl with Cap/or Virgo they wonder how is it possible I can be so simplistic about so many things lol.

It kinda sucks though because so many times I would LOVE to be a typical Cap Moon and even be obsessed with hard work or staying productive, and be a task master, but most of the time I tend to act like my Venus and prefer being comfortable...and getting to things eventually haha...doing things when I want to do them...and being VERY VERY VERY SLOW to get angry and finally be done with someone. So BM I actually love the Virgo ability to be decisive, act quickly, and want to get things done. My Aqua ex with Virgo Moon used to get soooo angry at me for not having to stay productive...and he would claim up and down I'm lazy. And of course I would come back with he's just critical, and needs to chill out. Then he would come back with the typical Virgo response of if he didn't do it, it wouldn't get done. So I deff would love to be the type to stay busy a good chunk of the time.

"In synastry the conjunction of Venus-Moon makes both people feel like they want to be married - yes - married, marriage, matrimony, bride-groom, both for the man and the woman, the whole shabang. It's not a guarantee but the feeling is there strongly."

posted October 19, 2010 03:29 PM            

Moon admires the looks of Venus, maybe like a child would with a doll, seeing them as needing care and special handling, something very precious. And Moon admires any artwork of Venus too, the way they decorate, etc. because Moon will feel nurtured by it, it will seem like the perfect song or environment, it will feel simpatico to the Moon, like being back in the womb, completely safe.

posted October 19, 2010 07:35 PM            

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It kinda sucks though because so many times I would LOVE to be a typical Cap Moon and even be obsessed with hard work or staying productive, and be a task master, but most of the time I tend to act like my Venus and prefer being comfortable...and getting to things eventually haha...doing things when I want to do them...and being VERY VERY VERY SLOW to get angry and finally be done with someone. So BM I actually love the Virgo ability to be decisive, act quickly, and want to get things done. My Aqua ex with Virgo Moon used to get soooo angry at me for not having to stay productive...and he would claim up and down I'm lazy. And of course I would come back with he's just critical, and needs to chill out. Then he would come back with the typical Virgo response of if he didn't do it, it wouldn't get done. So I deff would love to be the type to stay busy a good chunk of the time.

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My issue is that Virgo Venuses are critical about the shallowest crap (eg. 'why didn't she lose weight for the wedding?') and Gemini Moons are so flippant about certain things that its a complete turn-off. The funny thing is that its always very nice and admiring in the beginning ('Oh, you're so pretty and blah blah blah), but when the good feelings wear off....its not so nice anymore. I guess its that constant conflict between my Moon and Venus. I like Taurean placements alot (especially Venus)....must be the trine to my Moon?

posted December 02, 2010 08:25 PM            

He has moon in Pisces. I have Venus in Pisces.

We both have sun and Mercury in Aquarius.

I was actually engaged when I met him, but have since ended my 8 yr relationship. I've never had an attraction like this before. We've communicatec via email since meeting and were going to get together but he backed out. It feels so fated and once in a lifetime.

I don't know what these aspects are called but I am so curious I've never met anyone with a chart like this!

posted December 03, 2010 08:24 AM            

Its a VERY beautiful aspect to have with a person. On top of what everyone else has said here already, I feel it is also the aspect of forgiveness. No matter what happened, I could not stay mad at her and vice versa. Better yet, it was very hard for me to get mad at her and vice versa. We are still friends to this day.

Mind you, we also had other harmonious aspects too like and exact sun trine sun and sun trine mercury and mercury trine mercury so I'm sure that helped.

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc