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Topic: I think I'm becoming a Cougar... GRrrr
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Unmoved
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posted October 17, 2010 07:19 PM
 
He was born in 1990 for crying out loud. 1990! This makes him 20 although he says that he is 21. Good God. I never thought that, I, of all people, would find myself in this mess. Don't worry. I haven't so much as breathed near him, but he wants me and he is not giving up, he said. He has the body of a god, what with Mars in Aries. His Venus falls in my 7th conjunct my DC, and his Mercury is also in my 7th. His Sun falls in my 8th. And, oh my! My Sun and Venus fall in his 8th. My prejudices and values are being tested beyond any level I have ever imagined. To make things worse, his mother introduced herself to me the other day. So, I'm feeling like a pedophile. He even jokes and says he won't press charges, and calls himself my personal Ashton.  All I can do now is avoid him. He has strong Aqua with his AC and his NN there. Is this tScorpio Rx in my n1st at work? Is this tPluto loosely trine my nVenus (3) at work? Edit: he and everyone around him thought I was 24. But I'm obviously not. :/ IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted October 17, 2010 07:29 PM
What's the big deal? Just enjoy it. I could sit there and say astrology but you know, it's probably got more to do with being more comfortable in your sexuality since that attracts all ages lol.As for 'younger', the culprit is usually Mercury, maybe even Saturn (rules time). Not Pluto. I guess I do not share the same age prejudice since I just don't care - you're either mature or you're not, and age doesn't define that. It does not. My mom is 8 years older than my dad. My aunt married a guy 15 years younger. Seriously, just enjoy please? I had a thing going with a guy younger than my own brother - 19 for god's sake! I was 35! You think I care ? Hell no! Who cares what people say? The only person in the end who is being judgmental is you toward him and toward your self. IP: Logged |
Unmoved
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posted October 17, 2010 07:44 PM
My heart and body are saying, "yes, enjoy as MVM said". Then some other part of me, my mind and/or ego says he's too young. It's not right. Right according to whom? I don't know. According to "normal" adult/child interaction. But, he is awfully mature, or I'm awfully immature, but we meet in the middle. I honestly don't see what's wrong with it other than maybe I might corrupt him, although the truth is, he'd corrupt me by what I've seen of him. I just wanted to check if with you guys whether I'm crossing a line that I might not see. God, he is gorgeous. Sigh. It's his mother I fear too. She's probably only 12 yrs older than me. Lol. *shakes head* tSaturn is currently in my 12th house. tMercury too. tMercury is conjunct my nPluto or thereabout. My nPluto is conjunct his nMC. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted October 17, 2010 07:46 PM
So are you into him or what, Unmoved? I guess I am confused about what the issue is here, because there's nothing wrong with someone digging on you, whatever your age. You're a hottie, so it's not surprising  IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted October 17, 2010 07:46 PM
Oops, you answered...! We were typing at the same time.IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted October 17, 2010 07:51 PM
Well, but if it's just about enjoyment, then you can take the maturity part out of it  I have Merc conjunct my 7th house ruler and also have a lot of Saturn in general. I always have attracted either much younger or much younger people though my long term relationships were with others my age (no more than a 2 year difference). I personally only look at stuff like this if it's a recurring theme, as in, you're attracting a lot of younger men or whatever...that would show up. But if this is the first time or whatever, it might not have anything to do with age at all as far as transits. It's just new love or love interest, something Venus or Mars oriented. Why do you fear his mother? Has she copped an attitude, or are you just like scared of her reaction?
Because I don't think you're crossing a line. He might be young, but he's an adult. Unless his mom is all hands-off with you.... I would then say make sure you're madly in love with him. But it doesn't sound like she minds. IP: Logged |
Unmoved
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posted October 17, 2010 07:55 PM
Oh, MVM, your kind words are treating me good right now. And, it takes one to know one because you, my dear are Isis incarnate, my darling. Good, god almighty, that boy makes me lose control. So, I'm most definitely into him. In his words, he's got me sprung. Lol. his nSaturn is conjunct my IC
his nVenus is conjunct my DC We laugh a lot. He loves how he can make me laugh.  IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted October 17, 2010 08:04 PM
All I can say is YOU GO GIRL!IP: Logged |
Unmoved
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posted October 17, 2010 08:05 PM
The mother has been incredibly nice to me. Too nice. She's a singer. So is he. We all met at the recording studio. She insisted we do a song together and he couldn't be happier. He called me today to ask when we are meeting. I told him I'll let him know because I have to leave town for two weeks. Anyway, this is not a theme at all in my life. I've never dated or even kissed someone that young. A year younger, I've dated but that was also once. He told me that he was attracted to me from day 1 and has been trying to get me to notice him ever since. Then one day, at the studio, he suprised me when he started to talk some deep knowledge and understanding of esoteric practices and spirituality. Then I looked up and finally noticed him. so, he's been scheming ever since we met, which is like 2 months ago. I like that. IP: Logged |
seeleah
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posted October 17, 2010 08:08 PM
unmoved....all I got to say for you is... IP: Logged |
Unmoved
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posted October 17, 2010 08:12 PM
MVM - I just read the bit about you and the 19yr old. This is golden info. I'm going to enjoy this. I don't care what anybody else says now. I'll deal with the mother when I cross that bridge. yay. thank you, MyVirgoMask  thanks Lioness IP: Logged |
Unmoved
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posted October 17, 2010 08:15 PM
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LEXX
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posted October 17, 2010 08:15 PM
He's over 18.....go for it! 
