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Topic: I think I'm becoming a Cougar... GRrrr
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Unmoved
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posted October 18, 2010 06:10 PM
 
MVM  Classic. Your parents probably thought you were having a quarter life crisis. Hehehe nice one! FrozenQueen - Your post got me laughing. Haha. I don't personally think I'm old, but I might be relatively older that some people. Anyway, I don't care anymore. I'm cured from yesterday's issue. MVM - That's interesting, what you're saying about finally getting comfortable with my own sexuality and how younger men feel it because aren't younger men getting into their sexual peak in their early 20s as we women enter our sexual peak in our mid-thirties? So, maybe biologically, we can smell those who can satisfy us.  I think it makes sense as far as nature is concerned. But society is still treating the women being older than a man as taboo. Hmmm... IP: Logged |
ScorpioSMR
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posted October 18, 2010 06:13 PM
Hello Unmoved,
I agree, Have some fun with him.
I'm 28, but have never been with someone younger than me. I mostly find myself with older women who are at least 20 years older than me. Some have been around 60. I am more comfortable in that area.
If it excites you and you like it, Go for it!
A~------------------
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Unmoved
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posted October 18, 2010 06:14 PM
Thank you DD. IP: Logged |
Unmoved
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posted October 18, 2010 06:23 PM
ScorpioSMR - thank you for yet another testimony that age aint nothing but a number, right? IP: Logged |
bunnies
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posted October 18, 2010 06:25 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nRIDftLzBxE&feature=related This is Aaron Johnson (19) who starred in the film Nowhere Boy playing a young John Lennon. He also was in the major film Kick Ass.
Sam Taylor-Wood (43) was the director on Nowhere Boy.
Apparently according to them both, he pursued her relentlessly until she agreed to go out with him. They now have a baby daughter born in the summer and are getting married.
He appears to adore her. Why not? She is talented and smart, courageous (has had cancer)and attractive.
I am a great believer that if happiness strikes don't send it packing. Just enjoy it! IP: Logged |
AbsintheDragonfly
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From: Gaia
Registered: Apr 2010
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posted October 18, 2010 06:26 PM
Smell is the most visceral and powerful of our senses.  Those woman smells are most powerful when we start towards our "peak" because we're supposed to be having hot sex lots so we can pass on our genetics! You think you get attention of young men now, love, wait until you are 5-8 years from now! You're going to have to have pepper spray to keep them off of you! More Love Fest!!!  IP: Logged |
meta_4
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posted October 18, 2010 06:39 PM
Umm, ok, here's the plan:A) You throw out your current Jiminy Cricket out on his arse because he's obviously doing a terrible job at being your conscience. 2) You GET OFF OF LINDALAND, hop in your car, speed (safely, of course) over to this lucky boy's house and have your way with him right there on the doorstep. Neighbors? Who cares? Free show for them. They don't have to waste $3.99 on Pay Per View. They can thank you both with a casserole. C) You GET OFF OF LOVERBOY, hop in your car, speed (safely, again) back to your place, get on LL, and tell all of us the dirty, juicy details. Period.  IP: Logged |
DD
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posted October 18, 2010 06:41 PM
Meta,you`re priceless. IP: Logged |
Unmoved
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posted October 18, 2010 06:43 PM
bunnies- That's an interesting one! Wow. I like. Abs - pepper spray. Love fest IP: Logged |
Unmoved
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posted October 18, 2010 06:47 PM
meta4 - Hilarious. I'll see him tomorrow most likely. IP: Logged |
AbsintheDragonfly
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posted October 18, 2010 07:22 PM
Want details Missy!!!IP: Logged |
LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schr�dinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion!
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posted October 18, 2010 07:50 PM
Unmoved!
Thank you!
I feel younger now and more sure of myself than when I was younger, like 18 even.
I felt very old inside, even as a child.
However for at least the last 13 years or so I have been feeling younger than when I was in my 20s and 30s and 40s.
Not sure why I "feel" younger, but it is wonderful!
Now to get my body to agree with my psyche and self image!  ------------------
Everyone is a teacher...
Everyone is a student...
Learning is eternal...LEXX
~Somewhere, something incredible is waiting to be known. ~Carl Sagan
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LEXX
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posted October 18, 2010 07:57 PM
ScorpioSMR  
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Hello Unmoved,
I agree, Have some fun with him.
I'm 28, but have never been with someone younger than me. I mostly find myself with older women who are at least 20 years older than me. Some have been around 60. I am more comfortable in that area.
If it excites you and you like it, Go for it!
A~
I know of personally several men your age and younger who feel that way.
I see nothing wrong with such age gaps! Unmoved! As ScorpioSMR,
myself, and others have said...
go for it!
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GypseeWind
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From: Dayton,Ohio USA
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posted October 19, 2010 03:20 AM
You'll be singing "I've Had The Time of My Life" just like in Dirty Dancing afterwards, I swear!!!
