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posted November 06, 2010 10:30 AM         

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i have, not during but after... only if something went horribly wrong though
i try to hide it so most of the time they dont know how miserable i felt

and i cry when i get really mad or deliriously happy, its like my body cant take it and tears come out. not like bawling but yeahh.

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posted November 06, 2010 11:03 AM         

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I generally don't cry ever but if a man can move me to tears through love and beauty whilst we're doing it then I know I've hit the jackpot,

i've cried through misery whilst I've been doing it too but in day to day life I don't cry, my ex saw me cry 3 times in 5 years!

I have sat in cancer in the 8th, wonder if that has something to do with it?

A friend of mine has nep in scorp in 8th and she cries too if it's amazing

lol@cynnared

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posted November 06, 2010 10:18 PM         

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Well, I disagree with Spanky about crying being for wimps; it takes a real man to be moved to tears and not to be afraid to cry; however, this doesn't mean crying all the time. Indeed, that would be wimpy. And crying during intimacy is probably one of those inappropriate times. What if a guy did cry during sex? How would you ladies react? A woman wants a real man, not a wuss. A real man is strong and decisive but also attentive and protective...and just sensitive enough to show his heart to his woman without showing weakness to the rerst of the world. There's nothing wrong with a guy crying in front of his woman--as long as it isn't a frequent occurance. A girl doesn't want her guy to be too sensitive. Some girls may disagree, and certainly there are exceptions, but by and far the majority of women are naturally submissive in the bedroom. To complement that, women crave a dominant man. Now, I don't mean whips and chains domination--just a man who takes charge, who doesn't ask if something is okay (which destroys the mood almost instantly) but instead just does it (as in different positions). Likewise, a woman hates silence during sex. Guys just don't get it. A woman wants to be told what to do (in bed, not in life), gently guided, and yes--even if she is the preacher's daughter--girls love dirty talk (not to be confused with demeaning talk). So, a guy crying during sex just translates into a girl's worst nightmare...a complete wuss who is also likely to be whiney, clingy, and have a bad case of "whatever-you-want-dear-itis." Girls want a guy with a spine, and what often happens is that they go through the bad boy phase and make the same mistake a few times before settling on a good provider "nice guy" type to marry, and before long they are bored in bed and either remain unfulfilled for years or cheat (with the bad boy again). There are certainly times for "making love," but typically a woman wants to be "taken" with reckless abandon by a dominant take-charge man who is attentive and very verbal. Usually, the choice is between only two extremes: the nice wuss who is a good provider or the bad boy who understands the dynamic she desires in the bedroom but is often selfish, self-centered, and verbally abusive (or worse). The bad boy is assertive and dominant in bed, although he is usually a complete tool in all other social situations. Plus, unlike his boring counterpart, the bad boy is unpredictable (bordering on dangerous), doesn't require attention, because he's only concerned with himself (so he isn't clingy or needy at all and causes women to long to get his attention). So, there are typically only two extreme choices for a woman. It's tough being a chick! Let's examine the statistics. Around 50 percent of women have never had an orgasm--ever. Of the 50 percent who have, 75 percent have only done so alone--not with a partner. Of the 25 percent who orgasm with a partner 23 percent of them only have clitoral orgasms (and usually not through intercourse). That leaves only 2 percent of them (or 1 percent of ALL women) who have ever had a vaginal orgasm. And this is almost exclusively something in which men are solely to blame. The largest sexual organ for a female is the brain. The blockages to orgasms are also in the brain. It's up to us guys to be direct and take responsibility for pleasing our women. The ideal man is a nice guy in most situations (but not TOO nice), but is a bad boy in the bedroom. And bad boys don't cry during sex. Ever. But if a guy gives a girl a total-body multiple vaginal orgasm, she often will laugh uncontrollably, cry uncontrollably, scream, sob, shake, and thrash about. And if the guy is doing his job, she won't ever have a "headache." If a woman is getting satisfied, she will want intimacy more than the guy! Most women are very sexual creatures--far more sexual than men. It may not be socially acceptable to say, but it's true. And upon finding this kind of guy (a rarity nowadays), she would never cheat on him. I hope this post wasn't too explicit, but I wanted to voice my opinion. *steps off soapbox*

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posted November 06, 2010 10:40 PM         

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No, not me.
If i were a man and a woman did that to me I'd tell her we'll be sleeping in separate rooms tonight, lol.

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posted November 06, 2010 10:46 PM         

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Randall,

" Around 50 percent of women have never had an orgasm--ever."

Are we talking about grown women in the Western world here?
I disagree.

If we're talking world-wide then, yea, it's possible, maybe 30%

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posted November 06, 2010 10:51 PM         

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It's according to several independent US surveys. The surveys are anonymous, and these are admissions from the women themselves. I have no way of knowing for sure, but I would say that since the 50 percent figure seems to be consistent and is anonymously gathered, it seems to be fairly on mark. Even 25 percent is too high.

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posted November 06, 2010 10:58 PM         

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I wonder when the study was conducted...they're probably of the older generations.

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posted November 06, 2010 10:59 PM         

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I wouldn't want someone sobbing on me everytime, but that one time was really nice because we both mutually cried at the same time, it was like some sort of barrier had been broken, and we became our real authentic selves. This was in the very beginning.
And, I think a man should alternately take charge, AND also be submissive, it depends on the mood and the atmosphere, etc..
Otherwise if he AlWAYS took charge, then I would know what to expect, and possibly get bored.
It's the dreaded routine thing that makes women get a 'headache', at least that is so in my case, or the expectancy of sex.
Like when a man thinks that every night we are going to bed at 11 pm and then we will have sex.
NO, it should be spontaneous.

The man that gives you the vaginal orgasm is the one you probably will never forget.
I also disagree on the statistics, because alot of people don't talk about things like this, so I'm always suspicious of sexual statistics.

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posted November 06, 2010 11:03 PM         

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posted November 06, 2010 11:17 PM         

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I think that a modestly high percentage of women do have trouble reaching orgasm. Just gathering that from girls I have dated who were open and honest with me early on. Or maybe I just attract those types?

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posted November 06, 2010 11:25 PM         

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My opinion on that is an age factor.
NOT saying that it's true across the board, but it seems like for me and alot of my friends sex is alot better when you a little bit older.
Something about age makes you lose alot of inhibitions.
Plus the good ole' sexual peak thing.

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posted November 06, 2010 11:26 PM         

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