posted April 24, 2017 12:17 PM            

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Originally posted by popcorn:
Sorry, if people leave but everyone leave place, work, people and so on..

The life change!!!People who be around here will come in.,,, We have many good other astrologer in our world.

It will be interesting to see what kind of people L.L will bring into this forum in the future.

I'm sure this will be good in the end....Nothing to be afraid about. Maybee we not see the good of it now but the future will show.... Not every change are bad...

It will be new people/astrologer here after a while. Interesting to see how they think.

Sometimes we need change.

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posted April 24, 2017 03:56 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Lindaland is also "my escape from the thuderstorms of the world." It helps me put my thoughts in order and is an outlet for me.

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It used to be something like that for me. That changed for a while, about a week after this thread was posted. It became the thunderstorm (tornado-like). I didn't always feel like I fit in, but it was generally lighter for me. I would drift in and out.

posted April 24, 2017 03:59 PM            

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Originally posted by lalalinda:
Lindaland is my safe-haven, My sanctuary.
Our knowflakes are my brethren.

I think because we dissect natal charts it gives us an advantage in knowing each other.

We're not just a bulletin board where people sound off, we intimately know each other.

There are many knowflakes here who's issues and life problems have become my issues. I worry like a sister, and I've even given a few of you a wedgie.

Our Lindaland community must be protected. I suspect this is a safe haven for many of you as well.

Randall is my Guru, he is our leader, I have faith in him and I trust him.

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posted April 24, 2017 04:30 PM            

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Originally posted by popcorn:
Sorry, if people leave but everyone leave place, work, people and so on..

The life change!!!People who be around here will come in.,,, We have many good other astrologer in our world.

It will be interesting to see what kind of people L.L will bring into this forum in the future.

I'm sure this will be good in the end....Nothing to be afraid about. Maybee we not see the good of it now but the future will show.... Not every change are bad...

It will be new people/astrologer here after a while. Interesting to see how they think.

Sometimes we need change.

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posted April 24, 2017 04:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Lerena:
For me, I'm not as attached to Lindaland as some of the other members here, but I would be very disappointed if one day it wasn't here anymore. Lindaland is a very valuable resource for me to learn about astrology and interact with others that also like astrology.

I enjoy having an outlet for my astrology needs as well. Lindaland is full of people that know what I'm talking about when I discuss astrology topics. I like that.

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posted April 24, 2017 05:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
It is a community.People NEED community.People need to belong.
They need to know they matter :that someone will miss them if they are not around.

LL serves as a community when the current world has us locked away in our houses, often, alone and isolated.

Even if we are not isolated,physically,it is hard to find another heart with which we can unburden our sorrows.

LL is that to so many people.

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So why celebrate when people leave? Even though most seem to leave because it's right for them.

posted April 24, 2017 07:22 PM            

(the scum part was non-serious, it was a purposeful take on appearing a part of a diologue in a movie)

i admit i did say something non-kind with those words. but it wasnt scum. the actual thing i meant by destiny, was a future of greatness. "that kid has got a destiny before him" and so i was meaning that they didnt have that. but it's not a stretch of me to say after they said i have no life.

since they don't know me, they don't really know what their comment means. but maybe i havnt had a life for 10 years. maybe i never had a life for my entire life. then it means they disagree with and think it's "lame" (as they are criticizing it) everything i am

even though they probably just dont have a life for a few months at a time and so they meant it in a light way. but humans have a way of being attached to themselves.

maybe how i am is wrong. i understood that from the time i first got "wrong". however it seemed the only solution to my problem was death. but it seems perhaps destiny is taking me for a ride, because it seems i'm lining up with some things that have been waiting for me for 7 years,

meaning ive been on the path, being guided to these things, for all this time, even though i felt wrong, i was on destiny

so if anyone thinks my energy connection is bad, well i do too, and thought i should die from it. but i was too scared

and deep down i really like my life

but i thought that is what was best

but im learning through things that maybe everything, absolutely everything is on a path of guidance by the trillionth degree of higher conciousness.

anyway this is to say, people might not intend harm with posts. they dont know how its going to effect others. anyway i dont mind drama. i find it entertaining.

posted April 24, 2017 08:13 PM            

When you get triggered ask yourself how do I handle things when I get triggered? what place do I tend to go to? you need to change something in that cycle so you don't end up with the same results.

The things you tell yourself and the things you focus on multiple, your thoughts control your emotions and your emotions your behavior.

Now lets go back to focusing on what this thread is intended to which is to honor Lindaland and try hard to keep things positive.

posted April 24, 2017 08:19 PM            

that is how it appears

i guess the outcome of your message was to present that people should be more considerate in general

kind of defeats the purpose to bring up how ami was wrong, not very considerate.
(later i responded below.. keep the above for entertainment value, not a bad comeback, if it was in a movie or something)

but after saying this i think maybe you are neautral. not saying if she was right or wrong, but generally neautral and just curious as to why.

in that case,

apparently it's not allowed to be talked of

sorry

even if i merely say you might misunderstand her, as happens often, even just that, is enough to cause massive amounts of hatred

posted April 24, 2017 08:35 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Teasel you are in this cycle were you constantly put your attention and focus on the negative and that you just reinforces negative emotions and you then feel worse and worse and you get stuck in this vicious cycle.

