posted November 15, 2010 12:59 AM         

My husband is an Aries-Leo-Leo
I'm Scorpio-Virgo-Gemini/Cancer

My Boda is in his 8th house
His Boda is in my 7th house

We have Moon trine Boda
Mars trine Boda
Neptune Sesqui Boda
Boda square Boda

My boyfriend(it's a long story)has Boda Cancer 11th house

He's Leo-Leo-Virgo

His Boda is in my 1st house
My Boda is in his 8th house

We have Sun trine Boda
Moon trine Boda
Mercury trine Boda
Pluto Biquintile Boda
NN sesqui Boda
BML trine Boda
Boda square Boda

His Wife's Boda is in Libra 9th house

She's Capricorn-Cancer-Capricorn

They have Sun Opp Boda
Mars Square Boda
NN trine Boda
Boda square Boda

posted November 15, 2010 12:38 PM         

my parents have it perfectly aligned:

dadīs groom cj my mothers vertex
momīs briede and venus cj my dadīs venus
momīs DSC cj dadīs BODA
momīs BODA cj dadīs Jupiter
momīs groom cj dadīs vertex - GOSH THIS IS A DW!Very powerful!

momīs Boda trine dadīs vertex!

draconic

dadīs groom cj momīs valentine
moms grrom cj dadīs bried wide

Me and John

DRACONIC

my pholus/groom cj his karma
my boda cj his asc
my briede cj his ic
his boda trine my sun/my boda sextil his sun

and as im sure weīll marry when timeīs right:

my groom cj his MC
his victoria cj my dsc
his Boda cj my moon
his briede cj my MC - might be seen as a dw
my briede cj his venus
his groom in GC cj my Neptune
his Boda trine my briede
my briede trine his jupiter

COMPOSITE

TROPICAL BODA 18Gemini cj AMOR

trine vertex/groom and...sextile Briede.

CONjUNCT wide karma and tight Angel

what i love most to see is that COMPOSITE BODA cj Johns natal Valentine.

and Composite BODA cj my natal NN/PF/Vesta

DRACO BODA - oposes John trop.(and conjunct his Pair Fortune) Amor and..cj my tropical Amor!

posted November 15, 2010 01:30 PM         

My Boda conjunct his Pallas
His Boda conjunct my Karma

With my guy now:

posted November 15, 2010 01:54 PM         

its interesting to see that with both you had pallas associated to Boda.

well it shows that with the 1st it was a karmic thing but with your SM now is actually tied with emotions,and committment.

posted November 15, 2010 02:04 PM         

"Yeah if you look hard enough you can find anything."

I think that is very thoughtworthy.

I am a bit torn on this subject. On the one hand I agree with you: Yeah, if you are looking long enough, using astronomical orbs and a dozen of different charts (sidereal, secondary, helio etc.), you can find anything.

On the other hand I have seen asteroids work very precisely (of course that is my interpretation, so probably subjective), if in very close aspects (I am talking of 2 degree orb AT MOST).
Not so much in validating if you have found a soulmate or something like that, more more in describing in vivid details the kind of a relationship.

But how to solve this tension between both perspectives (in my mind)?

Not easy.
For now I find these things important:

getting priorities straight and not mixing up the skelletton with the fleshing up.

(my top priority actually are the cardinal angles, nodal axis, Sun and Moon - period!)

The other thing for me is orbs: in my opinion (subjectivity strikes again!) astrology is a precise science. No need to use very wide orbs, important events / relationships / traits will correlate with exact or close aspects.
The only time I expand the orbs are if there are geometrical patterns, usually correlating with midpoints.

Speaking of asteroids, I DO think that every conjunction within 0-1 degree to major players will be very significant. Again - not as a validating tool, but to "flesh out the story".

Of course that is only my opinion.

posted November 16, 2010 11:55 PM         

(1 degree orb )

posted November 17, 2010 03:15 PM         

I agree with you.:-)

Sometimes people search for something and find a way to find it even if it's not really there,but...

I also believe it's important to stay open minded about new ideas.

Also, I believe it's all in a person's perspective on a matter too.

Where do you draw the line on perspective and who makes the call to draw the line?

Anyway, I'll get off my philosophical soapbox. lol!

posted November 17, 2010 06:56 PM         

Tropical Synastry:
- his Boda trine my Sun (0);
- my Boda trine his Moon (1);
- his Groom conjunct my Sun (2);
- my Briede conjunct his Moon (4);
- his Union conjunct my Groom (1);
- my Union conjunct his Briede (0);

Draconic Synastry:
- his Groom conjunct my Briede (0);
- his Boda trine my Briede (3);
- my Boda trine his Groom (2);
- his Boda trine my Boda (5);

(forms a grand trine)

Seeing these objects forming patterns makes me think that patterns formed by objects of the same theme seems relevant.