Meta, LMAO, is that all one needs to do to get a caserole? In that case, I'm owed several!!
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meta_4
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posted October 19, 2010 06:12 AM
Gypsee, Did you get my dish? I thought I would be unconventional and bake you a quiche instead. Seems fitting after the romp I witnessed! Unmoved, As for you, my sweet lady, remember: No Glove, No Love. He may very well be the reincarnation of Adonis himself, but if he doesn't have on a life-jacket, thou shalt not go swimming! Wow... so much for all of that abstinence education they taught me... I feel like Dr. Sue. IP: Logged |
Unmoved
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posted October 19, 2010 11:23 AM
Well, it would seem as if I won't see him before I leave town. I'm leaving in a few hours for a couple of weeks. The timing is just not in sync at all. I think it's Venus Rx saying hello. Even now, we have been trying to call each other and if it's not my phone doing something weird, it's his. I think the Universe is saying, "Slow your roll, you two." So, I'm just trying to embrace these circumstances preventing our meeting. I'll see him when I get back, I guess. It's all disappointing but when certain things happen that seem beyond my control, I usually sit back and wait instead of forcing issues. Although it seems like bad timing from my current perspective, it might just be perfect timing instead. So, I'll be at peace with what is, right now and leave it at that. Oh, but I wanted to see him badly. Lol. Oh well. IP: Logged |
meta_4
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posted October 19, 2010 11:52 AM
Unmoved,That's the same way I am. When I try something, and obstacles pop up, it makes me realize that there's a REASON behind the delays. Something isn't right. And I have to accept that it's happening for a good reason. The Universe is telling me something. Of course this doesn't make me feel any better about being delayed or not getting what I want. I'm sure it's not making YOU feel any better, considering you have all this gushing support to go for it! But! ... when you come back, if there's still a window of opportunity, you know that you're on the right track. Have fun on your trip, be safe, and stay positive. IP: Logged |
Unmoved
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posted October 19, 2010 11:56 AM
Thanks meta4 IP: Logged |
DD
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posted October 19, 2010 12:10 PM
"When I try something, and obstacles pop up, it makes me realize that there's a REASON behind the delays. Something isn't right. And I have to accept that it's happening for a good reason. The Universe is telling me something."Absolutely agree.
On the other hand: if seemingly very unlikely events take place, does it mean there is a purpose to them, too?
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Ami Anne
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posted October 19, 2010 12:13 PM
Yes, DD
I think you can PUSH against events and maybe "get" them but you will pay for that,IME.------------------
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Unmoved
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posted October 19, 2010 12:27 PM
Personally, with this situation something's telling me not to push. I believe if you push and the Universe is telling you NO, you're asking for trouble or for the longest route to getting where you need to get. You're just complicating your life if you go against the tides of the Universe. As meta said, it's not fun to surrender but it must be done for a smoother, faster evolution through this realm. Those who push are people who prefer hard work over smart work. I prefer the latter. I think I know why it's happening too, which makes things easier for me to let things be. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted October 19, 2010 12:36 PM
Yes, I pushed against the Universe for one relationship.
I paid in spades. I won't do it ,again.I trust that God wants the best for me. He wants me to have love. He will work out things and let me know the way.
I feel certain of that.
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meta_4
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posted October 19, 2010 02:22 PM
Well, then again, I think that you CAN push and push and get what you want. I think there are situations in which you are required to accept things the way they are, and situation in which you are required to fight for what you want. It takes a skilled eye to differentiate.If I go for a job in the film industry, and don't "get in" that doesn't mean the Universe is telling me it's not my path and I should do something else. It takes persistence. But if EVERY time I go to apply for the job something gets misconstrued, paperwork is lost, there is confusion here and there and everywhere, maybe I should sit back and think a bit. Like Unmoved said, she can tell that this issue doesn't need pushing. It's all subjective-- whether to push or not. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted October 19, 2010 02:31 PM
Yes, Meta, you have to discern the signs, for sure ------------------
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Unmoved
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posted October 20, 2010 03:06 AM
We didn't meet, but we are both okay with it. We can't wait for my return. He wrote a song and dedicated it to me. Ha. Then he said that he can't wait to show me that he is a man! *fans myself. Hot!* I can't divulge the exact wording of our conversation but this guy is more confident than any guy I've ever interacted with on this level. Lol. He even said that he bets a lot of guys get intimidated by me, and that he was too, but he didn't allow that to stop him. Wow. Then, in a distant, reminiscent voice he said that when he first saw me, he wished but never thought he'd be talking to me in the current capacity. Aqua AC ROCKS!
Gem Sun Rocks!
Taurus Merc Rocks!
Taurus Venus Rocks!
Aries Mars Rocks!
Cancer Jupiter Rocks! Ok, I'm biased. IP: Logged |
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