When you get triggered ask yourself how do I handle things when I get triggered? what place do I tend to go to? you need to change something in that cycle so you don't end up with the same results.

The things you tell yourself and the things you focus on multiple, your thoughts control your emotions and your emotions your behavior.

Now lets go back to focusing on what this thread is intended to which is to honor Lindaland and try hard to keep things positive.

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posted April 24, 2017 08:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
YES!

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posted April 24, 2017 08:41 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Teasel you are in this cycle were you constantly put your attention and focus on the negative and that you just reinforces negative emotions and you then feel worse and worse and you get stuck in this vicious cycle.

When you get triggered ask yourself how do I handle things when I get triggered? what place do I tend to go to? you need to change something in that cycle so you don't end up with the same results.

The things you tell yourself and the things you focus on multiple, your thoughts control your emotions and your emotions your behavior.

Now lets go back to focusing on what this thread is intended to which is to honor Lindaland and try hard to keep things positive.

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posted April 25, 2017 12:01 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
My behaviour is fine. I'm not acting out, I'm relating my own experience.

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Do you find that focusing on relating experiences that have had a negative impact on your mood make you feel better or worse?

Or is that part of the cycle that feeds into your depression?

Is it possible that focusing on relating experiences that have had a positive impact on your mood will be more effective at improving your mood?

You cannot do anything about what has already happened, you can only change how the story evolves and its ending or your perception of what has happened.

ADDED LATER:

"A ‘story’ does not mean it’s not true, by the way, it just means that if it has a limiting focus, it will likely produce de-energizing or disempowering emotional states inside.

posted April 25, 2017 12:18 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
So why celebrate when people leave? Even though most seem to leave because it's right for them.

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Well, the ones who celebrated didn't like the ones who left, simple logical reason. Should it have been allowed here? probably not, but let's flush "should" down the drain for once. It looked more like an expression of relief combined with a bit of venting than a celebration, not sure about celebration but if I get steamrolled by someone for more than 6 months continuously then I'd definitely be doing the previous part ( but then again I doubt I'd let someone steamroll me for 6 months in the first place, and even if they succeeded, I'd have made few heads roll on the floor for sure).

posted April 25, 2017 12:31 AM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
It looked more like an expression of relief combined with a bit of venting than a celebration, not sure about celebration but if I get steamrolled by someone for more than 6 months continuously then I'd definitely be doing the previous part ( but then again I doubt I'd let someone steamroll me for 6 months in the first place, and even if they succeeded, I'd have made few heads roll on the floor for sure).

Anyway, neither party were saints nor am I or you, so let's move on shall we?

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posted April 25, 2017 01:52 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Do you find that focusing on relating experiences that have had a negative impact on your mood make you feel better or worse?

Or is that part of the cycle that feeds into your depression?

Is it possible that focusing on relating experiences that have had a positive impact on your mood will be more effective at improving your mood?

You cannot do anything about what has already happened, you can only change how the story evolves and its ending or your perception of what has happened.

ADDED LATER:

"A ‘story’ does not mean it’s not true, by the way, it just means that if it has a limiting focus, it will likely produce de-energizing or disempowering emotional states inside.

Your story is powerful because your sense of self-worth lives in your storyline. Your thoughts and beliefs are powerful energies that can, and do, shape your emotional responses to past events in your life, and thus have fashioned your story. Based on your conclusions about your self and others around you, the interpretations of your past that you continue to hold in mind, wittingly or unwittingly, operate as perception filters that continue to powerfully impact your life today."
http://blogs.psychcentral.com/relationships/2012/04/the-power-of-crea ting-a-timeline-of-your-lifes-story/

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It's very hard to think positive with depression. Trust me, I know. I'm doing better at positive thinking, but it's an uphill battle, for sure!

posted April 25, 2017 07:04 AM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:

Anyway, neither party were saints nor am I or you, so let's move on shall we?

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posted April 25, 2017 08:35 AM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
Lindaland was a place i found when I was feeling the darkest and the most hopeless and helpless

I'm thankful to many modes and members who continue to generously help us and keep this divine knowledge alive for the generations to come

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That is lovely, Girl!

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posted April 25, 2017 05:17 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Teasel you are in this cycle were you constantly put your attention and focus on the negative and that just reinforces negative emotions and you then feel worse and worse and you get stuck in this vicious cycle.

When you get triggered ask yourself how do I handle things when I get triggered? what place do I tend to go to? you need to change something in that cycle so you don't end up with the same results.

The things you tell yourself and the things you focus on multiple, your thoughts control your emotions and your emotions your behavior.

Now lets go back to focusing on what this thread is intended to which is to honor Lindaland and try hard to keep things positive.

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