Enjoy!
As you know my partner is 15 years younger.
My 2nd.ex was 15 1/2 years younger (I was 33 to his 18 at the time) and in between him and my partner of now.....I was involved for a short time with handsome fellows 20 to 24 years younger.
And I was heavier than now and more disabled, but it still happened.
As you know, my relationship is unusual.
So.....if the opportunity presented itself again, and was not simply a sexual thing, I would give it serious consideration.
LOL! Guys from early 20s to 60s are still hitting on me for fwb sexual encounters! But not interested in just that nowadays...been there, done that....fun but I want more.
My best lady friend (she died years ago)
had a lover when she was 69 to 74.
He was 19 to 24.
The only reason it ended was because he was killed in a motorcycle accident.
And she had been wheelchair bound since she was age 14!
YOU ARE YOUNG AND BEAUTIFUL LADY V!
If he really seems interested......
give him a try.
What have you got to lose?
LOL!
Liz Taylor married a guy 29 years younger!
Good luck!
Men have been getting involved with much younger women for a long time!
Time for women to do so too!
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LEXX
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posted October 17, 2010 08:24 PM
And his mother likes you too!  IP: Logged |
Unmoved
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posted October 17, 2010 08:39 PM
Thanks LEXX
I'm definitely going to treat him like any man I've ever been attracted to. his mother likes me, sure... But for how long will she like me? Lol. IP: Logged |
AbsintheDragonfly
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posted October 17, 2010 08:45 PM
You Go for it!!! Why the hell not? He's an adult, and it's not hurting anyone.IP: Logged |
LEXX
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posted October 17, 2010 08:51 PM
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Thanks LEXX
I'm definitely going to treat him like any man I've ever been attracted to.
I have noticed people seem to often mature in some ways sooner these days.
Young adults are not unworldly as they were before the internet and all.
He is a man, not a boy.
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his mother likes me, sure... But for how long will she like me? Lol.
As long as he is not the mama's boy type, there should not be a problem.
It is him you want in the big picture, not her.
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MyVirgoMask
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posted October 17, 2010 08:56 PM
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LEXX
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posted October 17, 2010 09:01 PM
Advice many an elderly woman has given me.....
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Enjoy it while it lasts!
It may not last, and then again it may last a long long time!
NEVER PASS UP A REAL CHANCE AT LOVE!
If you pass on such a potential chance at love;
you will regret it,
and wonder for the rest of your life...
"what if I had taken the chance?"
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LEXX
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posted October 17, 2010 09:03 PM
This is a very good sign!
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We laugh a lot. He loves how he can make me laugh.
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Unmoved
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posted October 17, 2010 09:19 PM
That is exactly what Zala said too, LEXX. So, coming from both of you, it must be good advice. I agree too, I can't be afraid and then miss my chance at short or long term happiness. Abs - I'm not going to hold back. I'll treat the interactions like any other. so, I'm going for it. happy sigh IP: Logged |
LEXX
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posted October 17, 2010 09:26 PM
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jane
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posted October 17, 2010 10:16 PM
Unmoved - quote:
Good, god almighty, that boy makes me lose control. So, I'm most definitely into him.
Ahh yeah!  This is a beautiful thing. Seriously. It brings a tear to my Sco Asc eyes. quote:
My prejudices and values are being tested beyond any level I have ever imagined.
When I was older than you, I had a thing with a 20 year old. A female one, at that. I had similar qualms beforehand but eventually put them in my Prejudice Pipe and smoked 'em. I strongly advise you do the same! Your 7th house ruler is in Virgo (Mercury = youth) square Uranus. This could end up being more than a fling. And even if it doesn't, a hot fling is nothing to be ungrateful for, young lady! IP: Logged |
jane
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posted October 17, 2010 10:18 PM
MVM -  Fabulous to see you! It's the Cougar thread, right? Lured you back. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted October 17, 2010 11:34 PM
Jane... Raaawwrrrr...that's all I can say IP: Logged |
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